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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by chima4UK(m): 9:55am On Jun 17, 2019 |
uvie66: Lol. Full-time plate-washing hustling role. Her body go definitely tell am the difference. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 10:09am On Jun 17, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz:Read everything B4 making ur comment jor |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 10:11am On Jun 17, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:The only thing that will make a girl do this is feminism, am very sure of that, she took the feminist stuff too serious, now see were it has landed her. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Efegoma(m): 10:18am On Jun 17, 2019 |
As the father is doing her job by washing plate let the girl also do the father's job by paying her own school fees. Shikina ! |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by babyfaceafrica: 10:23am On Jun 17, 2019 |
paraltero:even if I am.busy reading for my PhD defense that will come tommorow..I was I will never ask my dad to wash the dishes....stop making excuses for a spoilt gal 5 Likes |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by babyfaceafrica: 10:29am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Goalnaldo:and get arrested in UK abi? |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by space9880: 10:30am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Duggedised12:which foreign forum do you go to? |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 10:41am On Jun 17, 2019 |
space9880: Leave am na, na Reddit the mumu dey talk about. Reddit that is full of Peverts & all round Idiots 3 Likes |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Goalnaldo(m): 10:46am On Jun 17, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica:which uk? You didn't read she visited her father in Nigeria. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by paraltero: 10:55am On Jun 17, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica: That shows the kind of relationship you have with your father. It's fine for you but you shouldn't expect everyone else to share the same. I mean, all these years, she clearly hasn't done anything that would warrant him stopping her fees but she asks him to wash his dishes ONE TIME and suddenly, she's a spoilt girl. And I certainly hope you're not the type of parent that would stop paying your kids fees because they ask you to do the dishes i.e, the kind of parent that's willing to ruin their child's life just to massage their bruised ego. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 11:10am On Jun 17, 2019 |
paraltero: I just told you my mind ,if you don’t like it that’s your business. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by willy2000(m): 11:14am On Jun 17, 2019 |
paraltero: If you see nothing wrong in what she did, then am I am really sorry for the kind of parent you are/will be. Do you even know what RESPECT is, it is either you are not Nigerian, or you have no Nigerian root. And the post did not say or reveal much on why the father took such a decision. There is more to it, maybe the washing of dishes was the last straw that broke the camels back. What do I know? |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by CioAngels(f): 11:57am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Very rude from of the child. A times mothers are reasons of children misbehaviours against their father. Father, please she has learnt the hard way, forgive her because she has to continue her studies. What will you say to this, i had of one who told the father to mope because he does it better. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by 12inchDickson: 12:12pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
paraltero:so you can request your dad to wash his plate am sure you are a Bastard 1 Like |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Inception(m): 12:15pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
paraltero: I am really wowed by your sense of entitlement. I suspect you are either 1. A teenager who is looking for how to get back at her parents and see this post as a venting ground or 2. An adult who came from a failed home, with no hope of redemption. I ask you again , if your daughter or son does exactly what this girl did to her father, and you have made such investments in her, would you oblige and go and wash the plate? Please answer sincerely and don't dodge the question again. Secondly (again) can you 'ask' your father (or mother ) to wash her plates after a meal? N.b, if your answer is yes, then you are probably raised as a bastard and have no business raising children. 4 Likes |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by monex(m): 12:18pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: the thing is most men like this do not even expect their wives to be an asset or provide |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by LilMissFavvy(f): 12:20pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Her father is correct, she deserves it. Infact she has ruined the father/daughter relationship. charliboy654: |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 12:21pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Rich girl.. HAPPY FATHERS DAY In arrears... |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Ultimatesammie(m): 12:23pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Chidonc:The post wasn't in relation to the girl obviously her actions were not wise but really doing dishes is now the greatest problem in the world smh. 1 Like |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by AmazonTopaz(f): 12:24pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
monex:Perhaps |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by LilMissFavvy(f): 12:26pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
I believe in the real definition of feminism. I don't know about any class of feminism you are referring to. The woman must take care of chores, her hubby should also help out when he is chanced to do so. If the woman is a career woman with a stiff schedule and the man does not wanna help out, then it is not a crime to get a domestic help. I know there are men who feel a woman should sweat it out all alone with chores, cooking, and work, some men may not accept she gets help, that's where problems will always arise. alizma: 1 Like |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by monex(m): 12:27pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Exodora: I am playing the ostrich here: Scenario one: an adult female telling an older and physically capable adult male (who is her father and financial provider) to do his dishes Scenario two: an adult female telling an older and physically capable adult male (who is her husband and financial provider) to do his dishes what makes the female in scenario one spoilt but not the female in scenario two? |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Ultimatesammie(m): 12:27pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
HabaHaba:Lol as a Christian that's why you're telling me to shut up, I should quote you meaning you're found a new ambition to argue with me kudos to you. If you read it well you'll know the post was in relation to men that think that way not the foolish girl, I never understand how washing plate is a big problem, maybe you should read how some successful men and big billionaires do some grunt works and chores with their wives having harmony and great relationship with each other. Be claiming superiority. If one has an average mindset you are average. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by LilMissFavvy(f): 12:32pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
The spoilt brat needs to be disciplined thoroughly, feminism does not encourage women to be disrespectful to their husbands, that is why some feminist are happily married. Because the mother is against the man stopping payment of fees does not mean the child copied bad attitude from her mother.You should know how some mothers are, she is more worried how the daughter will cope without money, and is less worried about the need to discipline their daughter. inereunwa1: |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by LilMissFavvy(f): 12:35pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Yes, dats how the men got it, simply cuz they got a pee pee down there. 1StopRudeness: |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by whizbee(m): 1:27pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
LordKO: I dunno what you mean yet but I like it |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by paraltero: 1:43pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Inception: If throwing insults is how you make your point, you can do better. If my kid asks me to do the dishes and I'm disposed to, then why not? What is so wrong with washing dishes? If the child was not there, wouldn't I still do the dishes myself? And yes, I can ask my parents to help me do the dishes because they're not insecure buttholes. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by paraltero: 1:44pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
jeytee: And I've heard or rather, read, what your mind contains. Moving right on. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by paraltero: 1:46pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
willy2000: How is asking someone to dishes a sign of disrespect? @bolded, exactly! So how do you know the girl is at fault if you admit the story is not complete? |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by paraltero: 1:50pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
12inchDickson: Bastard is the worst you can say? I'm disappointed. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by paraltero: 2:06pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
You guys' responses are exactly why so many Nigerian kids are not as close to their parents as the should be. You guys are so consumed by your god complexes that you don't realize that your behaviour gradually alienates your kids and makes them even less likely to ask you for stuff. Be truthful to yourselves: most of you would rather ask your friends and colleagues for stuff before you ask your parents. How is that a healthy parent-child relationship? You guys have no idea what the difference is between a healthy relationship between parent(s) and child and disrespect. Later it's the same you guys that would be asking your kids "why didn't you ask me? Why did you ask other people and not me?" Continue perpetuating the same unhealthy dynamic with your own kids o. I hope it pans out well for y'all. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by willy2000(m): 2:17pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
paraltero: How do you ask someone older than you, to do his/her dishes? This is simple home training 101. I want to believe that you are not Nigerian or not cultured as a Nigerian. Below is a simple and basic character of a well-groomed Nigerian child. When you wake up in the morning, you greet your parents/elders. I hope you do this/have done this . After eating your meal, you have to appreciate your parent/elders. (it is their responsibility) But the lesson here is, APPRECIATION Whenever you receive gifts, APPRECIATE! Say the magic words Thank you. Make your bed, when you wake up. Wash the dishes if there are any. Male children may be lacking here if they have elder sisters; there is an exception to this. So if you really have the above traits. How and why should you ask your father to wash his dishes after eating? Let us not discuss who owns the house and pays the rent. |
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