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Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by SmellingAnus(m): 12:32pm On Aug 10, 2019
dollytino4real:
guy I dey love u everyday because of ur words,
Thanks honey kiss kiss kiss
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by calculator123(m): 12:33pm On Aug 10, 2019
You need a babe in your life. It's totally normal at your age but please don't think of rape.
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by dollytino4real(f): 12:37pm On Aug 10, 2019
SmellingAnus:
Thanks honey kiss kiss kiss
guy, hw body, I dey delta
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by Patmos20192(m): 1:33pm On Aug 10, 2019
A 15 year old boy doing all this
I dont want to belive in your story
annolomy:
i have a strong urge for sex for my cousin,am a boy of fifteen year and my cousin is three year older than me,she lives with her family in the same compound with my family but different apartment,any time this particular girl will go and bath in the bathroom,i will follow her without him knowing,i will hide in the back of the bathroom and peep through a small hole to see her naked body,anytime i see her nipple i always loose control of my self,then i will hold my dick and masturbate till i cum sperm all over my body,pls i need an advice,because i have began to develop some bad thought in my mind,like raping her some day,i don't know what is happening to me right now.
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by Jochabed(f): 1:40pm On Aug 10, 2019
If your a christian, then you need to pray and fast, and based on your story you are fueling this urge by following her to the bathroom. You know of a David in the bible right, after seeing Bathsheba naked while taking her bath, u know what happened next. Your so young you should be focusing on your book o
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by iLegendd(m): 1:59pm On Aug 10, 2019
annolomy:
...
You need to be flogged. Is that what BBNaija is teaching you kids?
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by ADRIAN88(m): 2:55pm On Aug 10, 2019
My guy kukuma straff your cousin...ballz deeep,doggy style... So that you, your don Jon and every other person on this thread can finally rest in peace.
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by princfred(m): 3:00pm On Aug 10, 2019
dollytino4real:
guy I dey love u everyday because of ur words,
Envy is catching me.
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by Nobody: 3:13pm On Aug 10, 2019
annolomy:
i have a strong urge for sex for my cousin,am a boy of fifteen year and my cousin is three year older than me,she lives with her family in the same compound with my family but different apartment,any time this particular girl will go and bath in the bathroom,i will follow her without him knowing,i will hide in the back of the bathroom and peep through a small hole to see her naked body,anytime i see her nipple i always loose control of my self,then i will hold my dick and masturbate till i cum sperm all over my body,pls i need an advice,because i have began to develop some bad thought in my mind,like raping her some day,i don't know what is happening to me right now.
You need to be kept away from women asap or they carry you go gv female inmates for dinner b4 you become a collateral damage to your parent.
I m waiting for the next episode on how neighbors caught you peeping women in the bathroom
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by Nobody: 3:15pm On Aug 10, 2019
Katier00:
Seun please we need valid identity card before someone can be a registered members. Na all these toddlers dey spoil this Nairaland that took us years to build
i guess if he is or that he cooked up ds rubbish just to get likes
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by princfred(m): 3:34pm On Aug 10, 2019
Katier00:
Seun please we need valid identity card before someone can be a registered members. Na all these toddlers dey spoil this Nairaland that took us years to build
See NL builder lol
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by Bigseven(m): 4:23pm On Aug 10, 2019
Your cousin? Shey you are curse ni? Pictures of you pippin or footage else you just cooked up the story to fit your mindset. Beside at age 15 you've such in mind instead of developing yourself to be a better father tommorow. Leave ur father's house first then you'll understand me. Loosed boy
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by Okoroawusa: 6:08pm On Aug 10, 2019
Young man,u r not alone.I fell in love with my cousin too.It is a phase.It will go.

Try occupying your mind with other things. Or get a girlfriend
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by Katier00(f): 6:58pm On Aug 10, 2019
Orhevus:
You are simply pointless, to abuse u just dey hungry me, but I'll pass... Nonsense
na you get your mouth
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by Nobody: 7:10pm On Aug 10, 2019
fvck her once and for all so ur preaq can breath a sigh of relief.... and then everybody can rest.
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by izaac23(m): 8:11pm On Aug 10, 2019
Boy if it happens again, just concentrate on the pains u will feel if someone shud cut off ur dick, befor u say jack robin, u will loose that erection. It works for me.
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by dollytino4real(f): 9:55pm On Aug 10, 2019
princfred:
Envy is catching me.
pls dont jealousy us, u can still find ur own here
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by IamPlato(m): 10:23pm On Aug 10, 2019
How I Used To Be In Love With My Cousin... Its Been Long I Saw Her, i Dont Know If I Will Still Like Her but When Ever I Remember Her Face Back Then i Just Fall For Her
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by etrange: 11:41pm On Aug 10, 2019
bonaventure73:
it's normal thing for a boy of your age to have such sexual urges... I bet your cousin puts on skimpy cloths and you sometimes see her Indecent.
I experienced same... never try raping her because you'll end up disgracing yourself....
I wouldn't advice you to stop Cox u can't

See how you successfully lifted the blame off the boy and dumped it on the girl who's the potential victim here. You don't know the girl but you're already making excuses for the guy's anticipated crime. As if boys are objects with no sense of self control. Sincerely, we cannot fight the rape culture with this chauvinistic mentality.

@OP, it's true you're simply experiencing intense sexual urges due to puberty but it's also on you to understand your body's weaknesses at this point and take control of it. It's all in your head. You know what to do.
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by Bynz: 1:54am On Aug 11, 2019
I believe u r experiencing puberty we all at one time had this experience too. it is a phase that will pass.... But if this phase ain't properly handled the end can be disheartening.

But don't be alarmed it's good that you acknowledged ur monitoring n peeking act towards ur cousin as bad and you are tired tired of it. Acknowledging a problem is the first step towards achieving a solution. So my friend, u are well on right track!

Now this issue, that is the problem has a root cause because a tree that you don't uproot will eventually grow again. You gat to tackle this issue first from the root.

You see after God, the mind/heart is the totality of man and the basis/root of a man. And remember the mind/heart is a battle field where two warring factions that is forces of good versus what is bad are battling for control of your mind. To know who will win this battle much depends on the faction u feed. So lately it's likely you have been feeding the bad faction which is the wrong faction n as a result has gotten you to this stage. But not to worry the war is not over yet!

You need to try identify what n how you v been feeding this bad faction. Like the nairalander rightly wrote "pornography" but not limited to only pornography. Others are what u watch, read, listen and even the kinds of friends you keep etc if these are negatively influencing you they can pollute your mind. Stop it in its entirety! That is stop it patapata!

What to do
Remember it a think of the mind and also it's all about choice so;

1 Ask God to help you, ie pray!

1a. At this age you need to always bring down/stop every bad thought/imagination be it imagination or thoughts of having sex n masturbation whenever it comes your mind. How do u do that, when ever such thoughts n imaginations come, identify such as the bad warring faction trying to win the battle of your mind n say to it, "this thought is not of God I cast you down in Jesus name and bring my thoughts into the obedience of Christ. 2 Corinthians 10:3-5 King James Version (KJV) Read it n my emphasis is on verse 5.

1b. Replace the thought immediately with what so ever thoughts that are good, godly and even thoughts that will help your career and academics meditate on these. Philippians 4:8 KJV Get a Bible and read it!

Don't be in a secluded position that is do not be alone in a place be in company of ur immediate family or friends. You see been around people helps to avoid masturbation.

2. Flee and stop monitoring your cousin... And also do not be in a secluded place with her never o don't even test yourself.

3 Renew ur mind by reading n listening to good n worthwhile materials. At your age start with your books also read and listen to christain motivationals.

If u r currently on vacation before school resumes try to get yourself engaged by learning a skill e.g u can start with a computer class like web design, barbing, carpentry etc...

4 Be careful/mindful of people you relate this issue to especially those of your age grade.

Remember this habit wasn't built in a day. So try to discipline/apply urself to do all this written day by day n it will surprise you how you will be able to overcome/win this battle of your mind!

God help us!
Amen.

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Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by SmellingAnus(m): 7:57am On Aug 11, 2019
dollytino4real:
guy, hw body, I dey delta
fine babe... Wetin you go do there grin
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by princfred(m): 2:49pm On Aug 11, 2019
dollytino4real:
pls dont jealousy us, u can still find ur own here
more jealousy from that
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by dollytino4real(f): 8:45pm On Aug 11, 2019
SmellingAnus:
fine babe... Wetin you go do there grin
my mama
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by SmellingAnus(m): 8:46pm On Aug 11, 2019
dollytino4real:
my mama
oh you go see her... Nice...
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by dollytino4real(f): 9:33pm On Aug 11, 2019
SmellingAnus:
oh you go see her... Nice...
yes
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by rosy1992(f): 9:41pm On Aug 11, 2019
It's normal to have sexual urges it shows your biological anatomy is OK. But you need to control it. The way you handle your sexual feelings now will determine your adult life.

Dedicate your time to read Christian books, build your spiritual life and focus on your studies.

Don't spy on her again. get rid of any sexual thing that will corrupt your mindset.

When next you have that urge, take a cold bath, pray to God and sleep.
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by Kingsley10000: 9:44pm On Aug 11, 2019
I'm thankful to the Almighty for Naira Marley. Dude has subliminally made Naija folks feel less hypocritical about masturbation. I'd say it and say it again, Masturbation is a gift, if you aren't using it....you're worse than the biblical servant who buried his talents.

Have you ever sat back and imagined the number of unwanted pregnancies, STIs, rapes, forced marriages, heartbreaks, financial losses that could be prevented only if folks masturbated more? There woulda been no prostittutes either.

I know this, I am always awed by its realization. That's why I never fail to reach out my hands and grab my preek as a sign of appreciation to the most high.

Our God makes all things perfect, but his people perish for lack of knowledge.
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by Kingsley10000: 9:44pm On Aug 11, 2019
its wrong op
stop watching xvideos
Re: I Have A Strong Urge For Sex For My Cousin by Kingsley10000: 5:56am On Aug 12, 2019
always pray and fast. you will be delivered

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