iPrevail:
Let me be honest with you, there is nothing you can do to save her... If you like beat her with iron. In fact, it will even make her the more rebellious.
The world as we see it has gone to the dogs. You don't want her to become another "street meat".. But that's a decision she has to make for herself.. To embrace the right way of life. You will only achieve this by talking to her.. Not beating.

where is that trump thump up meme?

When I tell people I don't want a Female child, they make it look I am cruel.

Imagine what a Dad would go through in his mind if he reads his daughter chats like that, he would be torn apart and filled with rage!

I may kill the bastard 27yr old if I lay hands on him.

Discipling Female kids is a tough thing to do in this era as they are so Vulnerable to social vices. This is a clear case of one.

See how a brother is torn between worlds how best he should attack the scenario.

lucky4west:
beat that guy up real bad and lash your sister too...and talk some sense into her..but talk alone no go do this one beat the two of them up well with a stern warning to continue the beating if that silly behavior no stop...threaten that guy with a court case and jail since ur sis is a minor

While beating her and someone ask "why are you beating her"? Out you let the matter go, she'll never trust you again, and you'll never get her head again, she'll be gone for good.

chukzyfcbb:
When I tell people I don't want a Female child, it make it look I am cruel.

Imagine what a Dad would go through in his mind if he read his daughter chats like that, he would be torn apart and filled with rage!

Discipling Females is a tough thing to do as they are so Vulnerable to social vices. This is a clear case.

And I prefer to have female kids only.

Brother Smat, this is a new trend of teenage girls becoming more adventurous nowadays.
The thing is there is not much you can do about this except sitting her down and talking sense into her stubborn thick skull, let her know the dangers of involving in premarital and unconventional sex.
Oga, even if you slap your sister from now till five years time, the chances of her still having that primordial thing called sex will still happen.
Just talk, talk talk talk and talk please don't beat, I repeat don't beat.

makydebbie:


I was even planning to open a thread before I saw this I wonder what else I can do for this girl and its not like she lacks too.

Tbh, I am already fed up. I just hope they won't learn the hard way.

Bros I would advise you not to even touch her talk less of beating her. The sex education you gave her suppose be on a regular basis and not once in 4 years. Counseling her at this time is like doing the right thing at the wrong time. I am one of the best friend my younger sis have till date because we talk about everything and my advise has always been a guide for her till she got married. Its not too late anyway because from your post , its proofed 60% she's still a virgin with the way she told the guy she's afraid. We all gone err in one way or the other in life but here some of us are and we become stronger than our mistakes in life. Sit your sis down and let her know how disappointed you were and promise her not to let any member of the family knows about it and let her promise you too to turn a new leave. Peace

smat101:

I just finished talking to her like an hour ago, and she is still wanting to give in to sex...
I think if I beat her it will help her remember what I told her.

Don’t beat her, all she needs us counseling, beating her will only lead to her resenting you and she will do worse but when you talk to her with love, she will adjust. The real culprit here is 27 years old bastard and paedophile planning to have sex with a minor. Get him arrested ASAP so his brain can be resetted that when he sees small girls, he will run as fast as his legs could carry him.

The only help you can do for her right now is to let her know the consequence of her action she’s about to take, and counsel her about the bright future ahead of she can focus, and the pride she stand to gain as a woman

smat101:

I just finished talking to her like an hour ago, and she is still wanting to give in to sex...
I think if I beat her it will help her remember what I told her.

Someone mentioned "Factory Reset Slaps" whilst giving the Counselling.

Oga the Bible says "spare the rod and spoil the child"... You can see it in the book of Proverbs.
There is nothing that beating cannot RESET. It is just that you need to counsel her and draw her close after beating her.

Then shower her with love after beating her.

Leave the other guy for now and deal with your sister...

The way I dey use eye follow my 12 year old sister. She just develop finish. I fit kill person for her matter.

Ishilove:

I'm not harsh. I just can't stand pedophilia

No sane adult can, but, "slaps" ? That action might be too harsh, especially if he wants to gain her trust going forward. The last thing he wants, is to breed resentment in her. You call her a kid, she sees herself as an adult or has been brainwashed to believe she is, so, caution is advised if he doesn't want to make a wild cat out of her.

You chose the easy way by talking to her, which is right, but it wasn't enough. This time, add some slaps to the mix, and use agbero to dash de dude some face-reshaping-puches, warning him to stay away from her as you delete her contact from his phone and put the phone on factory reset. Finally block the idiot on her timeline, and make sure you delete his contact from her phone (if it's already there).
If she still goes back, then we need bulldozer to tow her. We will call Autojosh

So why are you here ? Don't you know the very shop to get a nice cane ?

anie07:

And I prefer to have female kids only.

U think you both will make a perfect pair

smat101:
I Am Planing To Seriously Beat My Kid Sister 2moro Morning

What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...

It's been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings. I really love my kid sister so much even more than my mum.

There is a lot to say but to cut the long story short, when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14 years.
Just today I talked to her about sex, boyfriends, pornography relationship, sex, everything in that area.

Recently she was using my phone for Facebook, then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed. As I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...

Just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in... What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend, she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...

My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...

So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...

I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .

Most of these young boys these days are cultists, if you go to beat him I hope you and your parent will not turn to fugitives when those cultists start their problem chasing you up and down?
The one that happened in my area recently, the 15yrs old girl was thoroughly bleep by the young boy. When the parent found out they quietly took their daughter home and continued their life without raising dust to avoid gun shot.
Police in my state has just told us recently that they don't have enough man power to tackle crime.

She is just 14 year old.
You suppose don finish cane for her body by now.

You can't be diplomatic at that age.

Ishilove:
Beat the pedophile, not the ignorant teenager.

You just have to talk to her again and spice the lecture with some hot slaps because you counselled her TODAY about sex and it's ramifications, yet she still wants to go ahead to waka useless waka. No, this is a very dangerous step she wants to take. Some factory resetting slaps are in order for disregarding all your advice less than 24hours after giving it.

After the slaps, draw her close and counsel her again because that is the best you can do. You can only show these children the right way; whether they choose to take it is entirely up to them.

My dear, may God help us @ "you can only show them the way..."

Sad to say, we are slowly losing the battle to technology...parenting is soooooo hard these days what with the competition from technology and wider society.

The kids are growing so fast and the quest for the means of taking care of these same kids puts a lot of parents out if touch with the kids as they are out tere hustling to make a good living for the family.

End of story; kids get thought everything they know by a corrupt and insane society and technology. More often than not it's always the 'bad' things they assimilate adopt and practice first and at a rapid pace at that.


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Chi59:
The way I dey use eye follow my 12 year old sister. She just develop finish. I fit kill person for her matter.

Hmmm, we are limited in the things we can do for our siblings, especially as we aren't omnipresent. The better step to take is, gaining their trust and being close to them enough to give piercing advices.

iPrevail:
Let me be honest with you, there is nothing you can do to save her... If you like beat her with iron. In fact, it will even make her the more rebellious.
The world as we see it has gone to the dogs. You don't want her to become another "street meat".. But that's a decision she has to make for herself.. To embrace the right way of life. You will only achieve this by talking to her.. Not beating.

It's heartbreaking-your apparent helplessness in situations like this. The choice just had to be theirs to make, you can only present the pros and cons of such choices. The ultimate decision lies with them alone.

So heartbreaking. We are losing our sons and daughters, brothers and sisters, nephews and nieces to the "world".

makydebbie:

How?

my dear, orientation books would be of help 2 her

Please, report the case to the authority. And, then, work on your sister.

Beating won't solve the problem. You need to re-educate her. Re-orientation.

makydebbie:


How?

my dear, orientation books would be of help 2 her

jayloms:


Hmmm, we are limited in the things we can do for our siblings, especially as we aren't omnipresent. The better step to take is, gaining their trust and being close to them enough to give piercing advices.

makydebbie:


How?

my dear, adult orientation books would be great of help 2 her

makydebbie:
I'm going through this same thing with my 16 years old cousin. I really don't know what to do anymore because I've told her the dangers of her actions yet she's still going out without letting anyone know only return hours later and I don't want to resort to beatings because I'm sure it'll make her even more rebellious.

Sometimes, experience is the best teacher even if one may not survive the experience.

I've come to know that only a very chinkinly few teenagers and early twenties will EVER listen to counselling when it comes to issues such as sex, romance and choice of friends. They don't EVER listen. They believe they know it all.

Let her be.

Let her learn the hard-way.

If it goes south, don't berate yourself or feel guilty as you did your best. You can only talk to them. What do you want to do? Beat her? At 16, no way! Deny her money or whatever? She'll just source it elsewhere. You can only "talk". Don't stop talking until one day the other shoe drops by way of her seeing the light or paying the price for her actions or lack thereof.

You can only "talk".

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