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Its Better To Sponsor A Lady You Don't Love In School by Nobody: 9:58am On Jan 30, 2020
If you want to send a girl to the higher institution; whether university or polytechnic, you should sponsor a lady you don't have feelings for, or the one you don't care to date. But if you love her so much, don't sponsor her, except you don't care any consequence, or if any future Consequences will not bother you much
Re: Its Better To Sponsor A Lady You Don't Love In School by Nobody: 10:24am On Jan 30, 2020
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Lets assume you have a gf who dropped out from school years ago because of financial difficulties. You have the money to help sponsor her. You refuse to do this because you can't take the risk of her leaving you after she gets her degree
One day, you got up and decided to stroll around. As you were walking you met a lady crying. Being the caring guy you are, you went over and asked her what was wrong. She narrated her ordeal, similar to your girl's. Couldnt continue her schooling cause her parents lacked the funds.
You felt pity and promised that you would sponsor her. After, you went home feeling fly and good about yourself.

If you love someone, and you have the resources to help that person out, the you would do it without hesitating. Thats sacrifice.
If she leaves you, for no fault of yours, then your better off. Simply see the good you did for her as what you would have done for that random stranger.
But dont hold anyone back because you're scared of being left behind. Its a lesson i'm learning

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Re: Its Better To Sponsor A Lady You Don't Love In School by Skmoda360(m): 10:37am On Jan 30, 2020
Blu03:
undecided
Lets assume you have a gf who dropped out from school years ago because of financial difficulties. You have the money to help sponsor her. You refuse to do this because you can't take the risk of her leaving you after she gets her degree
One day, you got up and decided to stroll around. As you were walking you met a lady crying. Being the caring guy you are, you went over and asked her what was wrong. She narrated her ordeal, similar to your girl's. Couldnt continue her schooling cause her parents lacked the funds.
You felt pity and promised that you would sponsor her. After, you went home feeling fly and good about yourself.

If you love someone, and you have the resources to help that person out, the you would do it without hesitating. Thats sacrifice.
If she leaves you, for no fault of yours, then your better off. Simply see the good you did for her as what you would have done for that random stranger.
But dont hold anyone back because you're scared of being left behind. Its a lesson i'm learning

Re: Its Better To Sponsor A Lady You Don't Love In School by Jozzy4: 10:42am On Jan 30, 2020
Feelings or no feeling, the principle to always have in mind was echoed by Jesus Christ years ago " Do good without expecting anything in RETURN " ... With this mindset , you do good out of pure motives, often times the Wonder with this mindset is The Said Lady will start growing feelings for you in her bid for her to show Appreciation. Why ? She noticed you are not desperate, or disturbing her for a return of the favour that got her curious as to what kind of person are you ? " Who is this man " she start feeling somehow and starts thinking getting close to you will be a better way for her to return the gesture. Now she will do the chasing , Opposite attracts
Re: Its Better To Sponsor A Lady You Don't Love In School by vincentjk(m): 11:14am On Jan 30, 2020
Blu03:
undecided
Lets assume you have a gf who dropped out from school years ago because of financial difficulties. You have the money to help sponsor her. You refuse to do this because you can't take the risk of her leaving you after she gets her degree
One day, you got up and decided to stroll around. As you were walking you met a lady crying. Being the caring guy you are, you went over and asked her what was wrong. She narrated her ordeal, similar to your girl's. Couldnt continue her schooling cause her parents lacked the funds.
You felt pity and promised that you would sponsor her. After, you went home feeling fly and good about yourself.

If you love someone, and you have the resources to help that person out, the you would do it without hesitating. Thats sacrifice.
If she leaves you, for no fault of yours, then your better off. Simply see the good you did for her as what you would have done for that random stranger.
But dont hold anyone back because you're scared of being left behind. Its a lesson i'm learning

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