Interesting15:
By Sunday Akanni Moshood

The other day, I stumbled on a thread where someone was asking why people have chosen to abstain from premarital sex and all of that. Then, it came to my mind to even write something about my own experience. Don't worry, I will make this one brief (perhaps the long version will come years from now when I will probably write a book about my life).

When I was a little boy, despite that my immediate environment wasn't one that encouraged full blown spirituality (in God), I usually feel the hand of God on me, and I'm usually conscious of His presence. As I approached the adolescence period of my life, as expected, sexual urges started coming, and I was also with the desire to express these emotions. Despite that the devil stationed other young teenage females around, I found myself being hindered continually from defiling myself.

While I was still contemplating, as a very young teenager, if I should taste sex once, or wait until marriage, everything changed after God visited me with His offer.....

The Host of Heaven paid me a visit as a young boy, and the offer was: Walk before Me and be perfect, and in return, I will give you...... In return, I will make you....

After reflecting deeply on which way to go, I decided to go for God's offer, since I discovered it is more beneficial to me. So, it means I have to fight to ensure I won't fall into temptation and displease God.

Interestingly, God made it so easy for me.. When I see young people lamenting that their sexual urges are "driving them insane", I will be like, is this not the same sexual urges that I have? The same sexual urges I have, that I'm fully in control of?

The best decision I made in my life was deciding to embrace God's offer from a very young age and walk with Him. I keep enjoying pleasantness in all regards. I keep enjoying His Grace in awesome ways. I keep getting great things others struggle for, easily.

In fact, one of the rewards was writing to encourage others to embrace purity and chastity. I have been writing since I was a young teenager, and my books and articles are being bought and read in different parts of the world - even in faraway places like India! I became the person that people Google Search his name to know what he offers. And of course, I'm sure God is still taking me to higher grounds.

Because of that decision, I can boldly say it anywhere that I haven't indulged in premarital sex and I'm undefiled. And guess what? I'm very fine! Very healthy. I won't defile myself, and so, my messages will keep touching the world with fire, and bring people to the will of God through Jesus Christ.

Beloved, just as God gave me the offer, He is also giving you the offer to walk before Him and be perfect. If you align yourself with God by accepting Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, and you decided to devote your life to Him, He will give you dominion over sin, the devil, creation (financially, health wise, family wise, etc).

Jesus said: "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28-30)

Like me, you can live an undefiled life. Don't believe the lies of the devil that you can't control these urges. Stop allowing sexual immorality wreck your life. Flee from all appearances of sin.

Jesus wants an eternal communion with you. It is your destiny to serve God in Spirit and in Truth through Jesus Christ His Son, and have dominion over creation. Open yourself to the Lord. Call upon His Name, and He will help you. God bless you.

mu2sa2:
On the issue of chastity and purity, it is argued by some people that it's practically impossible for everyone to attain that status in this age, given all the temptations. Free porn, girlfriend/boyfriend/ ashawo, short time hotels - everything easily available to make it happen. Just like Op many people have presented themselves as chaste, pure and holy. However, many of these people have turned out to be hypocrites - invariably, the devil is blamed. Op you tried sha, but only in the mind of those who believe your self-adulating yarn.

iHart:
What if after all these and you still find yourself in hell? I once had a friend who believed so much in this sex chastity, but she finish school riding on the back exam malpractice. I have an aunt who owns a church and a school. In her church, she is a powerful woman of God, in her school you don't need to "know book" to clear your waec. One of my colleagues during my MSc day is a catholic who runs a prayer ministry, but a simple discussion with her shows that she can go any length to manipulate her thesis to pass her research which she finally did. What's my point? People make it seem as though virginity and chastity shows you are righteous. But the truth is that being righteous goes beyond sex and virginity.

You may want to read:
Matthew 21:31


31 Which of the two did the will of his father?” They said, “The first.” Jesus said to them, “Truly, I say to you, the tax collectors and prostitutes go into the kingdom of God before you

Freshprince91:
It is only with the grace of God that one can totally abstain from this iniquity. I used to be active when i was in University, though with a girlfriend but after we parted ways, i vowed to be celibate till marriage or when i meet that special someone.
Truth is i kept to my plan, avoid any secular activity that could trigger the urge, for 10 months, i tried, i really tried but this month, every of my dreams have been framed with sexual immorality. I would wake up and say the little prayer i knew how to say and fall back to sleep, battled this for 2 weeks, yet no improvement.
Na hin i call Sade make we see , long story short local man gave in and boom, e be like say my whole body dey full ,Nna, 1 hour i no burst, sade self tire, when i con nut, i felt this emptiness like say i no get strength again.
Since that day, my body feels better, i sleep better and con be like say all the burden wey dey my mind don go.
To the ones that have kept themselves for so long, una dey try and to those wey go come online dey lie, make una dey deceive unaself.

iHart:
What if after all these and you still find yourself in hell? I once had a friend who believed so much in this sex chastity, but she finish school riding on the back exam malpractice. I have an aunt who owns a church and a school. In her church, she is a powerful woman of God, in her school you don't need to "know book" to clear your waec. One of my colleagues during my MSc day is a catholic who runs a prayer ministry, but a simple discussion with her shows that she can go any length to manipulate her thesis to pass her research which she finally did. What's my point? People make it seem as though virginity and chastity shows you are righteous. But the truth is that being righteous goes beyond sex and virginity.

You may want to read:
Matthew 21:31


31 Which of the two did the will of his father?” They said, “The first.” Jesus said to them, “Truly, I say to you, the tax collectors and prostitutes go into the kingdom of God before you


Modified: Whatever you get today without struggling is not because you are a virgin but because of the grace of God. There are very sinful people who still don't struggle to get things.

Jesus said to them, “Truly I tell you, the tax collectors and the prostitutes are entering the kingdom of God ahead of you. 32 For John came to you to show you the way of righteousness, and you did not believe him, but the tax collectors and the prostitutes did. And even after you saw this, you did not repent and believe him.

Modified: Whatever you get today without struggling is not because you are a virgin but because of the grace of God. There are very sinful people who still don't struggle to get things.

Interesting15:
By Sunday Akanni Moshood

The other day, I stumbled on a thread where someone was asking why people have chosen to abstain from premarital sex and all of that. Then, it came to my mind to even write something about my own experience. Don't worry, I will make this one brief (perhaps the long version will come years from now when I will probably write a book about my life).

When I was a little boy, despite that my immediate environment wasn't one that encouraged full blown spirituality (in God), I usually feel the hand of God on me, and I'm usually conscious of His presence. As I approached the adolescence period of my life, as expected, sexual urges started coming, and I was also with the desire to express these emotions. Despite that the devil stationed other young teenage females around, I found myself being hindered continually from defiling myself.

While I was still contemplating, as a very young teenager, if I should taste sex once, or wait until marriage, everything changed after God visited me with His offer.....

The Host of Heaven paid me a visit as a young boy, and the offer was: Walk before Me and be perfect, and in return, I will give you...... In return, I will make you....

After reflecting deeply on which way to go, I decided to go for God's offer, since I discovered it is more beneficial to me. So, it means I have to fight to ensure I won't fall into temptation and displease God.

Interestingly, God made it so easy for me.. When I see young people lamenting that their sexual urges are "driving them insane", I will be like, is this not the same sexual urges that I have? The same sexual urges I have, that I'm fully in control of?

The best decision I made in my life was deciding to embrace God's offer from a very young age and walk with Him. I keep enjoying pleasantness in all regards. I keep enjoying His Grace in awesome ways. I keep getting great things others struggle for, easily.

In fact, one of the rewards was writing to encourage others to embrace purity and chastity. I have been writing since I was a young teenager, and my books and articles are being bought and read in different parts of the world - even in faraway places like India! I became the person that people Google Search his name to know what he offers. And of course, I'm sure God is still taking me to higher grounds.

Because of that decision, I can boldly say it anywhere that I haven't indulged in premarital sex and I'm undefiled. And guess what? I'm very fine! Very healthy. I won't defile myself, and so, my messages will keep touching the world with fire, and bring people to the will of God through Jesus Christ.

Beloved, just as God gave me the offer, He is also giving you the offer to walk before Him and be perfect. If you align yourself with God by accepting Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, and you decided to devote your life to Him, He will give you dominion over sin, the devil, creation (financially, health wise, family wise, etc).

Jesus said: "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28-30)

Like me, you can live an undefiled life. Don't believe the lies of the devil that you can't control these urges. Stop allowing sexual immorality wreck your life. Flee from all appearances of sin.

Jesus wants an eternal communion with you. It is your destiny to serve God in Spirit and in Truth through Jesus Christ His Son, and have dominion over creation. Open yourself to the Lord. Call upon His Name, and He will help you. God bless you.

AntiChristian:


At least you're better than some sons of God!
.

The Nephilim were on the earth in those days--and also afterward--when the sons of God went to the daughters of humans and had children by them. They were the heroes of old, men of renown.
Genesis 6 vs 4

Sons of God get sex organ and sex cell?

Ryocaj:

When they came 2 earth they took Human forms.. that was y they could procreate.. Angels r spiritual beings with no sexes (neither male nor female).. And the Nephilims fathered mighty men that were brutal in nature.. N they were called Giants..

mumumugu:
have you noticed that ugly girls and low confident guys are virgins by lack of opportunity

mumumugu:
have you noticed that ugly girls and low confident guys are virgins by lack of opportunity

iHart:
What if after all these and you still find yourself in hell? I once had a friend who believed so much in this sex chastity, but she finish school riding on the back exam malpractice. I have an aunt who owns a church and a school. In her church, she is a powerful woman of God, in her school you don't need to "know book" to clear your waec. One of my colleagues during my MSc day is a catholic who runs a prayer ministry, but a simple discussion with her shows that she can go any length to manipulate her thesis to pass her research which she finally did. What's my point? People make it seem as though virginity and chastity shows you are righteous. But the truth is that being righteous goes beyond sex and virginity.

You may want to read:
Matthew 21:31


31 Which of the two did the will of his father?” They said, “The first.” Jesus said to them, “Truly, I say to you, the tax collectors and prostitutes go into the kingdom of God before you


Modified: Whatever you get today without struggling is not because you are a virgin but because of the grace of God. There are very sinful people who still don't struggle to get things.

soberdrunk:
So you are saying because you did not "do pishaun pishaun" that is why you are "successful" Black man sha

CsRockefeller:
When I was in school, one of my closest friends till date was a serial fornicator, yet, he was the best in our department, I couldn't understand it, here I was trying everything to be the best, not engaging in sexual sin, but someone was just cruising life like a plane on an auto pilot.

Presently, he is a lecturer and his philandering nature hasn't stopped.

I have thought about this so much that I came to a conclusion that it is "Grace".

We don't ever deserve anything, King Solomon described this in the old testament as time and chance.

Freshprince91:
It is only with the grace of God that one can totally abstain from this iniquity. I used to be active when i was in University, though with a girlfriend but after we parted ways, i vowed to be celibate till marriage or when i meet that special someone.
Truth is i kept to my plan, avoid any secular activity that could trigger the urge, for 10 months, i tried, i really tried but this month, every of my dreams have been framed with sexual immorality. I would wake up and say the little prayer i knew how to say and fall back to sleep, battled this for 2 weeks, yet no improvement.
Na hin i call Sade make we see , long story short local man gave in and boom, e be like say my whole body dey full ,Nna, 1 hour i no burst, sade self tire, when i con nut, i felt this emptiness like say i no get strength again.
Since that day, my body feels better, i sleep better and con be like say all the burden wey dey my mind don go.
To the ones that have kept themselves for so long, una dey try and to those wey go come online dey lie, make una dey deceive unaself.

midnighter:


Your reasoning is lacking.

Being a serial fornicator didn't stop that guy from being a brilliant student. Does ejaculation into a woman you are not married to affect ones mental capacity

Being a faithfully chaste guy didn't improve your brain power. But improving your studying techniques would have. Or maybe youre just not as smart as the guy! What does it have to do with your peepee

Or you were expecting God to rubbish the guy in your presence so that you could feel justified

How do you know the fornicating guy hasn't suffered a loss that he/you doesn't know about?

Do you know what you have been saved from by keeping chaste?

Freshprince91:
It is only with the grace of God that one can totally abstain from this iniquity. I used to be active when i was in University, though with a girlfriend but after we parted ways, i vowed to be celibate till marriage or when i meet that special someone.
Truth is i kept to my plan, avoid any secular activity that could trigger the urge, for 10 months, i tried, i really tried but this month, every of my dreams have been framed with sexual immorality. I would wake up and say the little prayer i knew how to say and fall back to sleep, battled this for 2 weeks, yet no improvement.
Na hin i call Sade make we see , long story short local man gave in and boom, e be like say my whole body dey full ,Nna, 1 hour i no burst, sade self tire, when i con nut, i felt this emptiness like say i no get strength again.
Since that day, my body feels better, i sleep better and con be like say all the burden wey dey my mind don go.
To the ones that have kept themselves for so long, una dey try and to those wey go come online dey lie, make una dey deceive unaself.

CsRockefeller:


I'm trying hard to know whose side you are on.

First, the Bible talks a lot about fleeing from sin as a prerequisite for wisdom. So, if one indulges in sin and is sin to be "living life" it somehow cast doubts in the minds of people trying to live holy.

My friends wisdom/intelligence/knowledge isn't a result of special study habits, he is gifted, one which can come from a superior being.

God kept pouring him wisdom/sound brain despite his unfaithfulness. That was what I couldn't understand.

But, Grace they say is sufficient for us all.

midnighter:


Truly, I dont understand whose side you are on either! I removed those last two questions from my last post to give it more focus.

I didnt prescribe study habits for the dude. I asked you whether you made an honest effort to be as brilliant as he was before coming to this conclusion.

Apart from that, are you as kind, generous or patient as he is? Do you know if his parents having been praying for him every day since he was born? Since you seem to think that his sexual deviance should by rights have scupper his ability, do you equally know where his blessing is coming from?

On a purely logical and intellectual level, do you know if he grew up in a house filled to the brim with books? Or if his father woke him up an hour early to solve one mathematical problem or the other? Did you equally have such a stimulating environment?

How can you come to these kind of conclusions based on somebodys sex life! Thats what I dont understand. There are so many variables here but youre just focusing on one thing which is tangential without looking at the main issue.

Look how you said "God kept pouring him wisdom/sound brain despite his unfaithfulness"! Haba, so what about all the atheists and agnostics in the world who dont give a hoot? What should God be pouring them

Nooil:


You know that dream stuff happened to me, and within weeks, I fell too. It was later I had a discussion with my mum who said that the devil starts by polluting your life through dreams. That's where it all start and if you don't seriously pray and cancel it, you find yourself getting polluted again.

That you fell doesn't mean you should give up. Go back to God, confess your sins and start again. You don't need to give excuses. There is truly premium blessings in chastity. Don't let the devil win.