You’re still wondering what to do.
Happy wondering, wanderer.

What sort of see finish is this, bloody shameless things. They are not all to blame though, the idiot put himself in that position

Audio family. Silence is the perfect response.

When they call, refuse to pick, if they meet you in person, greet normally but refuse to acknowledge their request, and if they push your limit, tell them sternly, and outrightly that you do not have it. Simple.

The issue here is not about giving, but their intent. From the wording of the message, it portrays an entitlement mentality, seeing you as a MAGA (naive idiot), to extort, without any forethought of economical reality. It shows they have no shame, esteem, and sense of worth, and if you yield to it, that would be the beginning of an unlimited tsunami of requests, as you have shown and proven to be their financial cash cow. It is more about the precedence you set, and not the giving in itself. It is a test that will only benefit them continuously if you fall for it.

If your girlfriend further supports her family's actions, then it should be a wake-up call for you to jilt her and move on, Afterall, too much fat is harmful to your health. Learn to say NO, with style, class and in a way that will not position you as a maga, at worse, they may hate you, but respect you, and that is okay.