Kennyprince:
Discuss this with her and watch for a change of attitude.

Unless u don't love her enough

nnamdiokoro:


I discussed this with her the last time she did it and she promised not do that again, but here we are again...

nnamdiokoro:
So I have been in relationship with this lady for over a year now and we've been living together as couple, though we only did Introduction but our parents both approved we can live together due to the proximity to her work place.

Now the issue am having is that she over reacts whenever she's angered or we have issues. She puts up different attitudes like not talking to me, keeping boundaries and some other ones. But the one that kept me doubting proceeding with the relationship is that she avoids me in all possible manner. This includes packing everything she buys into the house so I don't get to have access to it, things like toiletries,perfume, and some other other items she know I might have access to. I watched her do all those without any reaction while replacing all she kept away from me even though she now resorts to using them and keeping hers away. This has happened a couple of time but I tend to ignore it calling it the woman way and it's really a piss off

Now I intend to eject her from my house and I just want to be sure I am threading on the right path and what is the possible way to eject her?

ruffkenny:
Be patient with her,that is because you guys have not properly married,maybe she is keeping her things well incase you do what you wrote up there!!Besides what have u been telling her that makes her pack her things like that,maybe you have been telling her u will send her out of your house,hence she is not feeling that your home has totally become hers,..The home of a man belong to his wife,its hers not just yours,now you are talking of ejecting your wife??Bro are you sure you are ready to settle down with her?If yes then there is nothing love and communication cannot solve..

AshiraWealthy:
Well from what I deduce in your complaints, its like you're helping her to finish all her toiletries without thinking of replacing them. So when she now hid them, you remember theres a store where those things are sold. You're now saying she resorted to using the.ones you bought while you have been using hers all this while. Its like you gbadun awoof too much. Thats why its paining you.

If you guys have any issues, try to sort it out maturely rather than finding faults where there's none.
As far as I'm concerned, youve not really said what happened. You only complained about her own side, how she gets angry and all that. What did you do that got her angry? You didn't say. Until you say your own part, i dont have anything to say. Just keep tolerating each other. You too got faults.

nnamdiokoro:


I didn't tell her anything to warrant all those. it's just her random way of behaviour. Love doesn't have to bring about all this. In fact I have endured her all in d name of love. As I wrote above, I initially ignored it all in d name of na woman way, but now it's getting out of hand

ruffkenny:
please don't give up on her,the devil u know is better than the angel u don't know...

ranmoor:

Seriously? Is there any good thing that can come from the devil?
Bros, that behaviour is highly toxic! I don't know where people see all these drama queens these days

ajaniteea:
Don't eject her, I think you should be about patient, all ladies have one issue or the other. If you leave her, and find another lady, you would discover her own issues would be more than the one you are with now. If you can cope just continue

magicfairy:
Patience patience patience! She is like a baby, you have be patient in nurturing her towards being the wife you want her to be. I can assure you, it it not a day's job. You have to ask yourself, do you love her enough to be patient in growing your relationship?