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Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by bummyla(m): 11:58am On Jan 02, 2020
Number 1 Hard Lesson, I Have Learnt About Love:
My Mummy will never love me more than her husband – My Daddy!
No matter how hard I try, my mum, will never love me more than my Dad! I have stopped hating my Dad, for stealing my Mummy’s love from me.

I have embraced my lot!

The day it dawned on me, that my Mum will never never never love me more than my Daddy – Her Husband, I cried and cried in my room, in private till I had asthmatic attack.

Which led me to number 2, if my Daddy could beat me to my Mummy’s love, then not my siblings!



Number 2 Hard Lesson I Have Learnt About Love:

My Mummy Will Never Love Me More Than My Siblings:


I have given up; Period! I am the least loved by my Mummy. And I don’t want to live in malice with my siblings! So I hands up!

I have also stopped playing all the tricks in my books to gain mum’s undivided attention, even if just a minute every day!

And my Mummy knows how much I love her! Sometimes she makes painful jokes out of it!

Am done trying! My Dad and my siblings have won! MAKE THEY CARRY GO

This leads me to number 3, hard lesson I have learnt about love.












Number 3 Hard Lesson I Have Learnt About Love:

Now I am happily married!

My wife will never love me more than her siblings:

I have given up on love! Nobody loves me the more! WHY?

Abeg! Just accord me my respect as the HEAD OF THE FAMILY! I am okay with it! Period!

I am too old to cry over petty jealousy!

One per cent love is better than no love at all!

This brings me to number four, hard lesson I have learnt about love.






Number Four Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love:
Now we are trying to make babies, and I have been asking GOD for four handsome godly sons after HIS own heart.

I wonder who they will love the most!

Their Sweet Mummy! Or Their Attention Seeking Father!

May GOD help Me Ooooo!

Amen.

https://bummyla.com/2020/01/01/few-hard-lessons-i-have-learnt-about-love/



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Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by frozen70(f): 12:55pm On Jan 02, 2020
I don't know what kind of love you are craving for

As a man, you are meant to give love

But your complaint here is that you need love

If your mum, father, wife and children gives you love, what do you give them in return

Learn to love people and love will come back to you

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Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by wHyyyyyyyyyY: 12:59pm On Jan 02, 2020
frozen70:
I don't know what kind of love you are craving for

As a man, you are meant to give love

But your complaint here is that you need love


If your mum, father, wife and children gives you love, what do you give them in return

Learn to love people and love will come back to you
whyyyyyyyy? So as a man, we re only meant 2 giv out nd not get luv, correct? Ur head is nt correct ma. Whyyyyyy is it always about men giving n giving n giving? Wat is wrong wt u females?

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Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by MJBOLT: 1:44pm On Jan 02, 2020
why must a man give you ladies everything(love,attention,money,security) etc undecided

frozen70:
I don't know what kind of love you are craving for

As a man, you are meant to give love

But your complaint here is that you need love

If your mum, father, wife and children gives you love, what do you give them in return

Learn to love people and love will come back to you

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Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by seanwilliam(m): 2:36pm On Jan 02, 2020
Some nairaland ladies are so vapid..imagine wetin that one up there dey talk?? So man no need love?? Like say na your life we come...mtcheww

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Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by frozen70(f): 4:06pm On Jan 02, 2020
wHyyyyyyyyyY:
whyyyyyyyy? So as a man, we re only meant 2 giv out nd not get luv, correct? Ur head is nt correct ma. Whyyyyyy is it always about men giving n giving n giving? Wat is wrong wt u females?

It takes a man with incorrect head to detect one
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by Thermodynamics(m): 6:29pm On Jan 02, 2020
Nobody cares about the lessons you learnt bro
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by Criptofxt10: 6:32pm On Jan 02, 2020
Mtchewww...which kind mumu thrend be this one...

How man go dey crave attention say na love..mtcheww....

Which kind mummy's boy u dey form...mtcheee
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by wHyyyyyyyyyY: 7:23pm On Jan 02, 2020
frozen70:


It takes a man with incorrect head to detect one
I pity u
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by bummyla(m): 8:20pm On Jan 02, 2020
Thermodynamics:
Nobody cares about the lessons you learnt bro

I hope you have gotten your WAEC and have treated your scraws scraw head! There is a job opening somewhere I can help you get on!
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by bummyla(m): 8:21pm On Jan 02, 2020
Criptofxt10:
Mtchewww...which kind mumu thrend be this one...

How man go dey crave attention say na love..mtcheww....

Which kind mummy's boy u dey form...mtcheee


This thread pain you! Sorry Ooooo!

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Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by Thermodynamics(m): 12:17am On Jan 03, 2020
bummyla:


I hope you have gotten your WAEC and have treated your scraws scraw head! There is a job opening somewhere I can help you get on!

See person when de complain say he nor de fit recognise people, well I'm not surprise at your post, you are obviously mentally unstable.

see eh, I nor wan just treat your matter, make I just hold am for here.

Except for some small pain I felt on my head sometime ago (which most Nigerians will neglect and see as nothing) there was nothing really wrong with my head.

Yes, I've treated the pain though.

if nor be say I de try not to insult people online, I for finish you.
but if you push me.

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Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by bummyla(m): 12:30am On Jan 03, 2020
Bros You got nothing on me! Okay! Stop hiding behind a chinko phone to write rubbish on peoples post! Cheers!


Thermodynamics:


See person when de complain say he nor de fit recognise people, well I'm not surprise at your post, you are obviously mentally unstable.

see eh, I nor wan just treat your matter, make I just hold am for here.

Except for some small pain I felt on my head sometime ago (which most Nigerians will neglect and see as nothing) there was nothing really wrong with my head.

Yes, I've treated the pain though.

if nor be say I de try not to insult people online, I for finish you.
but if you push me.
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by DONFRANSKID(m): 2:26am On Jan 03, 2020
frozen70:


It takes a man with incorrect head to detect one
aunty its not by force to comment if you don't know what to say then shut up. nonsense
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by mumumugu(m): 2:31am On Jan 03, 2020
can any of them die for you like Jesus? that is love

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Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by frozen70(f): 7:08am On Jan 03, 2020
DONFRANSKID:
aunty its not by force to comment if you don't know what to say then shut up. nonsense

If you had read and shut up, you won't be saying nonsense
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by Thermodynamics(m): 11:02am On Jan 03, 2020
bummyla:

Bros You got nothing on me! Okay! Stop hiding behind a chinko phone to write rubbish on peoples post! Cheers!



See this one, instead of you to find way to cure your loss of memory problem, you're here posting about love.
90% of your topics are on love love love
90% of your topics are on romance section

you nor even de behave like man

PUSSY NIGGA
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by bummyla(m): 11:39am On Jan 03, 2020
Thank You Sir! I Have Come To That Realization! God Bless You!

mumumugu:
can any of them die for you like Jesus? that is love
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by bummyla(m): 11:42am On Jan 03, 2020
Alpha Nigga! This My Love Love Story! Dey Pain! Go Hug Transformer!


Thermodynamics:


See this one, instead of you to find way to cure your loss of memory problem, you're here posting about love.
90% of your topics are on love love love
90% of your topics are on romance section

you nor even de behave like man

PUSSY NIGGA
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by Thermodynamics(m): 7:51pm On Jan 03, 2020
bummyla:
Alpha Nigga! This My Love Love Story! Dey Pain! Go Hug Transformer!



Make thunder fire you there, oga love, nor go find how you go take make money.
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by bummyla(m): 12:44am On Jan 04, 2020
May GOD Forgive You Oga Cyber Gorilla! Be Gainfully Employed This Year! The Hate In You Is Holding You Prisoner!


Thermodynamics:


Make thunder fire you there, oga love, nor go find how you go take make money.
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by Thermodynamics(m): 10:59pm On Jan 04, 2020
bummyla:
May GOD Forgive You Oga Cyber Gorilla! Be Gainfully Employed This Year! The Hate In You Is Holding You Prisoner!



Who read your "Father today establish the works of my hands" topic go feel say you be better Christian.
You don't even behave like a married man, you're behaving like a jambite, a teenager who just got access to the internet.
If you like, keep allowing your wife to sing sorrowful songs, that is if you are even married.
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by Thermodynamics(m): 11:02pm On Jan 04, 2020
bummyla:
May GOD Forgive You Oga Cyber Gorilla! Be Gainfully Employed This Year! The Hate In You Is Holding You Prisoner!



Na blogger you be sef
See blogger de talk about employment,
I talk am say you never marry, a married man can't be behaving like this.
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by bummyla(m): 3:18am On Jan 05, 2020
Cyber Monkey

Thermodynamics:


Na blogger you be sef
See blogger de talk about employment,
I talk am say you never marry, a married man can't be behaving like this.
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by Thermodynamics(m): 7:15pm On Jan 06, 2020
bummyla:
Cyber Monkey


Bloddy blogger, nor go find something meaningful to do with your life, de find quick money by posting useless and lie lie post on nairaland, trying to tap from Segun's traffic by posting rubbish.
You are obviously not married.
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by Jodha(f): 7:40pm On Jan 06, 2020
What's all these "mummy"..."daddy" ... I'm seeing?
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by Philipmighty(m): 8:00pm On Jan 06, 2020
Lol.....nah fight una won fight
u guys should take it easy oo
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by bummyla(m): 11:13pm On Jan 06, 2020
Nobody is fighting anybody!


Peace!

Philipmighty:
Lol.....nah fight una won fight

u guys should take it easy oo
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by nlPoster: 11:22pm On Jan 06, 2020
As a grown person, it's creepy when you use mummy and daddy indiscriminately and excessively in this manner when referring to your parents.

Just saying.

I'd say print out all this stuff you typed, show it to the people mentioned in your post, not nairaland.

Also, are you a born again Christian and have received Jesus Christ's offer of salvation? I'm just adding this because sometimes people don't know they need Jesus and they might be typing for erstwhile demons.
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by bummyla(m): 12:14am On Jan 07, 2020
I Don't Understand?



nlPoster:
As a grown person, it's creepy when you use mummy and daddy indiscriminately and excessively in this manner when referring to your parents.

Just saying.

I'd say print out all this stuff you typed, show it to the people mentioned in your post, not nairaland.

Also, are you a born again Christian and have received Jesus Christ's offer of salvation? I'm just adding this because sometimes people don't know they need Jesus and they might be typing for inherited demons.
Re: Few Hard Lessons I Have Learnt About Love. by nlPoster: 12:19am On Jan 07, 2020
Modified.

Which part do you need clarification on?

Accepting Jesus Christ or typing under unclear motives?

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