mumumugu:


sex is physical activity gir her.she is not emotionally attached to you. she is not in love with you. try to toast her again like you just met her.try doing new activities to win back her love.forget about the quarrel, focus on her loving you. I tink she is loving someone else

pocohantas:


2018, married for about 8yrs with a son and two daughters.



2019, married since 2012 and now 3 sons.

What happened to your 2daughters?

They changed sex or what?

GrabHisBalls:
Be careful of what you wish for.

Demanding for sex in that manner isn't a way or even near a way of apologizing. She has no regards for her husband's feelings and it's bad. There was this guy I dated and over time, I realized he doesn't talk about issues. He sweeps it under the rug and we communicate effectively afterwards like it never happened, but I was never cool with that. I prefer we talk about our differences than pretending it never happened. It's not a healthy way of settling differences. In my own case, he offends me again thinking it's petty and all I did was to walk away from the relationship. Walking away was a product of accumulated anger and I don't regret it.

byna:
We got married in 2012 and ever since then we have been blessed with 3kids (3,boys).
I have a monthly upkeep of 130k for my wife as she only comes to our factory and goes home without doing much for the day aside taking care of kids and cooking.

I noticed that each time we have a misunderstanding, we both keep straight faces for days and she behaves as though she is less concerned to make up. It doesn't affect her chores or cooking as for me I hardly reject food served.

Now, after a couple of days, she would come for sex without wanting us to discuss and resolve the disagreement first.

Even when I feel rudely insulted, this happens. She feels whatever she does doesnt matter as long as Las Las na sex go end am. But I feel it's wrong and issues should be kept straight and fun time separate.

So we had same issues last week and we have been keeping straight faces yet I've been eating her food. Sometimes she joins me for mng prayers, sometimes she does her privately ( we do together before any misunderstanding)
So this mng she appeared stark nude to my room and demanded for sex after almost 15 days. I told her it would be unfair if we sweep the pass e events under the duvet. She got up and told me she wasn't ready to discuss any past misunderstanding that she came to f*uck. I told her I wasn't ready till issues are ironed out.

She taught it was business as usually as my John Thomas always disappoint me each time I see her nude but today I was ready to turn her down.

I Want to know if it's proper to always treat ur spouse the way you like knowing fully well that sex is their weak point for reconciliation?

Mature minds pls

Pussywar:
not wanting sex isn't childish, sir.

sleek82:
I think you are concentrating only on when things are not going good around you to settle issues, try to change it a little....when things are going good, give her a lot of sex, make her happy, buy her things and let her be gushing in gifts, good sex and all happy, then have the conversations with her...even a witch will calm down at this time. It worked for me sha. My wife gets angry easily and it's something I don't like...she would get angrier anytime I try to talk about it. I started with increase in sex, gifts, unexplained money in her account, then the conversation. Now, we hardly quarrel and if we ever do, we settle it on time. Try it

Paulo3ree:
Sex nor her domestic responsibility isn't her weak point, that's the only loyalty she knows. Human differences is unlimited. Encourage her to speak up, although initially its certainly going to sound cracked like a disc but listen and encourage her to speak up the more
Note;
If the home fails you failed, keep it in your mind.no sign of unfaithfulness or disobedience but communication palava. She loves you as his Superman and you love her too. Don't try to deny it oooooh

pocohantas:


2018, married for about 8yrs with a son and two daughters.



2019, married since 2012 and now 3 sons.

What happened to your 2daughters?

They changed sex or what?

byna:


I have beat her once and she enjoyed it. Infact she wanted it. She once told me she wants me acting fierce, it turns her on not being too gentle. But me as a gentle man, d thing tire me o

pocohantas:


2018, married for about 8yrs with a son and two daughters.



2019, married since 2012 and now 3 sons.

What happened to your 2daughters?

They changed sex or what?

omochelsea004:
guy i really understand how you feel, but by now you should know that is her own way, you guys already have 3 kids meaning it's not today that your wife started the behavior, there is no booklet or manual for being happy in marriage bro, so i will advise u keep doing whatever you feel it is that is working for you guys, don't start complaining now, because it will do you no good, besides! you are blessed to have such wife that will still be initiating sex even when you guys are not in good terms, i won't deceive you, that type of woman is very hard to come by, my wife will never initiate sex even when we are in good terms not to talk of when we have misunderstanding with each other & is giving me headache

Canapoly999:
nice point man

byna:


She would be the last to apologize if at all. I'm not enjoying the malice but at least am eating my served meals. I think she has an over bloated pride.

byna:
We got married in 2012 and ever since then we have been blessed with 3kids (3,boys).
I have a monthly upkeep of 130k for my wife as she only comes to our factory and goes home without doing much for the day aside taking care of kids and cooking.

I noticed that each time we have a misunderstanding, we both keep straight faces for days and she behaves as though she is less concerned to make up. It doesn't affect her chores or cooking as for me I hardly reject food served.

Now, after a couple of days, she would come for sex without wanting us to discuss and resolve the disagreement first.

Even when I feel rudely insulted, this happens. She feels whatever she does doesnt matter as long as Las Las na sex go end am. But I feel it's wrong and issues should be kept straight and fun time separate.

So we had same issues last week and we have been keeping straight faces yet I've been eating her food. Sometimes she joins me for mng prayers, sometimes she does her privately ( we do together before any misunderstanding)
So this mng she appeared stark nude to my room and demanded for sex after almost 15 days. I told her it would be unfair if we sweep the pass e events under the duvet. She got up and told me she wasn't ready to discuss any past misunderstanding that she came to f*uck. I told her I wasn't ready till issues are ironed out.

She taught it was business as usually as my John Thomas always disappoint me each time I see her nude but today I was ready to turn her down.

I Want to know if it's proper to always treat ur spouse the way you like knowing fully well that sex is their weak point for reconciliation?

Mature minds pls

HRHQueenPhil:
wow,ur type are rare.. d ability to make a woman Smile is a powerful man.. how did u know d secret to my life like this ..best advise ever. U must write a book ..wow

HRHQueenPhil:
wow,ur type are rare.. d ability to make a woman Smile is a powerful man.. how did u know d secret to my life like this ..best advise ever. U must write a book ..wow

grandstar:
byna

Your wife seems determined to always have the last laugh. She obviously loves you and one reason is because you indulge her. She probably knows she's stubborn and appreciates you for putting up with some fussiness.

It is best both of you follow the bibles advise since it is from our maker, remembering that we are dust.

Apostle Paul in the book of Ephesians admonishes us in Ephesians 4:26 "Be wrathful, but do not sin; do not let the sun set while you are angry"

Let that be your guide. God's word never fails (Read Proverbs 3:5-6)

Urge your wife to see reason. She seems to like s little petting. That's how it is with headstrong people.

Anyway, we've not heard her side but giving you the benefit of the doubt.

Also, never forget this admonishion from Paul "Husbands, continue loving your wives(Read Ephesians 5:25) It didn't say love your wives but rather continue loving your wives.

If you are interested to know the secrets of having a happy family, please visit www.jw.org and search "Secrets to a happy family.

I wish you the best

cococandy:
To keep up the home. You realize that means food, miscellaneous things, care of the kids etc etc

BTW, I’m not shitting on the man’s efforts please. I just wanted him to know that’s it’s irrelevant to bring that up in this post as it’s unrelated this giving the impression that it may be part of their issues if he’s fond of bringing up the money he gives her and minimizing her own contributions to the home.

Born2Breed:
Oga bros na wah for you oh.....you nor sabi say Body language na the best tool of communication.

She don apologize na.....make she shout first.

Word of advice dont turn back a woman that has been turned on, na fire oh, you need to quench am or else.....

Else what?

ctex4real:
Its a lovely book. A friend recommended it and I and my wife have read it

Rubby007:
bros you're lucky o please don't misuse that privilege bro, instead of ignoring her in that mood, instead u punish her, love her, and f**k her all together in DAT mood. bros she is also showing her weakness to you an u should make good use of it. you don't have a problem my brother ( my opinion o ) please don't create one. in my own case each time I quarrel with my enstrange wife even over the smallest thing like toothpaste next thing her family will start calling me it will now turn to war. the world as only witnessed 2 world wars, you know how mean world wars I have witnessed in just 3yrs of marriage? bros enjoy ur wife o fu*k sense into her I beg

byna:
We got married in 2012 and ever since then we have been blessed with 3kids (3,boys).
I have a monthly upkeep of 130k for my wife as she only comes to our factory and goes home without doing much for the day aside taking care of kids and cooking.

I noticed that each time we have a misunderstanding, we both keep straight faces for days and she behaves as though she is less concerned to make up. It doesn't affect her chores or cooking as for me I hardly reject food served.

Now, after a couple of days, she would come for sex without wanting us to discuss and resolve the disagreement first.

Even when I feel rudely insulted, this happens. She feels whatever she does doesnt matter as long as Las Las na sex go end am. But I feel it's wrong and issues should be kept straight and fun time separate.

So we had same issues last week and we have been keeping straight faces yet I've been eating her food. Sometimes she joins me for mng prayers, sometimes she does her privately ( we do together before any misunderstanding)
So this mng she appeared stark nude to my room and demanded for sex after almost 15 days. I told her it would be unfair if we sweep the pass e events under the duvet. She got up and told me she wasn't ready to discuss any past misunderstanding that she came to f*uck. I told her I wasn't ready till issues are ironed out.

She taught it was business as usually as my John Thomas always disappoint me each time I see her nude but today I was ready to turn her down.

I Want to know if it's proper to always treat ur spouse the way you like knowing fully well that sex is their weak point for reconciliation?

Mature minds pls

anslem04:


next time u wana make a point say it out ,i can't read minds

nairamaniac:


It waa extremely necessary he brought up his financial contribution to his wife and to his home.

For money and sex are usually the top-2 fundamental factors of turbulence in marriages.


Believe me, if he hadn't voluntarily stated anything about money in his post, half of the commenters here would have asked him about it, directly or indirectly.

Now he mentions it, you stone him with da "why did u have to bring that up here, then shit on his effort", to borrow your words.

Fine he messed up by minimizing his wife's contributions, but that didnt mean u had to shade him with da "how much is 130k, no be your mates dey give their own wives 3000 dollars per month".

Girl two wrongs dont make a right. And thats what you just displayed here.

And to be honest, when a woman does that, it makes her appear so immature & somehow-bitchy.

I'm not saying you are though.

But reactions speaks louder than actions. And tells more of peoples character.

Starlight10:
A friend of mine their marriage malice was like 3 months each session. The guy won't touch her or talk to her. She would beg and crawl on her feet. Now the marriage is over.

byna:
We got married in 2012 and ever since then we have been blessed with 3kids (3,boys).
I have a monthly upkeep of 130k for my wife as she only comes to our factory and goes home without doing much for the day aside taking care of kids and cooking.

I noticed that each time we have a misunderstanding, we both keep straight faces for days and she behaves as though she is less concerned to make up. It doesn't affect her chores or cooking as for me I hardly reject food served.

Now, after a couple of days, she would come for sex without wanting us to discuss and resolve the disagreement first.

Even when I feel rudely insulted, this happens. She feels whatever she does doesnt matter as long as Las Las na sex go end am. But I feel it's wrong and issues should be kept straight and fun time separate.

So we had same issues last week and we have been keeping straight faces yet I've been eating her food. Sometimes she joins me for mng prayers, sometimes she does her privately ( we do together before any misunderstanding)
So this mng she appeared stark nude to my room and demanded for sex after almost 15 days. I told her it would be unfair if we sweep the pass e events under the duvet. She got up and told me she wasn't ready to discuss any past misunderstanding that she came to f*uck. I told her I wasn't ready till issues are ironed out.

She taught it was business as usually as my John Thomas always disappoint me each time I see her nude but today I was ready to turn her down.

I Want to know if it's proper to always treat ur spouse the way you like knowing fully well that sex is their weak point for reconciliation?

Mature minds pls