First what i think really ruined me as a person. I was a lonely child, was also raised a loner.

So guys, i really have problem keeping a relationship, i hoped i'd settle down early in life buh things ain't looking like it 'd be.

I really do not like people in general, i don't like getting close to people, i was having few friends when i was in ng buh since i came here, i cut all communications with everyone and all and it doesn't really matter to me cuz i was raised a loner. I think this is the reason i'm finding it hard to keep a relationship too, i get fed up of people easily, no matter how much i love you within two - three weeks i'll outgrow it no matter how hard i try to convince myself that i need such person. I just don't see myself needing anyone in life even though i'm mostly alone, lonely and miserable buh i'm so used to that lifestyle. When i'm not at work, i'm inside even if i have nothing doing there, i'd sit and be staring at the ceilings.

And secondly, i was a lonely kid, had no one to talk to and all while growing up, i hardly tell people how i'm feeling, i don't tell my feelings even if i'm dying i don't care, i'd rather groan alone in pain, there was never just anyone to trust that much that i'd talk to, i think this thing is also contributing to my inability to keep a relationship.

I've always wanted to marry early, give birth early and retire early from business so my kids can take over and all, though i'm just 26 buh if i don't overcome this problem, i might grow so old, die and never marry cuz my spirit isn't just interested, it gets tired and sick of people (relationship) easily.

I remember dating older ladies thinking younger ones and age mates wouldn't really understand my feelings and all buh it's all same, 3 months max and i don't wanna see them anymore.

I'm tired of this attitude and i need help e dakun.

You need deliverance....

agbonkamen:
You need deliverance....

deliverance bawo?

We seem to be in the same shoes bro. For me, I've decided to settle for a baby mama and focus on my children.

I get tired of women easily. Especially when they start with their irritation.

Try weed.

Offpoint:
Try weed.

wo y3 mumu wati?

StandUpGuy247:
We seem to be in the same shoes bro. For me, I've decided to settle for a baby mama and focus on my children.

I get tired of women easily. Especially when they start with their irritation.

my local man cannot can anymore jare. I'm tired of being alone yet don't want anyone still.

It happens.

But learn to start tolerating people. Start relating well with people and please, go out of your way to make new friends.

And don't rush into a relationship because you want it. Allow yourself to adjust and relax by allowing people into your physical space.

I can't even know why young boy of today take woman for granted ... see, if there is a way to go about it without avoiding her you can talk to her about it

my brother waiting aunty pocohantas to come and give u Sakamanje

Cholls:
my brother waiting aunty pocohantas to come and give u Sakamanje

who's that?

Keketu:
I can't even know why young boy of today take woman for granted ... see, if there is a way to go about it without avoiding her you can talk to her about it

watchu saying? You drunk or s'thing?

Heloct:
It happens.

But learn to start tolerating people. Start relating well with people and please, go out of your way to make new friends.

And don't rush into a relationship because you want it. Allow yourself to adjust and relax by allowing people into your physical space.

thanks for your advise ma'am.

Typical African S. U

agbonkamen:
You need deliverance....

That's sooo me.

Just grow older these things will wear off.

DrHoganObi:
Just grow older these things will wear off.

been like this since i was younger, here i am today. Guess when i turn 55 or 60 it will wear off.

Kapeter:
been like this since i was younger, here i am today. Guess when i turn 55 or 60 it will wear off.

Some people stop bedwetting at 6, some at 15. Everyone is that different.

Kapeter:
First what i think really ruined me as a person. I was a lonely child, was also raised a loner.

So guys, i really have problem keeping a relationship, i hoped i'd settle down early in life buh things ain't looking like it 'd be.

I really do not like people in general, i don't like getting close to people, i was having few friends when i was in ng buh since i came here, i cut all communications with everyone and all and it doesn't really matter to me cuz i was raised a loner. I think this is the reason i'm finding it hard to keep a relationship too, i get fed up of people easily, no matter how much i love you within two - three weeks i'll outgrow it no matter how hard i try to convince myself that i need such person. I just don't see myself needing anyone in life even though i'm mostly alone, lonely and miserable buh i'm so used to that lifestyle. When i'm not at work, i'm inside even if i have nothing doing there, i'd sit and be staring at the ceilings.

And secondly, i was a lonely kid, had no one to talk to and all while growing up, i hardly tell people how i'm feeling, i don't tell my feelings even if i'm dying i don't care, i'd rather groan alone in pain, there was never just anyone to trust that much that i'd talk to, i think this thing is also contributing to my inability to keep a relationship.

I've always wanted to marry early, give birth early and retire early from business so my kids can take over and all, though i'm just 26 buh if i don't overcome this problem, i might grow so old, die and never marry cuz my spirit isn't just interested, it gets tired and sick of people (relationship) easily.

I remember dating older ladies thinking younger ones and age mates wouldn't really understand my feelings and all buh it's all same, 3 months max and i don't wanna see them anymore.

I'm tired of this attitude and i need help e dakun.

I'm having the same problem..I'm starting to think i would die alone with 2cats and a dog.

Cheers to a lonely life bruh...

So this isn't just me.

I am a lover boy. I fall in love easily.

But at the slightest feminine irritation. I lose interest. I keep the friendship but not romantic anymore.

I have never been in anything for a year.

I envy people who are in a 2 or more year relationship.

Like you, I grew up a loner.

I don't make friends easily. My circle is very small and i am always indoors.

I really wish I could keep a relationship. If I meet a girl and get her number, I might feel interested for a few weeks and it dies esp when she starts with the shakara....

I fear I may not marry. How do I stay in marriage

HannahHitler:
I'm having the same problem..I'm starting to think i would die alone with 2cats and a dog.

Cheers to a lonely life bruh...

Just tell the op you're interested in dating him na. Or better still hit his pm

Adjust yourself there is more in life.

mutant

Kapeter:
First what i think really ruined me as a person. I was a lonely child, was also raised a loner.

So guys, i really have problem keeping a relationship, i hoped i'd settle down early in life buh things ain't looking like it 'd be.

I really do not like people in general, i don't like getting close to people, i was having few friends when i was in ng buh since i came here, i cut all communications with everyone and all and it doesn't really matter to me cuz i was raised a loner. I think this is the reason i'm finding it hard to keep a relationship too, i get fed up of people easily, no matter how much i love you within two - three weeks i'll outgrow it no matter how hard i try to convince myself that i need such person. I just don't see myself needing anyone in life even though i'm mostly alone, lonely and miserable buh i'm so used to that lifestyle. When i'm not at work, i'm inside even if i have nothing doing there, i'd sit and be staring at the ceilings.

And secondly, i was a lonely kid, had no one to talk to and all while growing up, i hardly tell people how i'm feeling, i don't tell my feelings even if i'm dying i don't care, i'd rather groan alone in pain, there was never just anyone to trust that much that i'd talk to, i think this thing is also contributing to my inability to keep a relationship.

I've always wanted to marry early, give birth early and retire early from business so my kids can take over and all, though i'm just 26 buh if i don't overcome this problem, i might grow so old, die and never marry cuz my spirit isn't just interested, it gets tired and sick of people (relationship) easily.

I remember dating older ladies thinking younger ones and age mates wouldn't really understand my feelings and all buh it's all same, 3 months max and i don't wanna see them anymore.

I'm tired of this attitude and i need help e dakun.

I am just like you, only that I don't want a wife/gf or kids, and that I wasn't raised a loner.

My dear its simply sign of DEPRESSION, get a help before it goes more deeper into you. All the very Best dear.

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Biingoo:
Just tell the op you're interested in dating him na. Or better still hit his pm

I'm gay bruh

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HannahHitler:
I'm having the same problem..I'm starting to think i would die alone with 2cats and a dog.

Cheers to a lonely life bruh...

buh you gay sis. There shouldn't be problem.

And yea, cheers to a lonely life.

rikithor:
you will be relieved when you sign in for a driving class see our signature below

lol. Smh

mamajj17:
My dear its simply sign of DEPRESSION, get a help before it goes more deeper into you. All the very Best dear.

thanks ma'am. And yea it could prolly be depression cuz i really do not have interest in anything lately, buh how how do i get help though?

Kapeter:
thanks ma'am. And yea it could prolly be depression cuz i really do not have interest in anything lately, buh how how do i get help though?

I was once in your Shoe dear, l know how you feel , you firstly get yrself a THERAPY, l mean Psychology
share your Feelings, pls open up my dear, while u are there, don't need to be secretive.