As a man, there is a difference between adopting a child together with your wife VS your wife already having a child.
Her child is not and cannot be your child.

Even if you as a man have good mind, the fact is between herself and her child, they will always see you as an outsider.
This is evident when you try to correct that child and she becomes angry at you. It is because that is not your child, but hers.
Your job is to shut up and sponsor her and her child with your resources like the good little cuck-maga that you are.
Even if she might not see it exactly like that in her head, that is factually what it is. (Thank your God you have uncle 2Buff to give you the facts).

Now if you BOTH adopted a child that none of you gave birth to, then there is no pre-established advantage on either end.
You BOTH are freshly trying to love a child that is not yours, so there is no "us vs him" dynamic (You are not starting the match at 1-0).
As a man with a heart, I have no issues giving love to a child I did not birth...but it just can't be a child my wife gave birth to without my involvement.

You will always be an outsider in your own home, and if that child's father is alive, it is like you married into a complete family and you are just the 3rd wheel and part/full financeer of that family... too much of a sissy to go start your own family.

All of the responsibility, less of the benefits you should be entitled to.
Till today, I don't care to know who Obama's step father is (i.e the one who paid and sacrificed to raise him through Havard).
All I and most people know, is that Obama's father (the impregnator) is a Kenyan.
That is because blood is thicker than water.

The only way adoption will work smoothly is if everyone is connected by water.
One cannot be connected by blood and the other water.
Ko le werk fun mi rara.
My childless brothers, don't cheat yourself.

So true and so on point.marrying a single is like adding a second leg to a bicycle.what for? wakanda iberiberism.that extra leg would always be seen as a discomfort,a stranger and an intruder by the pre-existing bicycle leg.

ladies above 30 are called evening market while single mom are called night market bcuz u won't see eir real behavior until u have

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ladies above 30 are called evening market while single mom are called night market bcuz u won't see eir real behavior until u have

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Wrong stereotype. It's still men who made them single.