Can you as a single lady get married to a man with two kids from his previous marriage.

Can you as a single man get married to a lady with two kids from her previous marriage.

If I'm to be your sister what advice would you give me if I bring a man with two kids from his previous marriage as the person I want to get married to.

I can get married to a woman with 2 kids so far I found what I want in a woman in her.

Don't you have any better prospects? It depends on your age though. If you were my sister and below 30 I wouldn't allow you do it as I would feel you are too young to carry such baggage. If my sister is above 30 and wants to do such I would let her do it.

It's ur life
Live it as u please..

That's the advise we will give u...


Don't come here looking for story....

tensazangetsu20:
Don't you have any better prospects? It depends on your age though. If you were my sister and below 30 I wouldn't allow you do it as I would feel you are too young to carry such baggage. If my sister is above 30 and wants to do such I would let her do it.

whats the meaning of better prospect? Are u saying single guys without kids are better lovers?? Oga don't be stewpid this night...

Am even disappointed she came here to ask this trash of a question cause I know she is fuccccckkkking the man already.

You have no right to choose a man if you are plus 30, but if you are below 30, I'll advice you to make the decision yourself because you know the man better than we do.

joy199:
Can you as a single lady get married to a man with two kids from his previous marriage.

Can you as a single man get married to a lady with two kids from her previous marriage.

If I'm to be your sister what advice would you give me if I bring a man with two kids from his previous marriage as the person I want to get married to.

The questions I would ask would be

Is the previous wife dead? Cos you don't wanna be looking back for the rest of your life

Are the kids cool with you? They can sure give you hell o

Is he very good in bed? Cos you can't sentence your life to a old cargo that has given his best sex to the previous lady

Is he rich and ready to establish you in many ways? Yes oooo money counts.

If your answers are not a strong YES... Then my sister run for your life. You are about to be a maid with a ring.

carzola:
whats the meaning of better prospect? Are u saying single guys without kids are better lovers?? Oga don't be stewpid this night...

Am even disappointed she came here to ask this trash of a question cause I know she is fuccccckkkking the man already.

You are very foolish for this statement. Idiot. I am not Buhari the cause of your frustrations. Fool.

tensazangetsu20:


You are very foolish for this statement. Idiot. I am not Buhari the cause of your frustrations. Fool.

u can not be Buhari cause ur a worthless product
Of an slowpoke parents. ..

Ladylite:


The questions I would ask would be

Is the previous wife dead? Cos you don't wanna be looking back for the rest of your life

Are the kids cool with you? They can sure give you hell o

Is he very good in bed? Cos you can't sentence your life to a old cargo that has given his best sex to the previous lady

Is he rich and ready to establish you in many ways? Yes oooo money counts.

If your answers are not a strong YES... Then my sister run for your life. You are about to be a maid with a ring.

She is still alive, but live in another city with the kids.

I haven't met the kids before only saw their pictures on his phone, the first child is 7, why the other is 4.

Can't say if he is good on bed, because we haven't tried it before.

He is 35 years old.

His salary range is between 100-130k. So I don't know if I should call that rich or average.

The truth is that the Yes is shaking, not so strong.

Thanks for your advice, i appreciate.

Avast:
I can get married to a woman with 2 kids so far I found what I want in a woman in her.

Thanks for your sincere answer.

tensazangetsu20:
Don't you have any better prospects? It depends on your age though. If you were my sister and below 30 I wouldn't allow you do it as I would feel you are too young to carry such baggage. If my sister is above 30 and wants to do such I would let her do it.

I'm in my late 20s and no one is even rushing me to get married. But I just want to be sure i'm not going to make mistakes of getting married wrongly. Thanks for your advice.

No I cannot even marry an after one lady

Even if u don born and e die

I no go ft Marry u

carzola:
It's ur life
Live it as u please..

That's the advise we will give u...


Don't come here looking for story....

Ok oo, thank you still.

donstan18:
You have no right to choose a man if you are plus 30, but if you are below 30, I'll advice you to make the decision yourself because you know the man better than we do.

I'm below 30. Thank you.

Let baby daddy marry baby mamas. They have the same struggle. It is a thankless job to be a step mum. You have to assess if that life is for you. If you don’t have the patience to be a step mum and tolerate a lot as a result then I advice you to seek love elsewhere.

[quote author=Homeboiy post=83026809]No I cannot even marry an after one lady

Even if u don born and e die

I no go ft Marry u[/quote

Ok, thanks for contributing.

baby124:
Let baby daddy marry baby mamas. They have the same struggle. It is a thankless job to be a step mum. You have to assess if that life is for you. If you don’t have the patience to be a step mum and tolerate a lot as a result then I advice you to seek love elsewhere.

Thanks, i appreciate.

joy199:

I'm in my late 20s and no one is even rushing me to get married. But I just want to be sure i'm not going to make mistakes of getting married wrongly. Thanks for your advice.

And you have no single guy pestering you for a relationship. If you were my sister I won't let you do it. Marrying a single father with two kids is too much of a baggage for you to carry at your age.

tensazangetsu20:


And you have no single guy pestering you for a relationship. If you were my sister I won't let you do it. Marrying a single father with two kids is too much of a baggage for you to carry at your age.

The truth is that most men who are always coming for me are divorcee, the single guys just want to play around and I'm not ready for that �. Thanks for your advice. I appreciate.

No. Why would I when I'm not desperate? OP, don't be in a haste to marry a man w| kids. I won't marry a man with a kid/kids. Divorcees with kids have too much bagage and unfinished business with their baby mamas (or baby daddies).

In fact, I will only marry a virgin man sef.

joy199:


She is still alive, but live in another city with the kids.

I haven't met the kids before only saw their pictures on his phone, the first child is 7, why the other is 4.

Can't say if he is good on bed, because we haven't tried it before.

He is 35 years old.

His salary range is between 100-130k. So I don't know if I should call that rich or average.

The truth is that the Yes is shaking, not so strong.

Thanks for your advice, i appreciate.

Sweetie, don't do it.

joy199:


The truth is that most men who are always coming for me are divorcee, the single guys just want to play around and I'm not ready for that �. Thanks for your advice. I appreciate.

What is it about you that keeps attracting divorcees?

No, I wouldnt.

Without knowing the details of the story, my advice to you would be to forget it and find somebody else.

Unless he is widowed, no i will not encourage a single lady to marry a man with two children and vice versa.

Single with two or more children are better off with single or widowed parents. Thats just my opinion. Nothing is perfect or cast in stone.

Ever wondered why the relationship with his former partner hit the rock even after two kids?

saucecode:

What is it about you that keeps attracting divorcees?

I have no idea.

Resurgent2016:
Ever wondered why the relationship with his former partner hit the rock even after two kids?

After introduction, when it was time planning for court and white wedding she said she wasn't interested in the marriage any longer, she packed out of the house with her children to her parents place. So he said I wasn't there.

Poster, don't try it. I understand how you feel as regards you wanting to settle down because age isn't on your side, I'm in my late twenties too turning 30 next month. No man is forth coming yet as I'm trusting God for the right person but that doesn't mean I should throw myself to the available one. It would have been better if it were a widower but a single father with two kids and the mother still alive is a NO NO for me.

You just keep praying and trusting God for the best and also keep yourself busy too. If you are a Christian you can join a unit in church and serve God whole heartedly and see what God would do.
Cheers!!!

joy199:


After introduction, when it was time planning for court and white wedding she said she wasn't interested in the marriage any longer, she packed out of the house with her children to her parents place. So he said I wasn't there.

In other words, you don't why his last relationship failed because the woman could not just have decided to terminate the relationship without a reason.

I don't think there is an issue marrying a man with two kids, but I think it is unwise marrying a man without having knowledge of why his last relationship failed even after having kids. Else, tomorrow you may be in the woman's shoe.

Resurgent2016:


In other words, you don't why his last relationship failed because the woman could not just have decided to terminate the relationship without a reason.

I don't think there is an issue marrying a man with two kids, but I think it is unwise marrying a man without having knowledge of why his last relationship failed even after having kids. Else, tomorrow you may be in the woman's shoe.

Ok, thank you.