I really don't know what to do? This guy have been of a big help to me and even help me got my present job had been there all through when the going was tough.

Now my babe have been complaining that this guy is disturbing her persistently and am at a lost on what to do please house I need your advice what should I do?

i think ur babe shuld be in a better position to decide who she really love and want as well. ask ur babe to make a choice because it might be that her interest is there also. any responsible girl shuld be able to refuse a man she doesnt want period.

agree!!

What a friend you got! IF she leaves with him then let it alone. You can do much better.

Have you confronted your friend to ask him what's the deal with him pushing up on your woman? Just because he "helped" you get a job does not give him the "green light" to push up on your woman? Since that is your friend, I think you should check him about that. You don't have to be mean or rude about it. But I'll respectfully let him know what he is doing ain't even cool. You may also want to find out what "cue" your girl is giving him that it's okay for him to push up on her.

@poster
tell your buddy openly what your gal told you and ask him politely to stop doing that, as it might strain your friendship.
if he continues then get rid of his a$$. doesnt matter if the gal is worth it or not as the lack of respect from your so called friend is whats troubling here.

he definitely doesnt think very highly of you (if what she says is true).

Tell ur babe 2talk true,
CHICKEN MAN, sure she's seen things rossy wit dis ur friend,

Watch closely 2undastand d scenario, ur gal cld b d issue here,
Hold ur friendshp wit ur guy strngly for nw,

2ndly,ur guy'll b an A$$hole if he's intendin such.

U sure don't owe him for life coz he helped u somtime ago. Tell him wat ur gal told u and tell him to stop it. Simples!

nw datz messd up. Disown hiz azzz

slap1:

U sure don't owe him for life coz he helped u somtime ago. Tell him wat your gal told u and tell him to stop it. Simples!

Wat if ur g/f is d issue here?

[/quote]Tell your babe 2talk true,
CHICKEN MAN, sure she's seen things rossy wit dis your friend,

Watch closely 2undastand d scenario, your gal cld b d issue here,
Hold your friendshp wit your guy strngly for nw,

2ndly,your guy'll b an A$$hole if he's intendin such.[quote]

Your girlfriend is already head over hill in love with ur frnd. discover what is going through her head right now inside this post. http://dating-war..com/2010/11/how-women-think.html

your friend is not truely your friend, and your girlfriend is also not safe around him

find a way of keeping them apart to the best of your ability, and be carefull cos someone might just be lying

I'm also in same kasala now too, my babe keep on seating wit my frd to talk, but eachj time i ask her what they were saying, she keep on saying "am not dating your frd" but i wound'nt stoop low to ask my frd what was wrong but instead i;ll keep it to my self.Now when she comes around we do all, kissing, flexing, sex*ng.

@topic
Guy if na gel u truely love, Land the mata to her and ask her not to talk to that guy again. But if she does then, no need 4 waiting, , Red card will solve her problem. But if she's just a gelfrd, den continue wit her she have all to losss. Man the would is free, u can only try to change a woman, but they are unchangeable.
Best of luck.

My GUY there is noting like YOUR Best Friend Wants To Take YOUR Babe. Your babe has the free will to choose between you two.

The fact is that your BABE is not SHOWING STRONG RESISTANT to your friend.

All you need to do is to ask her to choose who she want. She will likely say you her every-thing. NO PROBLEM.

Just observe her moves and closeness towards your friend.

DO NOT DISCUSES THE ISSUE WITH YOUR FRIEND,BECAUSE SOME MEN CAN BE VARY DESPERATE AND DANGEROUS WHEN IT COMES TO THIS RELATIONSHIP.

JUST KEEP AND OPEN MIND AND ENJOY YOUR-SELF.

Mrs, Eve:

What a friend you got! IF she leaves with him then let it alone. You can do much better.

Don't get the message pls.

IF she should leave you for your "friend," then you're no longer in a relationship that she clearly wishes to be out of. The "friend" has, then, done you a favor.

IF she stays with you, then you'll know that it's her choice to be with you and not with him.

Either way, you win!

drrionelli:

IF she should leave you for your "friend," then you're no longer in a relationship that she clearly wishes to be out of. The "friend" has, then, done you a favor.

IF she stays with you, then you'll know that it's her choice to be with you and not with him.

Either way, you win!

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Really!!!

since ur best friend has been a great helping hand 2 i suggest u leave de babe 4 him. U can easily get anoda babe.

@poster,you have to talk to your friend and also your girlfriend to know what they both want if her heart is with your friend i suggest you let her be cos you are not yet married.

you should be grateful your gf told you, mehn, confront your friend and tell him what your gf told you