ecolime:
You make sense Op.

So many kids on this forum dishing out senseless advises. Reason why i visit Quora more often these days.

I pray for peace in her home.

midnighter:
He has chased her away from the house over small issues up to 5 times and keeps telling her she is worthless. This is not normal. She doenst need to divorce necessarily but they cant continue like that

madridguy:
As a Muslim, one thing Allah SWT permitted but frown at is " divorce ".
In this regards, it is better the wife call her family and her husband's family and ask her husband this simple question " are you tired of this marriage " i think the man should be able to say whatever he has in mind. How could a responsible man be saying " i no do again at any little provocation " sending your wife out all the time. They both need to discuss this and find a lasting solution once and for all.

ecolime:
You make sense Op.

So many kids on this forum dishing out senseless advises. Reason why i visit Quora more often these days.

I pray for peace in her home.

madridguy:
Gasoilandtheory: I believe this piece of explanation will enlighten you a bit about polygamy in ISLAM.
Mind you, ISLAM is a perfect religion.

The verse most commonly referred to with the topic of polygamy is Verse 3 of Surah 4 An-Nisa (Women). A translation by Yusuf Ali is shown below:

If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (a captive) that your right hands possess, that will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice.

— Qur'an, Sura 4 (An-Nisa), Ayah 3[1]
It is believed these Verses were revealed after the Battle of Uhud, in which many Muslim men were killed, leaving widows and orphans. Thus, many[who?] argue that these Verses have been revealed "because of Allah's concern for the welfare of women and orphans who were left without husbands and fathers who died fighting for the Prophet and for Islam. It is a verse about compassion towards women and their children; it is not about men or their sexuality." [2]

madridguy:
Bro forget age and let stop calling members of this house kids. We sees issue differently and so the advise we offer.

If i may ask you, would you consider a man sending his wife packing over mere issue a matured man? To me age is just a number.

ecolime:

A man sending his wife packing over slight issues is not mature. That's very childish. I am not in support of the man's action (if true).

What I am against really is people giving advices that can further break down the couple's marriage.

LadySarah:


The right thing to have done is to open a thread teaching men about love.The way Jesus really loves

LadySarah:


I'm on quora and i will tell you that its members will categorically advice the woman to kick the man out of the house or call the cops on him.

Alot of you 'African'men wont even take 10 percent of What you dish out to your wives in the name of marriage.

Love indeed.You dont treat What you love badly

ecolime:
You make sense Op. So many kids on this forum dishing out senseless advises. Reason why i visit Quora more often these days.

I pray for peace in her home.

midnighter:


Lol Quora where they even make an effort to paint Nigeria in the most positive light

The advice there would be even more "senseless" oh

ecolime:

I like their own kind of "senseless" advice.. lol. They are very objective and unbiased.

Here, most women usually support women blindly while men support men blindly.

I wish our views can always be more balanced.

ecolime:
I pray for peace in her home.

ecolime:

I like their own kind of "senseless" advice.. lol. They are very objective and unbiased.

M.stick:
Please nobody wakes up and decides to divorce, there must have been series of events that led to that. Divorce isn't cheap and easy, staying together when things ain't working is. My mom left my dad after 30 years and we (my siblings and I) wished it had happened earlier. Their marriage was a battlefield and the whole church and family meetings didn't make it easier because no matter what my dad does heck even if he broke my mum's head she still had to beg even when its glaring that she wasn't at fault.

Onyeozichukwu:
At Op, a lot of people spew lots of trash here when it comes to relationship and marriage. They think it's a one-way affair. 70% of them have never been married or in any serious relationship.

KevinDein:
Literally every marriage conflict that is brought to the family section is followed by a barrage of individuals mostly females advising the fellow to quit. This is genuinely confusing because I'm damn sure there isn't one marriage out there that is without a conflict.

No, really, why bother marrying then since we are required to throw in the towel at any sign of difficulty (which is inevitable)?

I can't say I'm knowledgeable or experienced enough to give advice on marriage issues but I can clearly see this section isn't a good place to get one.

Just a congregation of bitters.

LadySarah:


The right thing to have done is to open a thread teaching men about love.The way Jesus really loves

LadySarah:


I'm on quora and i will tell you that its members will categorically advice the woman to kick the man out of the house or call the cops on him.

Alot of you 'African'men wont even take 10 percent of What you dish out to your wives in the name of marriage.

Love indeed.You dont treat What you love badly