I have been wondering about this and I decided to bring it here. There is this girl I'm in love with for about six months now, I have intentions tying the knot with her (marrying her) but my problem is that she doesn't like having different sex style, she said she can't suck my d**k, she can't climb me or give me doggy style, (though I've never had sex with her, but these issues came up during my discussion with her) , and I like having fun during sex but she sees it as a sin. What do I do now, should I continue with her, or is sex style among married couple a sin. Please I need concise advice.

Kiddo01:
I have been wondering about this and I decided to bring it here. There is this girl I'm in love with for about six months now, I have intentions tying the knot with her (marrying her) but my problem is that she doesn't like having different sex style, she said she can't suck my d**k, she can't climb me or give me doggy style, (though I've never had sex with her, but these issues came up during my discussion with her) , and I like having fun during sex but she sees it as a sin. What do I do now, should I continue with her, or is sex style among married couple a sin. Please I need concise advice.

Unless you don't mind having a boring sex Life get rid of her. People on here are going to tell you that sex isn't important if she's a good woman which can be true if she is willing to learn, but if she's stuck in her ways and refuses to change you will seek out other women outside of your marriage to satisfy your sexual needs.

What's done between a willing married couple in their bedroom is not a sin as long as they aren't involving other people.

Kiddo01:
I have been wondering about this and I decided to bring it here. There is this girl I'm in love with for about six months now, I have intentions tying the knot with her (marrying her) but my problem is that she doesn't like having different sex style, she said she can't suck my d**k, she can't climb me or give me doggy style, (though I've never had sex with her, but these issues came up during my discussion with her) , and I like having fun during sex but she sees it as a sin. What do I do now, should I continue with her, or is sex style among married couple a sin. Please I need concise advice.

She sees it as a sin yet you people have been having this raunchy discussion since. She should have told you not to discuss such sinful things with her because you people are not married. I smell hypocrisy and pretence here

Kiddo01:
I have been wondering about this and I decided to bring it here. There is this girl I'm in love with for about six months now, I have intentions tying the knot with her (marrying her) but my problem is that she doesn't like having different sex style, she said she can't suck my d**k, she can't climb me or give me doggy style, (though I've never had sex with her, but these issues came up during my discussion with her) , and I like having fun during sex but she sees it as a sin. What do I do now, should I continue with her, or is sex style among married couple a sin. Please I need concise advice.

Stop taking weed in the morning like this.

Kiddo01:
I have been wondering about this and I decided to bring it here. There is this girl I'm in love with for about six months now, I have intentions tying the knot with her (marrying her) but my problem is that she doesn't like having different sex style, she said she can't suck my d**k, she can't climb me or give me doggy style, (though I've never had sex with her, but these issues came up during my discussion with her) , and I like having fun during sex but she sees it as a sin. What do I do now, should I continue with her, or is sex style among married couple a sin. Please I need concise advice.

Those sex styles were copied from porn. You are to have sex with your wife naturally without thinking of those styles.

khiaa:


Unless you don't mind having a boring sex Life get rid of her. People on here are going to tell you that sex isn't important if she's a good woman which can be true if she is willing to learn, but if she's stuck in her ways and refuses to change you will seek out other women outside of your marriage to satisfy your sexual needs.

What's done between a willing married couple in their bedroom is not a sin as long as they aren't involving other people.

Your keen advice is timely, thanks a million times, I would personally not like to have a boring se3 life

edoairways:

Those sex styles were copied from porn. You are to have sex with your wife naturally without thinking of those styles.

You are absolutely wrong, if style were copied from porn, where was sex itself copied

Any type of sex that dehumanises or objectifies a person for the personal pleasure of his/her partner is sin-full.

Kiddo01:


You are absolutely wrong, if style were copied from porn, where was sex itself copied

Sex is natural desire created by God. Though they may not be a particular style however the ones shown on porngraphic sites were copied from animals, wizardry etc. A good example is the doggy style copied from the way animals have sex.

Married couples engaging in different sex styles and positions is not a sin except when it becomes abnormal. Don't worry when you two start your marriage class in church, sex styles and positions will be discussed and she will see that it's not a sin. You will both be taught what is normal and abnormal.
Biko Op, sucking of the Penis or any form of MouthAction is abnormal...
Thank you.

correctyourself:


Stop taking weed in the morning like this.

Nothing like weed dear, you have to read my post first very well before you comment. I know you may have low lQ but please don't make it public

Kiddo01:


Nothing like weed dear, you have to read my post first very well before you comment. I know you may have low lQ but please don't make it public

You're here showing your joblessness and useless way of life thinking you knew what you're doing, Go get serious job and get busy.

No

edoairways:

Sex is natural desire created by God. Though they may not be a particular style however the ones shown on porngraphic sites were copied from animals, wizardry etc. A good example is the doggy style copied from the way animals have sex.

Which one is wizadry again? Have you seen wizards having sex before?
Is animal style of having sex a sin?

RiyaGoddess:
Married couples engaging in different sex styles and positions is not a sin except when it becomes abnormal. Don't worry when you two start your marriage class in church, sex styles and positions will be discussed and she will see that it's not a sin. You will both be taught what is normal and abnormal.
Biko Op, sucking of the Penis or any form of MouthAction is abnormal...
Thank you.

What is abnormal in your society may not be abnormal in another society. So such abnormality is not a general rule. Again, how's abnormality a sin?

edoairways:

Those sex styles were copied from porn. You are to have sex with your wife naturally without thinking of those styles.

Which sex style is natural, and unnatural? How did men come to have the idea of "unnatural" style of sex?

joobseekar:

Which sex style is natural, and unnatural? How did men come to have the idea of "unnatural" style of sex?

Satan poisoned the heart of men.

joobseekar:

Which one is wizadry again? Have you seen wizards having sex before?
Is animal style of having sex a sin?

Animal style of sex is a sin infact it is unnatural. Now take your time to observe their sex style, you would see that they don't indulge in "missionary style "

Kiddo01:
I have been wondering about this and I decided to bring it here. There is this girl I'm in love with for about six months now, I have intentions tying the knot with her (marrying her) but my problem is that she doesn't like having different sex style, she said she can't suck my d**k, she can't climb me or give me doggy style, (though I've never had sex with her, but these issues came up during my discussion with her) , and I like having fun during sex but she sees it as a sin. What do I do now, should I continue with her, or is sex style among married couple a sin. Please I need concise advice.

When God created Adam and Eve they were to ENJOY themselves to the full! Genesis 2:21-24

For them to continue salivating on how to use their SEX ORGANS to enjoy SEX, God left both of them NAKED. Genesis 2:25
God even respected their privacy (perhaps they are enjoying themselves) to the point of giving them signs that he is approaching their domain! Genesis 3:8

So if God their Creator (who gave them sex organs) never specify any sex style for them, please what's my own business to intervene in the sex life of two persons that have become one fresh(agreeing on whatever will promote their LOVE, JOY and PEACE)

Please if you are sure that she meant her words, and you're not ready to end up in a joyless marriage, discontinue such a relationship!

It's better having a SEXY spouse like yourself than to end up longing for sex styles she will never give you! 1Corinthians 7:2-6

Both of you must have the same line of thought on anything having to do with your matrimony! Matthew 19:6