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Unfair Treatment To Housemaid by stanbiggi(m): 9:26am On Oct 18, 2010
What a world we are living, Yesterday we experienced power outtage all through the day. Runing on generator the house seems rather hot;  my girl friend and i went to Slick Night Club and Bar to Cool off,this was 7.00pm.
While we were having a nice time, next to our table was a family enjoying themselves too, but one of the kid who should be on the age range of 12-14years was not eating or drinking, looking poorly taken care-off and angry, was just watching her oga,madam and the kids chewing
It was envident that she was a house helper. i felt like buying the little girl a drink since her madam and oga cannot afford it,i considered the consequence on the girl if i do that.
I just want to use this forum to advice families who pratice this weakedness that its not fair  and God is watching us all

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Re: Unfair Treatment To Housemaid by Outstrip(f): 3:54pm On Oct 18, 2010
That mentality from Nigerians just robs me the wrong way. It should be seen as a national disgrace. Even family members do it to less fortunate family members. I hope that little girl uses her situation today to push her to be great tomorrow. People are so short sighted. How many times have we read stories of people falling into desperate need and the only person that could help them was someone they treated like poo poo. Anyway God bless that child. No condition is permanent
Re: Unfair Treatment To Housemaid by Nobody: 10:56am On Oct 24, 2010
Yes dats true.infact i have a cousin who treats her house help lyk she isnt a human being.al ha kids sleep on d bed bt she sleeps on d tiled floor in d kitchen,she eats afta evry1 has eating n has washd dia plates,somtyms my cousin givs ha left overs of ha husband n kids,she cant watch t.v even if she isnt around,if she doesnt wash ha kids cloths clean she'l beat d livin day lyt out of ha. And dis gal is just 12yrs old.i've talked 2 my cousin bout it n she told me dis is my house n i can do anytin i lyk.wen u av ur own home u can alow ur help 2 sleep on d same bed wit ur huby.infact i had a big disagreement wit ha n i told ha dat she shud rememba ha kids wil liv home 1 day n its ppu u dnt know dat wil takia of ur kids.if u dnt take kia of dis gal oda ppu wont takia of ur kids.i told ha i cant com 2 ur house again cos i cant stand d way u treat d unfortunate gal.many atimes she goes 2 bed hungry.d day i cukd n told ha 2 sit on d chair nt on d flor n my cousin saw wot i did she beat ha 4 sitin on d chair n ask me y am indulgin ha.its ova 2yrs now dat i dint go 2 ha house n our relatnshp tore apart.my mom noticed it n talkd 2 both of us.i told my mom dat as long as she doesnt treat ha help wit luv n discipline ip wount step in2 ha home.eventualy d gal ran away.she has realised ha mistakes now.so 4 al d women if u treat ur help in wickednes just know u r only makin ur kids vulnerable 2 wickednes
Re: Unfair Treatment To Housemaid by NAJALYN: 11:23pm On Oct 24, 2010
We all are one in the sight of God. So anyone treating a fellow human being badly because that one is a house help will answer to God. We go to Church & we are told to love our neighbours as ourselves. Some couples over labour their house help while their children relax and have fun. Some of these children old enough to get married do not know how to cook, because they have been pampered. I suppose the parents of such girls will go with them & help cook for their husbands. I appeal to all to help these house helps. Where you can send them to school do so. Do all you can to make them comfortable & God will reward you. Nobody knows what the future holds. The person you help today may take care of your family when you are gone. Such is the misery of life. A word is enough for the wise.
Re: Unfair Treatment To Housemaid by lao(f): 2:46am On Oct 25, 2010
I wonder why they cannot leave the girl back at home. How much is meat pie and coke that they cannot buy.
Re: Unfair Treatment To Housemaid by InkedNerd(f): 3:14am On Oct 25, 2010
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Re: Unfair Treatment To Housemaid by boomii(f): 1:42pm On Oct 25, 2010
I just don't understand why people maltreat their maid,our maid is even fatter than me cos we treat her almost the same like any relative and she performs her chores happily.So there is no big deal with treating maids right.
Re: Unfair Treatment To Housemaid by Nobody: 2:36pm On Oct 25, 2010
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