its the misguided belief of weaklings low self-esteem men that:
- it will make women use "whatever you tell them" against you.
- that showing your emotion is a sign of weakness.
- that "real" men dont show their feelings.
- that women dont really need to know about it.

or,unfortunately, because thats what they saw their parents do and therefore simply duplicate what they've witnessed all their lives. how many of these weaklings have even heard their parents say "i love you" to one another, let alone kiss passionately?!(but they will be quick to tell you that they "knew"that their parents love each other). . . . . . . . . . .  so really, you expect them to do something that is NOT in their emotional vocabulary.

OP.
Sorry no idea . . .Aint a gay!

A lot of women seem to devalue a man when he says those things. They think they've got you by the ballz and therefore, you're no longer a challenge.

That's my experience, so I've learned to shut up.

^^^^ it shouldnt matter what a woman think of you if you know whats your worth.
pretending to be someone you are not or hiding how you truly feel is counter-productive to any long lasting relationship.
if your women is using what you tell her against you then i guess ¨telling her how you feel¨ is not really the problem her, BEING WITH HER IS.

~~Im feelin ur high lvl intelligent on this forum.MRbrownJAY i greet u.Compliment of the season.

I smtyms force it outta his mouth n his fingers

Topic.

Thy'll get to know when the time is right.

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I smtyms force it outta his mouth n his fingers
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And i bet you use it against him.

^^ he doesnt even give room 4 dat
i jst love 2 hear him say it n write it
lyk I LOVE U VERY MUCH
n i think he uses it against me
cos wen m mad at him he jst pops it in

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What a fast guy.

i really love my new GF, and there's always moments when i'd want to say how much i love her, but i just fight it and keep my mouth shut. I have d feeling its going to get into her head if i say d words.

Specialist900:

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What a fast guy.

well u can say dat again

some guys are just intimidated with a lady's look and perceived standards.

if a guy can't be bold to tell his gal how he feel about her, then he's suffering from inferiority complex and low self esteem

If a man truly loves a woman. He will tell her in form of a poem, gifts, or even with compliments that is not an everyday compliment. A man who in love with a woman will go beyond and above for the woman he love.

They are very protective of their damsel in distress and will go great length to provide for their every need. The animal in their soul is designed to hunt, kill, and provide for the woman is his prize.

A real man will not have a problem telling the woman he love, I LOVE YOU and will you be mine forever.

^^^^ it shouldnt matter what a woman think of you if you know whats your worth.
pretending to be someone you are not or hiding how you truly feel is counter-productive to any long lasting relationship.
if your women is using what you tell her against you then i guess ¨telling her how you feel¨ is not really the problem her, BEING WITH HER IS.[quote][/quote]

You want to help them with solutions found on a blogsite as this http://dating-war..com/2010/11/how-women-think.html

^^^ nice try playa but i will DEFINITELY not click on any blog or whatever. what i write is MY beliefs and comes from ME and no one else!!!!
better try to look for other ways to get traffic to your blog!

i tell her all the time then i remind her to be careful and not take it for granted
its been working this 3yrs

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Good for you man.