I'm a cool guy, tall, dark skinned and i thank God to some extent am good looking, i can't stand attitude from some girls and i think this has cost me alot of relationships and friendship.

The moment a girl say no to my love proposal, I feel bad and hurt that sometimes i delete their numbers, i can't keep female friends because the moment they visit, i feel the urge to ve sex with them, am an introvert that does not really know how to play with a girl like a maga, i do it average.

I'm still managing life so i only hang out once in a while. This attitude of most times leave me bored and lonely that to some extent i start looking for numbers of the ladies i deleted to call them again and try my luck. For example if i meet a lady and we get talking, i expect her to call me too atleast once in a while or even flash, chat me up and i shouldn't be the one following her around. Again it shouldn't be the usual hi, yes, ok, k replies/conversation from her.

I really wonder how do some guys keep asking a lady out for months, then get fried zoned and they re cool with it and cope fine? I find it impossible, especially when a lady feel i can't do without her or she's doing me a favour, i just dump and delete her to clear her doubts. This pride and anger has cost me alot and i don't know how to work on it, a babe am close to who always give me good sex came the other day and refused to allow me touch her, i got angry when she left and deleted her number, sometimes i get so angry i say annoying insultive things to get this girls upset then i go bacj and apologize.

The other day a lady begged me money, i broke up with her because she started avoing me when i said i don't ve, I've deleted her number and retrieved it more than four times because the thought of the good sex we had keep coming into my mind, is this normal and how do i work on myself to be a bit patient?
Is this anger, pride, low self esteem, being childish or Intolerance?
Mature advice please.

You know your problems, then work on them. Or how's that our business? If you easily gets angry, then calm down. If you easily gets pissed, then walk away. Bye.

Ur just like me! It's called self respect. Take it or leave it! . The only difference is that when I delete the numbers, I never bother my self to get it back! On 2 the next!

Ua not alone, like the poster above me said it self respect, our type of atittude attracts only serious girls

SWORD419:
Ua not alone, like the poster above me said it self respect, our type of atittude attracts only serious girls

God bless you jare

Op nothing is wrong with you...... your village people are doing their jobs perfectly well.

Manadan0000:
I'm a cool guy, tall, dark skinned and i thank God to some extent am good looking, i can't stand some attitude from girls and i think this has cost me alot of babes, relationships and friendship.
The moment a girl say no to me i delete her number, i can't keep female friends because the moment you visit me i feel the urge to sex and am still managing life so i only hang out once in a while. This attitude of mine most times leave me bored and lonely that to some extent i start looking for numbers of the ladies i deleted to call them again and apologize. For example if i meet a lady and we get talking and we cool i expect you to call me atleast flash, chat me up and it shouldn't be just the usual hi, yes, ok, k replies.
This pride and anger has cost me alot and i don't know how to work on it, a babe am close to who always give me good sex came the other day and refused to allow me touch her, i got so angry when she left and deleted her number, infact sometimes i get so angry i say things to get this girls upset like insultive talks before deleting their number. The other day a lady begged me money i broke up with her because she started avoing me when i said i don't ve and then i deleted her number, is this normal and how do i work on myself to be a bit patient??
Anger, pride, intolerance i think i ve all this..

wow!I thought I was the only one with this sort of attitude!
Four or five years ago,I saw it as an achievement if I ever got to bang any babe,even most niggaz in my hood saw it as if they had mined gold each time they got to hit a pussy,I could go any length to make sure I bang any lady.I am not a church goer,but there was a time I had a deeper life babe in my hood who got mad ass,and killer curves, almost everynig*a wanted to smash her in my hood, each time she was approached,she would invite the person to any ongoing program in her church,this attitude pissed lots of niggas off in my hood,they had to start avoiding her like a plague, after I learnt about her theatrics,I went to her,as usual,she invited me to an ongoing program at her church,I had to oblige(NB: prior to the day I approached this bitch,nigga hasn't been in church in over 8years ).
That was how I started attending this lady's church,she would call me each time she wanted to leave for church,and we would meet at the junction,she even told me to avoid sitting with my niggas if i really wanted her,I could no longer sit with niggaz in the hood in the open due to the fear of this my deeper life's holy Mary cutting off our newly established relationship.
This sh*t continued for over 5months,I could no longer flex with niggaz at our usual spots or any open place, except if we got to flex in a secluded spot.The day I finally got to smash this babe, before going in,I had thought I was going to swim in a shallow pool,omor,I found myself in the middle of Mediterranean Sea(this bi*ch had told me before now that she's had sex just once),as if that wasn't enough, after about five thrust,the odour of a rotten sardine filled the room,I just paused,smiled,and told her I needed to get something,I went outside and took some herbal concortions,my JT was already rock solid,I got inside and banged this biatch like I was auditioning for a role in the porn industry,her pussy went dry,I kept pounding hard,each time I felt the urge to come,I would remember the numerous stuffs this biatch denied me with my niggas,the cum would cease immediately.To cut the long story short,that was the last time I got to bang this biatch,even if she still wanted us to bang after then,the Sunday of the same week I had banged her,she called to ask if I was ready for church,I rained some amadioha invoked curses on her,she had to end the call,that was the last time the bitch called.
These days,if I walked up to any biatch and request for her number,and she attempts to give the number,I would simply tell her not to drop the number if she knew she would act funny if I call her,the serious and matured ones will drop,the immature and unserious ones will hiss and walk away.infact,once we start getting along,but I'm the one who calls and chat you up at all times,I would just cut off the ties.I used to have this same feeling you are having now,but I later got to know that those times I would do anything to get into a lady's pants,I had no self worth,and no value then,now I'm a man of high value and self worth.
In jayz's voice'if you having gurl problems,I feel bad for you son,I got 99problems but a bitch ain't one'.
Don't mind the long epistle bro,this is the best way I feel I could express myself.Ciao!

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Welcome to the club. It is self respect.

chigoizie7:
Welcome to the club. It is self respect.

It isn't bro, in life you need more friends/networks, to excel. If I was patient enough with my gf I for don they Germany with am.

BiggyB242:


It isn't bro, in life you need more friends/networks, to excel. If I was patient enough with my gf I for don they Germany with am.

If you were hard working and independent and resilient, you could be a ceo just like mark zukerberg.


Germany is not the best of the nations, I am not in naija too, I be street guy and a hustler, we know that type of attitude we look out for in the streets, not the sissy type, there are so many people living here that are far worst than those living in naija.

Set standard for yourself. Don’t act like a mumu. You need connections and network to excel, not just anyhow networks, you need a strong network, and being a mumu and folllow follow won’t get you that strong network.
Stop being small minded.

BiggyB242:


I thought I'm the only one with this problem. I'm trying to stop bro, funny thing is if you play with these girls a little bit they will eventually say yes. I know these things but my pride wouldn't just let me. I tell them "I don't keep female friends"

Yes, we become lonely and try to get the number we once deleted and it makes you look like a fool. I have deleted and retrieved numbers so many times. Most guys around me are the type that even theirs Exs still keep contact because they are so playful. I'm learning from them.

Funny thing I'm good looking with good dress sense, well educated yet I'm still single. I can't just be patient with any girl.

Patient is the key to any girl's heart.

We ve the same story, i can't even keep an ex because one attitude of hers ll so piss me off, I'm also well educated, good looking. That patience is just not easy, i can't endure a lady playing me like that or making me feel stupidity.

mrcalcufast:
wow!I thought I was the only one with this sort of attitude!
Four or five years ago,I saw it as an achievement if I ever got to bang any babe,even most niggaz in my hood saw it as if they had mined gold each time they got to hit a pussy,I could go any length to make sure I bang any lady.I am not a church goer,but there was a time I had a deeper life babe in my hood who got mad ass,and killer curves, almost everynig*a wanted to smash her in my hood, each time she was approached,she would invite the person to any ongoing program in her church,this attitude pissed lots of niggas off in my hood,they had to start avoiding her like a plague, after I learnt about her theatrics,I went to her,as usual,she invited me to an ongoing program at her church,I had to oblige(NB: prior to the day I approached this bitch,nigga hasn't been in church in over 8years ).
That was how I started attending this lady's church,she would call me each time she wanted to leave for church,and we would meet at the junction,she even told me to avoid sitting with my niggas if i really wanted her,I could no longer sit with niggaz in the hood in the open due to the fear of this my deeper life's holy Mary cutting off our newly established relationship.
This sh*t continued for over 5months,I could no longer flex with niggaz at our usual spots or any open place, except if we got to flex in a secluded spot.The day I finally got to smash this babe, before going in,I had thought I was going to swim in a shallow pool,omor,I found myself in the middle of Mediterranean Sea(this bi*ch had told me before now that she's had sex just once),as if that wasn't enough, after about five thrust,the odour of a rotten sardine filled the room,I just paused,smiled,and told her I needed to get something,I went outside and took some herbal concortions,my JT was already rock solid,I got inside and banged this biatch like I was auditioning for a role in the porn industry,her pussy went dry,I kept pounding hard,each time I felt the urge to come,I would remember the numerous stuffs this biatch denied me with my niggas,the cum would cease immediately.To cut the long story short,that was the last time I got to bang this biatch,even if she still wanted us to bang after then,the Sunday of the same week I had banged her,she called to ask if I was ready for church,I rained some amadioha invoked curses on her,she had to end the call,that was the last time the bitch called.
These days,if I walked up to any biatch and request for her number,and she attempts to give the number,I would simply tell her not to drop the number if she knew she would act funny if I call her,the serious and matured ones will drop,the immature and unserious ones will hiss and walk away.infact,once we start getting along,but I'm the one who calls and chat you up at all times,I would just cut off the ties.I used to have this same feeling you are having now,but I later got to know that those times I would do anything to get into a lady's pants,I had no self worth,and no value then,now I'm a man of high value and self worth.
In jayz's voice'if you having gurl problems,I feel bad for you son,I got 99problems but a bitch ain't one'.
Don't mind the long epistle bro,this is the best way I feel I could express myself.Ciao!

;Dlaughing and rolling on the floor here

BiggyB242:


It isn't bro, in life you need more friends/networks, to excel. If I was patient enough with my gf I for don they Germany with am.

so being in Germany automatically equates to success?

Manadan0000:

;Dlaughing and rolling on the floor here

niggaz don mumu ontop toto matter,I thought since I got no cash to give'em bitches then,I could give my time and attention,I later got to realise the whole sh*t ain't worth it,if you ain't making an effort to stay in my life,I ain't got any time or attention to spare!!

in as much that you try to act like a someone who knows what he his doing, in your mind, you know you are a loser

you are controlled by your emotions instead of your brain

Manadan0000:
I'm a cool guy, tall, dark skinned and i thank God to some extent am good looking, i can't stand some attitude from girls and i think this has cost me alot of babes, relationships and friendship.
The moment a girl say no to me i delete her number, i can't keep female friends because the moment you visit me i feel the urge to sex and am still managing life so i only hang out once in a while. This attitude of mine most times leave me bored and lonely that to some extent i start looking for numbers of the ladies i deleted to call them again and apologize. For example if i meet a lady and we get talking and we cool i expect you to call me atleast flash, chat me up and it shouldn't be just the usual hi, yes, ok, k replies.
This pride and anger has cost me alot and i don't know how to work on it, a babe am close to who always give me good sex came the other day and refused to allow me touch her, i got so angry when she left and deleted her number, infact sometimes i get so angry i say things to get this girls upset like insultive talks before deleting their number. The other day a lady begged me money i broke up with her because she started avoing me when i said i don't ve and then i deleted her number, is this normal and how do i work on myself to be a bit patient??
Anger, pride, intolerance i think i ve all this..

it is neither pride, anger or intolerance but rather the mentality of losers, another stuff is that you have low self esteem and also an introvert, you look like a guy that can beat up a girl for saying NO

you delete a girl number then after regrets and start looking for ways to get her number, even the girl that gives you sex, even though you have deleted her number, you know in your mind that you are looking for ways to get the number back.

as i have written before, you are just run by emotions, you do not see the big picture, you are very impulsive, you do not think before you act.

I'm here reading comments and all I can say is thank God Men don't face menopause

lilwetdick:


it is neither pride, anger or intolerance but rather the mentality of losers, another stuff is that you have low self esteem and also an introvert, you look like a guy that can beat up a girl for saying NO

you delete a girl number then after regrets and start looking for ways to get her number, even the girl that gives you sex, even though you have deleted her number, you know in your mind that you are looking for ways to get the number back.

as i have written before, you are just run by emotions, you do not see the big picture, you are very impulsive, you do not think before you act.

Ok thanks, i really want to work on myself, how can one work on this or get out of this??
I just clocked 27 and hoping to settle down soonest, like how do you keep up or keep following a woman who does not want you or who gives you attitude for a very long time?

[quote author=lilwetdick post=84681944]in as much that you try to act like a someone who knows what he his doing, in your mind, you know you are a loser

you are controlled by your emotions instead of your brain[/quoteBeing controlled by emotions makes one a looser, i don't agree with you please

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Sorry oo bro,,how is this possible...

advancedtechng:
OP you’re doing the perfect thing, you’re just like me, infact your village people couldn’t see your face in their black pots, because girls can draw you far backward financially for many years without realizing yourself until you see your old time friend driving a good car you will get to realize the damage spending on girls has caused you, because a girl asked you for 20k means you must provide it when you don’t have? But just get little patience sometimes when girls do shakara they don’t really mean it so just keep treating her right and one day definitely she will cause their heart is far softer than men’s and men sef loves whoever treats them right no matter what...Well, If you would like to control your partner’s WhatsApp chats for life without having his/her phone with you and even if he/she lives far away from you then WhatsApp me and I will send you my tutorial on it for free but if you can’t go through the stress of doing it yourself then you can pay for my service 3k to have me do it for you quick. if you need this WhatsApp me 0*8*1*0*5*0*8*2*1*3*6

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Manadan0000:
I'm a cool guy, tall, dark skinned and i thank God to some extent am good looking, i can't stand some attitude from girls and i think this has cost me alot of babes, relationships and friendship.
The moment a girl say no to me i delete her number, i can't keep female friends because the moment you visit me i feel the urge to sex and am still managing life so i only hang out once in a while.
This attitude of mine most times leave me bored and lonely that to some extent i start looking for numbers of the ladies i deleted to call them again and apologize. For example if i meet a lady and we get talking and we cool i expect you to call me atleast flash, chat me up and it shouldn't be just the usual hi, yes, ok, k replies. I mean how do some guys keep asking a lady out for months?? I can't seriously especially when a lady feel herself so much and feel i can't do it without her, i just dump amd delete her to clear her doubts
This pride and anger has cost me alot and i don't know how to work on it, a babe am close to who always give me good sex came the other day and refused to allow me touch her, i got so angry when she left and deleted her number, infact sometimes i get so angry i say things to get this girls upset like insultive talks before deleting their number. The other day a lady begged me money i broke up with her because she started avoing me when i said i don't ve and then i deleted her number, is this normal and how do i work on myself to be a bit patient??
Anger, pride, intolerance i think i ve all this..

I stopped reading at "I feel the urge to sex..." There's only one category of people who speak such wrong grammar with pride. Useless thread.

mrcalcufast:
so being in Germany automatically equates to success?

No bro, just an opportunity I missed due to pride.

Manadan0000:

Ok thanks, i really want to work on myself, how can one work on this or get out of this??
I just clocked 27 and hoping to settle down soonest, like how do you keep up or keep following a woman who does not want you or who gives you attitude for a very long time?

truth be told, it is very hard to socialise in this age of internet because everybody is always indoors and on their phones, and now adays most socialization happens within close knit of friends, the best stuff you can do is just go out by yourself to places or join groups

also try to see the big picture of everything you do, the long term gain and short term gain, always think cost and benefit before doing anything.

think before you act before doing something stupid that you will regret after

sure also dont take nonsense from women who wanna manipulate you, there are plenty out there, separate the gold from the ash.

control your emotions all the time, use your brain

learn to compromise in somestuff if you wanna have a relationship with anybody, relationship is about give and take and they need to balance well, you cant be taking all the time without giving, that makes you a freeloader.

[quote author=Manadan0000 post=84682471][/quote]

yes being controlled by your emotions all the time makes you are core loser

it means you are unstable mentally

Manadan0000:

We ve the same story, i can't even keep an ex because one attitude of hers ll so piss me off, I'm also well educated, good looking. That patience is just not easy, i can't endure a lady playing me like that or making me feel stupidity.

Yea, I can't endure it. But from my player friends I think is best to play the fool at the end you will always be the one in control.

The truth is I know what to do but my stupid ego wouldn't let me. I'm working on myself now.

Manadan0000:

Ok thanks, i really want to work on myself, how can one work on this or get out of this??
I just clocked 27 and hoping to settle down soonest

hey bro, don't let any sissy put undue pressure on you,being 27 is not a death sentence.
I'm beginning to get choked with the comments of some pussy niggas here,so because I don't want to be a loser,I should start forcing myself on bitches?.Here is my mentality,I believe if I want you for a serious relationship,you should give me some nice attitude that will assure me that I'm being wanted by you as well, relationship is between two parties.Most naija girls feel they are doing you a favor by accepting to get into a relationship with you,hence the reason most of them play hard to get,you think if the likes of Dangote, Jeff Bezos,Bill Gates had all wasted their youthfulness chasing bitches who were playing hard to get, you think they would be where they currently are?most of the bitches got nothing to offer,I see them as distractions,there are some few exceptions though,but they're so rare.
My nigga,focus on your hustle, don't let any Sissy brainwash you,if they're ok being treated as trash because they want to appear nice and responsible, it's their problem, don't start worshipping in their temple.
We're lions,we don't settle for less!!

once u delete a girl"s number u should forget about her existence forever.u just falling ur hand.why will a girl u ignored in the past and u now calling will respond to u.

chigoizie7:


If you were hard working and independent and resilient, you could be a ceo just like mark zukerberg.


Germany is not the best of the nations, I am not in naija too, I be street guy and a hustler, we know that type of attitude we look out for in the streets, not the sissy type, there are so many people living here that are far worst than those living in naija.

Set standard for yourself. Don’t act like a mumu. You need connections and network to excel, not just anyhow networks, you need a strong network, and being a mumu and folllow follow won’t get you that strong network.
Stop being small minded.

Hahahaha, trust me you will farther from where you are if you got some good network, especially if you are a business man. Baba e dey pay whether Na mumu or follow follow. I know of a guy got a juicy oil and gas job through a newspaper vendor.

I will rather do follow follow provided I get what I want. I can't be broke and proud.