(1)Show compassionate love

Children are so lovely, they reciprocates back to the society what they see there parents doing right in the family.
Showing your children real and compassionate love makes them emotional secured and to believe in themselves.


(2)Teach them daily tasks.

Children should be raised up by teaching them how to work diligently with there hands and mind.
Teach your children that hardwork pays and that in the real life scenario,uneasy lies the head that would desires a crown.
Teach them how to set goals and put a specific deadlines to all set goals.


(3)Teach them to make integrity based decisions.

Children should be taught how to think and not what to think.
We are in a time where fatherly roles are been eroded away.
Children should be taught how to do things right and not be influenced by peer pressures.
Children should be taught not to follow the crowd to do evil and that they should stand out when they are happy with decisions been proposed by there friends.


(4)Teach them delayed gratifications

We are in the era of 'fast and furious' people want to achieve a ten years goals within six months.
Human wants instant life results like an instant coffee, and have no tolerance for patience.
Children should not be given everything they asked from the parents.
The bad effect of giving your child all things he/she requested is painting a picture that life would give them everything without a struggle to work hard for it.
The long term effects of this is more pronounced after the death of the irresponsible parents who had raised a none diligent children.


(5)Teach them an independent lifestyle.

In the journey of life,two is a crowd in destiny.
All parents must teach there children to always stand out amidst the crowd.
Learning a life of not depending on others by children accelerates there emotional maturity and intelligence.
They should learn proper accountability to themselves and to the society.
Parents should teach there children that it's okay for them to have a private life of there own.
Children should learn from there parents that it's okay not to follow the crowd to do evil.

Good morning from Yankee, my fellow nairalanders.

Commenting first again!

Commenting again ooo!! Na so I go take hammer before my contemporaries ooo

Don't flog. If you must explain carefully to them why they are being flogged.

It makes them realise what they did was wrong and why they deserve punishment and also removes the "wicked" tag from you

Dozie32:
Good morning from Yankee, my fellow nairalanders.

Dozie32:
Commenting first again!

Dozie32:
Commenting again ooo!! Na so I go take hammer before my contemporaries ooo

After them go say you use 20 years for America you no bring anything come house. Them no go know say while others dey hustle seriously na first to comment our bloda dey pursue.

The rord is your stlenght

Good piece.

q

Use right hand to flog

And left hand to draw them close...

It worked for our fore fathers.

Hm. Nice

Good. But #5 should not be over emphasized.
Teaching a child self independence can be cool but there are exceptions when it comes to some areas:
* Remember nobody's has the monopoly of knowledge and wisdom, at a point in their lives they will have to open up to depends on someone guides, experience and expertise maybe via career, marriage or otherwise.

** It takes two to tango, you have to teach your child that a point in life he/she has to depends on their partner (Husband/Wife) not in the case of entitlement but in raising a strong, healthy and loving family. An independent woman doesn't need a man; An independent man those not deserve a woman.
Most of the family crisis is blame on how parents tends to train their kids, orientation that has been installed in them becomes more difficult to uninstall as years pass by. A single parent or a child from a broken home tends to have this independence life style in marriage; therefore, setting up a healthy relationship via marriage becomes a problem because the orientation they have.

Note: When teaching your child independence endeavor to make a clear exception in some areas especially when setting up a family (marriage).

In this Nigeria today we self esteem is not our problem oh we have people with too much s3lf esteem just look around
Adams oshiomole, Obasanjo their self esteem is admirable

Teach them money and bet management.

Do your best to put them in good school. That's where they spend over 70% of their early years. And there's no way that wouldn't impact them, no matter what you do.

This is what you should do if you really want to help them.

Good piece.

Good morning everyone

You are a very Stupid Fellow.

Shibaraba:
Don't flog. If you must explain carefully to them why they are being flogged.

It makes them realise what they did was wrong and why they deserve punishment and also removes the "wicked" tag from you




After them go say you use 20 years for America you no bring anything come house. Them no go know say while others dey hustle seriously na first to comment our bloda dey pursue.

The rord is your stlenght

ayogabriel:
This is what you should do if you really want to help them.

You deserve to be banished

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Darevofpeace:


(1)Show compassionate love

Children are so lovely, they reciprocates back to the society what they see there parents doing right in the family.
Showing your children real and compassionate love makes them emotional secured and to believe in themselves.


(2)Teach them daily tasks.

Children should be raised up by teaching them how to work diligently with there hands and mind.
Teach your children that hardwork pays and that in the real life scenario,uneasy lies the head that would desires a crown.
Teach them how to set goals and put a specific deadlines to all set goals.


(3)Teach them to make integrity based decisions.

Children should be taught how to think and not what to think.
We are in a time where fatherly roles are been eroded away.
Children should be taught how to do things right and not be influenced by peer pressures.
Children should be taught not to follow the crowd to do evil and that they should stand out when they are happy with decisions been proposed by there friends.


(4)Teach them delayed gratifications

We are in the era of 'fast and furious' people want to achieve a ten years goals within six months.
Human wants instant life results like an instant coffee, and have no tolerance for patience.
Children should not be given everything they asked from the parents.
The bad effect of giving your child all things he/she requested is painting a picture that life would give them everything without a struggle to work hard for it.
The long term effects of this is more pronounced after the death of the irresponsible parents who had raised a none diligent children.


(5)Teach them an independent lifestyle.

In the journey of life,two is a crowd in destiny.
All parents must teach there children to always stand out amidst the crowd.
Learning a life of not depending on others by children accelerates there emotional maturity and intelligence.
They should learn proper accountability to themselves and to the society.
Parents should teach there children that it's okay for them to have a private life of there own.
Children should learn from there parents that it's okay not to follow the crowd to do evil.

O.p, next time illustrate your point, it will be more helpful.

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Good

DuBLINGreenb:
In this Nigeria today we self esteem is not our problem oh we have people with too much s3lf esteem just look around
Adams oshiomole, Obasanjo their self esteem is admirable

I couldn't agree more especially oshiomhole, that man's confidence is what I aspire to be in life

Thanks for these nice points of yours. May God continue to bless you.