We do chores because we have to. It is the adult thing to do. But imagine you have a partner who is happy to live their life in clutters or in a mess. Now, what makes it worse than being with such a partner is if the said partner cannot be bothered to clean up. Sigh. Anyway, just so you don’t feel taken for granted by always cleaning up after your partner, here are a few ways you can encourage your partner to help around the house more.

It Takes Two to Tango
Dividing up household chores can often be a point of contention among couples. Often, one person may feel like they end up doing more or all of the chores themselves without much help from their partner. This can lead to resentment and arguments. Having a clear plan in mind before asking your partner to help out more around the house will help you avoid getting into a fight and ultimately make getting the chores done more efficient and convenient for both of you.

Switch things up
Part of the reason no one likes to do chores is that they can be so dull and boring. If there is a particular chore you both don’t like doing try alternating days or weeks with that chore. For example, this week you do the dishes and your partner does the laundry and next week you switch. This will increase your sense of sharing the responsibilities while also breaking up some of the monotony that comes with doing the same chores every day. Read more << https://www.tigerfoods.com/perfect-tips-to-help-you-get-your-partner-involved-with-house-chores/

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In Nigeria or where? Some Men in nigeria assume dia wives are dia servants. Once they r married, they dont mind even dia shit hole,wife must wipe it for them

This isn't entirely true. Yes some men sucks at house chores and do not help. But most men do house chores. The thing couples expect each other to do specific things that they only see as house chores. To some ladies a guy who fixes things around the house, lifts heavy objects in the house, fetches water in kegs has done nothing until he sweeps or does the laundry.

Why not do things together and accept each other's strength and weaknesses after all I'm marriage couples are made to complement one another.

Ariza:
This isn't entirely true. Yes some men sucks at house chores and do not help. But most men do house chores. The thing couples expect each other to do specific things that they only see as house chores. To some ladies a guy who fixes things around the house, lifts heavy objects in the house, fetches water in kegs has done nothing until he sweeps or does the laundry.

Why not do things together and accept each other's strength and weaknesses after all I'm marriage couples are made to complement one another.

to u o. I know a man that has sisters in the house but asked them not do any house chores. He want only his wife to cook, serve, do laundry, take care of 3 kids, do school runs, run errands for him. Even to pour water in cup na wife work. Tell me how do u want such couple to enjoy fia marriage