My name is Collins i am a single young guy... Ehm... Ever since my first heart break about 8-9 months ago, i have been so lonely and i need of love.... I have met with 2 ladies who at first liked and was showing affection towards me... The first one started at work and i was just observing up until i decided to act on it.. and by so doing i think it tipped her off, cos she started acting as though she doesn't care or i was only assuming she was flashing some green light of some sort.. it so turned out that when i opened up to her ans she realised i could ve into her she started flirting with another guy who was my friend.. so i had to save my self the stress and reserve the little dignity i still had..

Weeks later now, i met this other beautiful girl who like wise was affectionate, caring and too into my affairs. My guard was up becos of my last experience and i was trying too much not to think too much about it... But as time goes by i just find myself getting closer and closer to her, now it is just so looking like she is stepping back again....


I dont know. Am i doing something wrong? Its so tiring, i really want to feel loved and i dont know if that is the problem...

it's just a phase. it will pass in no time

i think you may be creating issues in your mind that are not there.... you are still heavily damaged from your past r/ship that you cant act right. STOP wasting time and go for what you believe. if you like a babe and get closer to her, then go all out. what is the worst that can happen?!?!? really?!
you are trying too hard to protect yourself from "god knows what" while babes are passing you by...

by being overprotective, you will just end up as a lonely old sod.