I just want to know if i did it wrong or right..

there's this girl in my department.. we are very close. she visits me, and I visit her.. I don't have romantic interest where she is.. but I just like her cos she is nice and generous.. I notice she is proud because she is beautiful and has guys doing her biddings..I used to call her regularly. so I just stopped. I got tired of the whole thing.. and started withdrawing . on her birthday, In the morning. I viewed her status, but didn't comment or wish her happy birthday.. she was angry.. and said she thought we were friends but she was wrong. I viewed her status but. kept mute.. this vexed me, cos it was still morning.. next day at school. she saw me and walked past.. I didn't call her either. I told my guys about it, they said I failed it. I should beg her . that she really cares about me that's why she acted that way.. I got home.. chatted her up. she starting talking shiit. that' I have changed , I no longer call her to tell her what's happening in dept. it seems like I got many friends now.. I told her to forget everything. but she said no, that she is no longer comforta being my friend. that she chooses her friend. I got tired of begging and stopped. so am I at fault here or not ? we are strangers now

I am regretting why I even listened to my friends to go beg.. I fall my hand seriously, she must be feeling ontop of the world

Just forget about her.

Okay, we have hear

NO, YOU ARE NOT.

What do u want from the relationship? even when you don't know, cos you don't want to be like other guys , feeding her self ego, and self attension, girls don't like suckers, guyz who don't have their own says and dance to their whips.
being different from other folks is not a crime.

SkinnyNigga:
I am regretting why I even listened to my friends to go beg.. I fall my hand seriously, she must be feeling ontop of the world

Hahahaha.. Evil friends.. Your ego took a hit , I understand..

You didn't need to beg her by the way plus there are somethings that needs to be done eyeball to eyeball rather than on whatsapp or whatever.. Good news is; you can still fix it..

Just send her a text and ask her to pick a place and time to meet you, that you wanna talk to her(this is the gentleman way tho;I never do things this way )
Ooorr

You can play it my way by walking up to her whenever you bump into her next, take her firmly by the hands with all authority.. Make sure you look at her with a mean face whilst you grab her hand so she knows it's you and not some random stranger taking her for a ride.. She wouldn't resist trust me.. Curiosity wouldn't let her .

When you get to the nearest cool spot where you both can talk ; it could be against a wall or against a tree or anywhere cool, make sure you got her back against the wall or tree or whatever(gently oo abeg ) then without smiling, with a Stern look and maintaining strong eye contact, ask her;
What's wrong?..

This one phrase would lead to a good discussion if you play your cards right.. You get to mend your broken ego too lol..

Don't mind me, you could just follow plan A and get her to see you and trash things out, not everything you do on whatsapp bro..

KiidaACE
I forgot to say that I confronted her few days after the incident.. held her hand, and she said 'leave me !' and walked off.. it's 3 months now..

SkinnyNigga:
KiidaACE
I forgot to say that I confronted her few days after the incident.. held her hand, and she said 'leave me !' and walked off.. it's 3 months now..

Forget her then...
Zero your mind..

KiidaACE:
Hahahaha.. Evil friends.. Your ego took a hit , I understand..

You didn't need to beg her by the way plus there are somethings that really needs to be done eyeball to eyeball rather than on whatsapp or whatever.. Good news is; you can still fix it..

Just send her a text and ask her to pick a place and time to meet you, that you wanna talk to her(this is the gentleman way tho;I never do things this way )
Ooorr

You can play it my way by walking up to her whenever you bump into her next, take her firmly by the hands with all authority.. Make sure you look at her with a mean face whilst you grab her hand so she knows it's you and not some random stranger taking her for a ride.. She wouldn't resist trust me.. Curiosity wouldn't let her .

When you get to the nearest cool spot where you both can talk ; it could be against a wall or against a tree or anywhere cool, make sure you got her back against the wall or tree or whatever(gently oo abeg ) then without smiling, with a Stern look and maintaining strong eye contact, ask her;
What's wrong?..

This one phrase would lead to a good discussion if you play your cards right.. You get to mend your broken ego too lol..

Don't mind me, you could just follow plan A and get her to see you and trash things out, not everything you do on whatsapp bro..

correct

small children quarell...i did not wish her happy birth day, I did not comment on her status, she did not talk to me.....................mtcheeeew

Imagine having useless people as friends

SkinnyNigga:
I am regretting why I even listened to my friends to go beg.. I fall my hand seriously, she must be feeling ontop of the world

Yes u fall hands..nothing worse pass listening to ur friends on things like this. They will make u even start dating her against ur will. So back to the matter. It has happened leave her alone and go ur way before she adds u to the long list of her toasters abi na wooers

Let her remember u as the one she couldn't wrap around her fingers.. I hate such girls too that everyone is scrambling for. Apart from listening to ur friends u are on the right track. In fact let her start seeing the girls or girl in ur life.. Shebi she wants to play chess

while in school i never fency dating a departmental girls. they will see you finish, their more like sisters, because we saw the good , bad and ugly together. my 2 cent.

KiidaACE:
Forget her then... Zero your mind..

Cool. mind zeroed

SkinnyNigga:
KiidaACE
I forgot to say that I confronted her few days after the incident.. held her hand, and she said 'leave me !' and walked off.. it's 3 months now..

There's nothing wrong wishing a friend a happy birthday, grow up!

SkinnyNigga:
I just want to know if i did it wrong or right..

there's this girl in my department.. we are very close. she visits me, and I visit her.. I don't have romantic interest where she is.. but I just like her cos she is nice and generous.. I notice she is proud because she is beautiful and has guys doing her biddings..I used to call her regularly. so I just stopped. I got tired of the whole thing.. and started withdrawing . on her birthday, In the morning. I viewed her status, but didn't comment or wish her happy birthday.. she was angry.. and said she thought we were friends but she was wrong. I viewed her status but. kept mute.. this vexed me, cos it was still morning.. next day at school. she saw me and walked past.. I didn't call her either. I told my guys about it, they said I failed it. I should beg her . that she really cares about me that's why she acted that way.. I got home.. chatted her up. she starting talking shiit. that' I have changed , I no longer call her to tell her what's happening in dept. it seems like I got many friends now.. I told her to forget everything. but she said no, that she is no longer comforta being my friend. that she chooses her friend. I got tired of begging and stopped. so am I at fault here or not ? we are strangers now

you ought to have wished her good wishes on her birthday na..
Its normal for young ladies to do shakara,its their time!