I thought nairaland has changed. The last time they added by toks to the article, i didn't bother opening cos i don't like his ideology. Why didn't they do the same with this article? Nairaland mods, please give us the chance to choose what we read. Thanks.

Hipsofagoddess:
I thought nairaland has changed. The last the added by toks to the article, i didn't bother opening cos i don't like his ideology. Why didn't they do the same with this article? Nairaland mods, please give us the chance to choose what we read. Thanks.

And you had to go through the stress to write all these when you should have simply ignored the thread as soon as you saw my User ID.

LilMissFavvy:
What's bad with having standards? The problem is ladies inability to detect the right man asap and hold onto him, because for the average woman in her single days, out of all the men that approached her, her kind must have been among, but she might not have been smart to know.

same thing toks2008 is saying

Toks2008 invite me for some occasion..wedding, baby dedication.. I'll come

Toks2008:


And you had to go through the stress to write all these when you should have simply ignored the thread as soon as you saw my User ID.

I needed to let the mods know. Go check your previous post, you won't see my comment.

Hipsofagoddess:


I needed to let the mods know. Go check your previous post, you won't see my comment.

If I were you I won't stress it cos your opinion is just one out of a million members on nairaland....just quietly exit any thread you open in error.

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
only 300k and you are happy with your life pls desist from quoting me any further, I don't interact with wretched guys thanks
I only talk to them rich niggas that earn 8 figures, dass my type

Do u also earn up to a 8 figure income, to have something in common with this your type of niggas?

Toks2008:


If I were you I won't stress it cos your opinion is just one out of a million plus members on nairaland....just quietly exit any thread you open in error.

Stop mentioning me

Hipsofagoddess:


Stop mentioning me

Are you still on this thread!

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
Story I can never marry or date a broke hass

I like your mindset,even me always reason that once I'm ok,I can't marry a lady from a poor home..

Toks2008:


Why you dey quarrel yourself?

I gave an option...Go woo that man that matches your standard when you see him rather than wait and wish he comes to you.

Again...the stopwatch pressurizing. Take it slow, seek and don't settle for less

All these threads sha

Na wa

24kmagic:
Until God himself comes down to tell Nigerians that He doesn't give a partner, people will keep on believing that he does.

God no de give husband or wife.

God doesn't have control over your happiness. He will bless whatever you bring to him.

He learnt his lesson when Adam told him "the woman you gave me" . God doesn't want another Adam kind of situation.

Him go just fold him hand de watch you as you de do your thing. So that by the time weh the idiot girl begin show you pepper. You no go say "God which kind wife you give me so"?

All those people whe say de de fast make God reveal their life partner for them just de hallucinate. Because last last na man weh don toast you before you go go for, not someone sent from heaven.

Anyways, I trust sheeples, they will never agree with me.

So lemme just fvck off.

Great comment but I think you're also sheeple for thinking that God is a man that folds his hands to watch people do things. Sheeple calling sheeple sheeple.

lefulefu:
u no be nigerian lady nau so in ur case it will be easy for u to shoot ur shot at a guy u fancy .in nigeria its taboo for a lady to talk to a guy she fancies .in naija a lady will see a guy she is dying for but instead of her to make a move she will stay in one corner praying and hoping dat the guy notices her cos she wouldnt want to be tagged as cheap if she makes the first move .relationship in naija can be very dicey .

please you guys should quit this narrative. It is no longer a taboo for a lady to approach a man. It has happened and it is still continuing to happen.

lefulefu:
u no be nigerian lady nau so in ur case it will be easy for u to shoot ur shot at a guy u fancy .in nigeria its taboo for a lady to talk to a guy she fancies .in naija a lady will see a guy she is dying for but instead of her to make a move she will stay in one corner praying and hoping dat the guy notices her cos she wouldnt want to be tagged as cheap if she makes the first move .relationship in naija can be very dicey .

Who made it a taboo for a lady to approach a guy?

sisisioge:
Hmmm...all these long stories advising women to lower their standards just so they could quickly bear the prestigious title of "Mrs" sef.

No wonder we have a lot of unhappily married women who have resorted to either cheating rebelling against or simply unhappily accepting their fate in the resultant marriages. All because they settled for less due to the untoward pressure from the society... Alas, these men too end up cheating, abusing or even becoming suddenly single again in their middle age. Why, because the society have equated success to marriage, therefore every female of marriageable age should count herself lucky to be asked to bear that title before it becomes too late. Divorce, unhappy marriages, domestic violence, etc are reactions to unmet expectations.

Take a poll around NL posts (family session), gist in beer parlours, the neighbourhood or simply sit on your Nana's laps to hear gist. Marriage is a lifetime commitment that could turn awry if not done well. Slow down, know what you want, seek and don't settle for less. May God bless us with good people.

Even u wrote long story. Instead of allowing men to toast u, y don't u do d toasting based on ur own criteria so u don't experience all these things u saying

even the one u have married still giving issues Am just tired.

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
Story I can never marry or date a broke hass

my sister dated a broke guy, now he is very rich, and made my sister rich as well by a alot sacrifice for her, and there is a lot of respect in the home.though u may be luck to find a rich guy, but what if otherwise, I will advise u to work hard and forget hoping that one man will bless u and your family. My 2 scents. Same advice I give my sisters and they are enjoying it

Guest007:


Your portion isn't mine... Money is abundant in my reality.

This girl never pass 18 yrs o, she donno what's up

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
Story I can never marry or date a broke hass

Na so Aunty Angelina been de talk those days

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
Story I can never marry or date a broke hass

I pity ladies that will support this notion. I'm sure the poster is still a teenager.

liverpool72:
even the one u have married still giving issues
Am just tired.

Nah patience and tolerance o bros otherwise most men n women go run out of their marriage.

24kmagic:
Until God himself comes down to tell Nigerians that He doesn't give a partner, people will keep on believing that he does.

God no de give husband or wife.

God doesn't have control over your happiness. He will bless whatever you bring to him.

He learnt his lesson when Adam told him "the woman you gave me" . God doesn't want another Adam kind of situation.

Him go just fold him hand de watch you as you de do your thing. So that by the time weh the idiot girl begin show you pepper. You no go say "God which kind wife you give me so"?

All those people whe say de de fast make God reveal their life partner for them just de hallucinate. Because last last na man weh don toast you before you go go for, not someone sent from heaven.

Anyways, I trust sheeples, they will never agree with me.

So lemme just fvck off.

You're intelligent......... I respect that

rosalieene:

for once, I agree with you.

I feel ur pain

Fountainofyouth:



True sometimes, one time I met my heart desire then found out down there is too small for my heart desire, I left him

Point is, all you want can't be packaged in one person, you just have to make do with it anyhow, but for me presently, I got a full package

Too small? Or yours was too wide for him?

LilMissFavvy:
What's bad with having standards? The problem is ladies inability to detect the right man asap and hold onto him, because for the average woman in her single days, out of all the men that approached her, her kind must have been among, but she might not have been smart to know.

Nah... She has to raise her standards especially when the demand is high

24kmagic:
Until God himself comes down to tell Nigerians that He doesn't give a partner, people will keep on believing that he does.

God no de give husband or wife.

God doesn't have control over your happiness. He will bless whatever you bring to him.

He learnt his lesson when Adam told him "the woman you gave me" . God doesn't want another Adam kind of situation.

Him go just fold him hand de watch you as you de do your thing. So that by the time weh the idiot girl begin show you pepper. You no go say "God which kind wife you give me so"?


All those people whe say de de fast make God reveal their life partner for them just de hallucinate. Because last last na man weh don toast you before you go go for, not someone sent from heaven.

Anyways, I trust sheeples, they will never agree with me.

So lemme just fvck off.

May I also add that there is a place in the Bible where it was written "he that finds a wife finds a good thing" key word is 'he'. The Bible didn't say "he that finds a wife through the help of God finds a good thing", meaning that God has set out potential spouses everywhere, it is left for us to make a choice.

24kmagic:
Until God himself comes down to tell Nigerians that He doesn't give a partner, people will keep on believing that he does.

God no de give husband or wife.

God doesn't have control over your happiness. He will bless whatever you bring to him.

He learnt his lesson when Adam told him "the woman you gave me" . God doesn't want another Adam kind of situation.

Him go just fold him hand de watch you as you de do your thing. So that by the time weh the idiot girl begin show you pepper. You no go say "God which kind wife you give me so"?

All those people whe say de de fast make God reveal their life partner for them just de hallucinate. Because last last na man weh don toast you before you go go for, not someone sent from heaven.

Anyways, I trust sheeples, they will never agree with me.

So lemme just fvck off.

Just say you don't believe in God and that you DE find how to tell Christian word.

Cuteamigo1:
please you guys should quit this narrative. It is no longer a taboo for a lady to approach a man. It has happened and it is still continuing to happen.

in other places its normal for a lady to approach u or even give u sign if she likes you but in nigeria my brother it hardly happens

We ain't saying the same thing.

Cutehector:
same thing toks2008 is saying

Fountainofyouth:



True sometimes, one time I met my heart desire then found out down there is too small for my heart desire, I left him

Point is, all you want can't be packaged in one person, you just have to make do with it anyhow, but for me presently, I got a full package

Na wao! Na d guy create himself? U no know say na God u dey mock?

Cuteamigo1:
please you guys should quit this narrative. It is no longer a taboo for a lady to approach a man. It has happened and it is still continuing to happen.

If ladies can cultivate this habit in naija e go make perfect sense and it will be 9f immense benefit to them.

After all this is the era of Gender equality.