thecloak:
About 10months ago, I met this girl and we connected well like never before and the chemistry Btwn us was intense, we knew we really liked each other so much, we couldn’t go a day without talking to each other, I am in my middle 30’s and into real estate and the business hasn’t really been good nor bad and she is in her late 20’s and in medical school and will be graduating next year.
when I met her i made my intentions known to her bcs she’s the kind of girl I want to be with for a long time, prior b4 we met she told me that her prophet prophesied to her that she will meet someone she really likes but if the guy asked her to marry him she should say NO that she should wait. I told her I’m not asking for her hand in marriage now that I want something serious that will lead somewhere, she said okay let’s see how things progresses, we talked about anything and everything and she was very happy meeting someone like me and she said I was man enough for her.
As time progresses we became so close we had a one time thing but the experience was awkward.
And after that day her mood about everything changed, she didn’t want to talk to me so I had to beg her to forgive me that it won’t happen again, it took about a week before we reconciled and we kept the communication as effective as ever, at a time she said she doesn’t want me to do anything for her so she doesn’t feel indebted to me I said no problem, then problem started last month when they left school for there 3months program in a hospital in the same state which I reside, we do see twice or three times in a week so one of those days, we were in my house and we’re talking and something led to another we kissed and romanced but I didn’t go further I had to stop and boom the next morning she sent me text that she’s not happy and when ever she’s around me she’s not at peace and she’s troubled within her and doesn’t want to be with me so I ignored her, I had to let her be for a while, then we later met and she told me she doesn’t feel her self when ever she’s around me and it takes her days before she can pray and all that and she doesn’t want us to be talking anymore so I was already fed up with her attitude meted towards me and I decided to let her be.

fast forward to 2 weeks ago, my sister was sick and I took her to the same hospital she’s doing her program and accidentally we met and got talking and after my sister was discharged from the hospital she called me that she wants to check on my sis and know how she’s doing so I took her to my family house and after the visit I drove her back to there hostel and when we’re bout saying our goodbyes I told her can I get a peck but she refused and I let her be, and later she texted me that she just wants us to be normal friends and nothing more than that, this was a girl I dedicated 10months of my time to when I already met beautiful and good women I had to let them go because of her.

We were so good to each other but all of a sudden everything changed I’m tired of her flimsy excuses towards everything and from my observation I feel she’s already admiring someone else that’s why she’s giving me this kind of attitude, we have not communicated in about a week so I’ve made my decision already and moved on
I am suspecting 95% she might be the one that wrote a topic few days back that hit the front page with the subject (
I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? ) because it sounds very similar, but niaralanders, ur candid opinions would be of help

SweetBuns:
she may have done something that she knows will hurt you if you knew about it So she feels guilty while around you

life103:
DON'T WAIST TIME ON THESE GIRLS

thecloak:
About 10months ago, I met this girl and we connected well like never before and the chemistry Btwn us was intense, we knew we really liked each other so much, we couldn’t go a day without talking to each other, I am in my middle 30’s and into real estate and the business hasn’t really been good nor bad and she is in her late 20’s and in medical school and will be graduating next year.
when I met her i made my intentions known to her bcs she’s the kind of girl I want to be with for a long time, prior b4 we met she told me that her prophet prophesied to her that she will meet someone she really likes but if the guy asked her to marry him she should say NO that she should wait. I told her I’m not asking for her hand in marriage now that I want something serious that will lead somewhere, she said okay let’s see how things progresses, we talked about anything and everything and she was very happy meeting someone like me and she said I was man enough for her.
As time progresses we became so close we had a one time thing but the experience was awkward.
And after that day her mood about everything changed, she didn’t want to talk to me so I had to beg her to forgive me that it won’t happen again, it took about a week before we reconciled and we kept the communication as effective as ever, at a time she said she doesn’t want me to do anything for her so she doesn’t feel indebted to me I said no problem, then problem started last month when they left school for there 3months program in a hospital in the same state which I reside, we do see twice or three times in a week so one of those days, we were in my house and we’re talking and something led to another we kissed and romanced but I didn’t go further I had to stop and boom the next morning she sent me text that she’s not happy and when ever she’s around me she’s not at peace and she’s troubled within her and doesn’t want to be with me so I ignored her, I had to let her be for a while, then we later met and she told me she doesn’t feel her self when ever she’s around me and it takes her days before she can pray and all that and she doesn’t want us to be talking anymore so I was already fed up with her attitude meted towards me and I decided to let her be.

fast forward to 2 weeks ago, my sister was sick and I took her to the same hospital she’s doing her program and accidentally we met and got talking and after my sister was discharged from the hospital she called me that she wants to check on my sis and know how she’s doing so I took her to my family house and after the visit I drove her back to there hostel and when we’re bout saying our goodbyes I told her can I get a peck but she refused and I let her be, and later she texted me that she just wants us to be normal friends and nothing more than that, this was a girl I dedicated 10months of my time to when I already met beautiful and good women I had to let them go because of her.

We were so good to each other but all of a sudden everything changed I’m tired of her flimsy excuses towards everything and from my observation I feel she’s already admiring someone else that’s why she’s giving me this kind of attitude, we have not communicated in about a week so I’ve made my decision already and moved on
I am suspecting 95% she might be the one that wrote a topic few days back that hit the front page with the subject (
I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? ) because it sounds very similar, but niaralanders, ur candid opinions would be of help

SLAP44:
If you rushed into this thread like me thinking she turned into a snake or a stone statue, click like

thecloak:
About 10months ago, I met this girl and we connected well like never before and the chemistry Btwn us was intense, we knew we really liked each other so much, we couldn’t go a day without talking to each other, I am in my middle 30’s and into real estate and the business hasn’t really been good nor bad and she is in her late 20’s and in medical school and will be graduating next year.
when I met her i made my intentions known to her bcs she’s the kind of girl I want to be with for a long time, prior b4 we met she told me that her prophet prophesied to her that she will meet someone she really likes but if the guy asked her to marry him she should say NO that she should wait. I told her I’m not asking for her hand in marriage now that I want something serious that will lead somewhere, she said okay let’s see how things progresses, we talked about anything and everything and she was very happy meeting someone like me and she said I was man enough for her.
As time progresses we became so close we had a one time thing but the experience was awkward.
And after that day her mood about everything changed, she didn’t want to talk to me so I had to beg her to forgive me that it won’t happen again, it took about a week before we reconciled and we kept the communication as effective as ever, at a time she said she doesn’t want me to do anything for her so she doesn’t feel indebted to me I said no problem, then problem started last month when they left school for there 3months program in a hospital in the same state which I reside, we do see twice or three times in a week so one of those days, we were in my house and we’re talking and something led to another we kissed and romanced but I didn’t go further I had to stop and boom the next morning she sent me text that she’s not happy and when ever she’s around me she’s not at peace and she’s troubled within her and doesn’t want to be with me so I ignored her, I had to let her be for a while, then we later met and she told me she doesn’t feel her self when ever she’s around me and it takes her days before she can pray and all that and she doesn’t want us to be talking anymore so I was already fed up with her attitude meted towards me and I decided to let her be.

fast forward to 2 weeks ago, my sister was sick and I took her to the same hospital she’s doing her program and accidentally we met and got talking and after my sister was discharged from the hospital she called me that she wants to check on my sis and know how she’s doing so I took her to my family house and after the visit I drove her back to there hostel and when we’re bout saying our goodbyes I told her can I get a peck but she refused and I let her be, and later she texted me that she just wants us to be normal friends and nothing more than that, this was a girl I dedicated 10months of my time to when I already met beautiful and good women I had to let them go because of her.

We were so good to each other but all of a sudden everything changed I’m tired of her flimsy excuses towards everything and from my observation I feel she’s already admiring someone else that’s why she’s giving me this kind of attitude, we have not communicated in about a week so I’ve made my decision already and moved on
I am suspecting 95% she might be the one that wrote a topic few days back that hit the front page with the subject (
I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? ) because it sounds very similar, but niaralanders, ur candid opinions would be of help

SLAP44:
If you rushed into this thread like me thinking she turned into a snake or a stone statue, click like

Ladylite:


Candid bitter truth.


She needs a spirikoko brother that is very good sexually.

You are not a spiritual dude hence she feels you are only good for chat and visits... Nothing more.

You also need to know she dedicated 10months too so calm down, she denied other guys too, but your game was lame and too shabby for her.

You need to move on. She has met someone else, she must be very smart and intelligent to have summed you up after 10 Months so she knew a life with you will be boring for her.


You are not adventurous or wealthy or sexually great enough for her.

Good church "moral" girls like church bad boys o. It's a fact.

Cut off from her. Friend zone is a graveyard, disconnect totally from her for 10months, use it to upgrade, appear very committed and be seen with a more pretty lady. And she may come back begging you. Use your upper.

profilemessages:
thank God I read miseducations by prof ubunja

google this book "the manipulated man" by Esther villar, download the PDF.

don't be a sissy bro,

good day!!

Ladylite:


Candid bitter truth.


She needs a spirikoko brother that is very good sexually.

You are not a spiritual dude hence she feels you are only good for chat and visits... Nothing more.

You also need to know she dedicated 10months too so calm down, she denied other guys too, but your game was lame and too shabby for her.

You need to move on. She has met someone else, she must be very smart and intelligent to have summed you up after 10 Months so she knew a life with you will be boring for her.


You are not adventurous or wealthy or sexually great enough for her.

Good church "moral" girls like church bad boys o. It's a fact.

Cut off from her. Friend zone is a graveyard, disconnect totally from her for 10months, use it to upgrade, appear very committed and be seen with a more pretty lady. And she may come back begging you. Use your upper.

thecloak:
As time progresses we became so close we had a one time thing but the experience was awkward.
And after that day her mood about everything changed, she didn’t want to talk to me so I had to beg her to forgive me that it won’t happen again,

thecloak:
I am suspecting 95% she might be the one that wrote a topic few days back that hit the front page with the subject (
I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? ) because it sounds very similar, but niaralanders, ur candid opinions would be of help