I will be brief

"About 12 Years ago, my sister was living with us (our parents) because her husband travelled to Canada. She gave birth newly which made her get a help for herself. Our help when she came was a 14 years old girl. Then i was still in the University. "

He continued " Two years later, i graduated from University, She was now 16 years old and i was 24, While i was at home waiting for NYSC. I started noticing that she was trying to initiate a relationship with me. I tried to avoid it as much as possible.

One day, while everyone was away, She wrote on a piece of paper " I noticed that I am forcing myself on you, Sorry i won't do it again. Find a place to forgive me. " I read this and called her, she came and looked depressed facially. So i drew her closer and then she fell on me and we had sex. She vowed she had never done it but I never saw blood although it was very tight .We had many more sex romps b4 I went for service.

Aftermath

I helped her open a flourishing bakery business and then later About 7 years later when she was 21, she got married because I couldn't marry her due to AS X AS blood group.

Matters started arising, She told her husband accusing us of abusing her physical and emotionally (especially that we mocked her poor parents). She also said that i raped her several times and gifted her Nokia c5(which is true) as compensation (Not true). "

I Chizuru01 asked him the time the husband spoke to him about the rape, he said about 5 weeks ago and from the looks of things, he wants to extort me.

My Coursemate then continued "Now i am devastated as I don't want anything to tamper with the peace of my family and my career . "

He asked me " Should I go ahead with my plans of assassinating the man and his barren wife? or should let the matter to escalate while i pray and be hopeful? "

Now nairalanders, Help me advice him.

Should he let this man and his wife to keep extorting money from him or they expose him destroying his personality at home and if it gets to his employers ear, will terminate his Career ?

Or should he silence them once and for all for not letting bygones be bygones?

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You would have judged if it was truly rape or not.

Am not advising

kestolove95:
Am not advising

Why?

Would you had done the same as she did if you had such sex experience when you were younger?

Did the two of u remove pregnancy?
You left that part out

slimjohn2k5:
Did the two of u remove pregnancy? You left that part out

No Pregnancy was involved

It’s her word against his. Whatever you do, never give in to blackmail. Once you pay, you will always pay. What’s the worst that can happen? They’ll label you a rapist. Well, slam them with a defamation suit in return. It will be messy but it is better than paying blackmail money.

Which Kain story wey no add up be this one.

covering one sin with a bigger sin.
You, young man is the one that is evil.

Foodqueen:
Which Kain story wey no add up be this one.

My sister, I thought I was the only one confused as everyone started dropping advise...

OP, we don't understand your write-up... What are your trying to say in your aftermath?

Foodqueen:
Which Kain story wey no add up be this one.

What don't you understand

Sapphire86:



My sister, I thought I was the only one confused as everyone started dropping advise...

OP, we don't understand your write-up... What are your trying to say in your aftermath?

I created a thread on behalf of my coursmate that is too shy to do so.Observe especially my quotation signs

His a fool to have slept with a girl of 14 claiming that she is 16 then 7years later she is 21. You do the calculation and see if 16+7=23yrs and 14+7=21yrs when she get married.
Meaning that the girl was rape because you have grown up and should have control your desires.
I am waiting for service around June this year my date is an army office who is posted very far from my state (though we are having misunderstanding) now am in mom's shops alot of teenager (18-21) pass advance even some at night will come to buy stuff not wearing bra just to display there breast... Yes am moved am 24 but this girls are not to be seen as a intimacy gadget but as ignorant kids (even though they may have engaged in sex). Thank God I just got a job (In a radio station) which made me to on my data (for the email) now to see this stuff.
You have committed a crime and you want to cover the crime with another crime (assassination) which shows you are stupid.. the money you will pay for the assassinator why not invite them in a roundtable aggrement offer the money make sure it is not recorded and let them sign a document not to reveal it to the society if not the will pay.
Again you would have married her irrespective of the genotype (if she is good for sex she is good for marriage) after all many children out there need who to call Dad

What ever ur course mate would do,let him not engage in murder nor give in to there extortion tactics.

Finally, I understood quite a bit!!

How high is your friend's emotion that makes him conceive and feel comfortable with murder

Is it that easy and comfortable to shed human blood when it's not as if we are discussing chicken here??

He should have known right from the day he slept with an underage girl, it was a ticking time bomb...

I don't know what else to say, others will advise accordingly


Thou shall not kill! I know there is a lot of lawlessness going on in Nigeria but advise him not to add his preconceived murder to it

In whatever you do, do not KILL!

AfroKnight:
It’s her word against his. Whatever you do, never give in to blackmail. Once you pay, you will always pay. What’s the worst that can happen? They’ll label you a rapist. Well, slam them with a defamation suit in return. It will be messy but it is better than paying blackmail money.

Seconded!

Chizuru01:


Now nairalanders, Help me advice him.

Should he let this man and his wife to keep extorting money from him or they expose him destroying his personality at home and if it gets to his employers ear, will terminate his Career ?

Or should he silence them once and for all for not letting bygones be bygones?

d matter get as e be, u can't sue her cos u Had sex with a minor, just be far away from her and her weak husband, avoid them

Well, he had sex with her when she was 16. So it still counts as rape. If he thinks he can get away with covering one crime with another one, he should, by all means, go ahead.

Mandelus:
His a fool to have slept with a girl of 14 claiming that she is 16 then 7years later she is 21. You do the calculation and see if 16+7=23yrs and 14+7=21yrs when she get married.
Meaning that the girl was rape because you have grown up and should have control your desires.
I am waiting for service around June this year my date is an army office who is posted very far from my state (though we are having misunderstanding) now am in mom's shops alot of teenager (18-21) pass advance even some at night will come to buy stuff not wearing bra just to display there breast... Yes am moved am 24 but this girls are not to be seen as a intimacy gadget but as ignorant kids (even though they may have engaged in sex). Thank God I just got a job (In a radio station) which made me to on my data (for the email) now to see this stuff.
You have committed a crime and you want to cover the crime with another crime (assassination) which shows you are stupid.. the money you will pay for the assassinator why not invite them in a roundtable aggrement offer the money make sure it is not recorded and let them sign a document not to reveal it to the society if not the will pay.
Again you would have married her irrespective of the genotype (if she is good for sex she is good for marriage) after all many children out there need who to call Dad

Oga, this is a second hand account. He might have made mistake in his calculations. In fact, i know the said girl (woman). She attended Abia Poly.

Their is difference between Girls without bra or putting on skimpy dresses coming to your shop in an open place and Girl living with you seducing you.She will definitely get you unless you either leave as other leave in the morning or you travel.

Chizuru01:


Oga, this is a second hand account. He might have made mistake in his calculations. In fact, i know the said girl (woman). She attended Abia Poly.

Their is difference between Girls without bra or putting on skimpy dresses coming to your shop in an open place and Girl living with you seducing you.She will definitely get you unless you either leave as other leave or you travel.

Is he dump that he cannot warn his house girl on how to dress appropriately as a graduate... The girl in question is even a graduate too (Abia poly). I acknowledge that people go extra mile to get what the want bro and yes the deed has been done.. he should hear from them first before making his final conclusion. He should always documents or keep records for his own safety also never agree or claim to have rape her oh if not the will record it and use it against him.. he should claim to sort for peace instead even if we know you are a friend to a rapist

No fvck to.give here

You re lucky that you re in Nigeria.
R Kelly is in jail for similar case.

OP mafo......just explain things as e happen but na dat age 16(under age) na be problem

If only Nigeria is a sane country you should be in jail for rape. Sex with any lady below 18 is rape whether she seduced or forced you.

You are an idiot And I wish I can trace and report you right now. Rapist

jwax:
If only Nigeria is a sane country you should be in jail for rape. Sex with any lady below 18 is rape whether she seduced or forced you.

You are an idiot And I wish I can trace and report you right now. Rapist

Calm down. Am not the one

aro360:
OP mafo......just explain things as e happen but na dat age 16(under age) na be problem

Aswear

Chizuru01:


Oga, this is a second hand account. He might have made mistake in his calculations. In fact, i know the said girl (woman). She attended Abia Poly.

Their is difference between Girls without bra or putting on skimpy dresses coming to your shop in an open place and Girl living with you seducing you.She will definitely get you unless you either leave as other leave in the morning or you travel.

Settle them with money let them sign written notes if the come back for money sue them calculating all expenses and stress +

cRobo:
No fvck to.give here

You can take the exit...

Well if he is ready to pay $5millions for an assassin he can contact me.The truth is that most of this young girls are usually excited about sex without weighing the unintended consequences .You should have just avoided it to safe your skin.But the excitement of wanting to disvirgin a girl obviously becloud rational thinking... No need to stress your self trying to assasinate anybody..Rape is the New lie but technically it is rape if you force your way in base on assumptions not consent.

Let him organize a perfect hit. I think it is his only option.

Oga what your friend did was bad, but what the girl wants to do is even worse , the only thing left is to deny and then proceed to block every means of communications with them .. this is Nigeria, and in our criminal and penal code justice system, it would take a miracle for the girl to be able to prove rape, sex or molestation by you or your friend (as seen by Fatoyinbo vs Dakolos)

the more you talk to them the more you act foolishly and think of a foolish way of making the matters disapear

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