| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 7:28pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
elantraceey:
My goodness!! So what we're you doing in three years? nothing? Have been doing nothing apart from partying and clubbing with friends |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 7:30pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
OgbeniSir:
Hmmmm, plenty things wrong with this post! 'In the abroad'? 'Building a house'.. unless it's one African country, who builds a house in the western world?when they buy mortgage already built houses.
Abroad doesn’t mean Europe , am still in Africa and my baby daddy is not Nigerian
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| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Uniqueteco(m): 7:33pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
They will be mad at you for deceiving them all along but the joy of having a grand child is a joy without limits for parents. Open up to them and be free |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by dimeji1(m): 7:33pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
You are actually telling them now. Just include your name in the post and switched off ur line for 1week.
Warm regards |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by fof1: 7:38pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.
He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.
I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.
We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.
He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.
Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.
Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.
But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.
Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please? FOOLISHNESS ON PARADE. STORIES FOR D gods. Make Beliefs and Faslehood on Display. |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by ijaw1stson: 7:43pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Dynamic33:
Thank you . I’m really nervous I'll try to talk to my mum tomorrow please if u are in Nigeria currently don't tell them anything. Wait till u travel back. Then recharge your phone very well and call them.. Reason is that they may prevent u from going back to US. |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by JBL316: 7:47pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
If u like tell them....the life is urs to live.....as u lay ur bed so u lie on it.....ur misdeeds will catch up with u.....u cannot sow cocoyam and expect to reap carrot.....have fun |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by cooooooks(m): 7:49pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
1. You may have some protections if there was abuse in the country you're in
2. You could enroll in a cheaper diploma program.
3. You should tell your parents.
4. What is your plan for your daughter? Come up with a plan sharp sharp. |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Dynamic33 First of all if this guy is good for you then settle down, if he's not then cut him off. It's not too late to finish your studies though. UK's educational system is more flexible than in Nigeria. I remember leaving for Nigeria when I lost a family member, and returned after many months to finish my studies. If this is still your desire then it can be done. As for the parents the sooner you come clean, the better. They may be sad or disappointed but family remains family. They still love you |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Nobody: 7:54pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Sanchez01:
Another script just landed. This isn't worth any sane person's time. Neh! Abi! You sef don notice the FAKE stories LALASHITLALA and the Mods push to front page to trend. Very unprincipled bunch. |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Strydermanz(m): 7:58pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
My sister he would definitely do the same to you |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by ImaIma1(f): 8:02pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Promotions:
Wow this your story is something else..your anger management mechanism is poor (breaking head and throwing chair)..
I don't want to put blames on anyone but is the man finally divorced?...
You already have a baby don't hide her from her grannies, inform them about her that's the best you can do cos you can't hide it forever..you will be glad you told them cos the fear and burden will finally leave you. Audio divorce  . Ladies shouldn't fall for that scam |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Oyindidi(f): 8:03pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Sirvingeo:
Did you travel queen of romance land? I say may I go low small. I don return |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Iykenuwa(m): 8:04pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Has anybody told you that apart from being loose, you have anger issues? |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Iykenuwa(m): 8:09pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
elantraceey:
My goodness!! So what we're you doing in three years? nothing? Living on sugar Daddy, with the illusion that he will soon divorce his wife for a girl he met in the club(at 21) |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 8:09pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Iykenuwa:
Has anybody told you that apart from being loose, you have anger issues? Yes I know I have a anger problem when I’m I get very angry , I break and throw things , slams doors and bangs walls. I will get help soon before it landed me in prison 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by alphaNomega: 8:10pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.
He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.
I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.
We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.
He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.
Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.
Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.
But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.
Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please? I hope you named your daughter DEGREE |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Platony(m): 8:10pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Just pray ur child doesn't do same or worse to u.
All is see here is selfishness.
U're a wicked child!!
Only a parent would understand dis pain.
FATHER LORD, I DIDN'T TROUBLE MY PARENTS, MAY MY CHILDREN NOT TROUBLE ME. Amen!! |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 8:10pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Strydermanz:
My sister he would definitely do the same to you I break up with him , I don’t need him in my and baby life, I have a boyfriend who loves me and my baby 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 8:11pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
alphaNomega:
I hope you named your daughter DEGREE Her name is Destiny 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by nalizzzy: 8:13pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
. but you could see the signs on your face about your boyfriend and refuse to believe. pls talk with your mum first so she can tell your dad |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by skyfather09(m): 8:15pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.
He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.
I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.
We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.
He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.
Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.
Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.
But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.
Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please? useless thing... see your life! |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by stephenisaac948(m): 8:18pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Well this a mistake u have done and for every mistake there is a repercussions for yours it might be rejection from parent or otherwise. But want thing I want to let u know is when u did something wrong and u repented from that wrong doing the latter will be joyous just go straight to your parent and let them know but if u see that they are type that can easily get heart attack use wisdom maybe meeting someone who is elderly and softhearted to talk with your they will understand. Wish u goodluck |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by gazilion: 8:24pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
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| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by miketayo(m): 8:39pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Sanchez01:
Another script just landed. This isn't worth any sane person's time. Neh! funny enough I know few Nigerian dropouts in India, with the same or similar case |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by VirginSearcher(m): 8:47pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.
He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.
I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.
We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.
He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.
Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.
Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.
But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.
Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please? You are a disgrace to womanhood, u couldn't even wait to finish school, sheyy body dey sweet u, God forbid if one was your parents na to disown you.. Olosho! |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by mt77: 8:49pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
There is s way that seemest right unto a (wo)man but the end leafs to death. Embrace God and let him make something good out of your life the enemy is trying to destroy. |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by aalangel(f): 8:49pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.
He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.
I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.
We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.
He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.
Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.
Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.
But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.
Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please? Tell them, they might be angry at first...but truly no grandparents rejects grandchildren. |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Nobody: 8:50pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
While many would say this is a cooked up story, I know a lady who once fell into a similar predicament. There was a daughter of a major furniture maker in Ososami, Ibadan in those days who was sent to school in OAU. This girl would be calling her parents at NITEL for money, giving excuses of being busy in school. One day her parents who were also very strict were hinted by one of the students living in their neighborhood that she had a baby. They rushed to ife, only to find out it was true. There was nothing like a GSM that time so, it became very difficult to communicate. She was driven home with her baby and they ended her schooling. |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by sisisioge: 8:51pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Sluacoast:
Lol, is that how it works. Your child is the citizen of the abroad. How sure are you that the man is legally living in the so country Each abroad as their own rules regarding babies born on their soil nau. |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Nobody: 8:52pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
PaulSimon2020:
This is a fake story, how have you been living in US since three years you fell out of status as a student? And how were you able to travel home and come back with which visa? Make una dey fear God na, with all these unnecessary online lies and fake stories! Damn it  where u see USA for the thread? Na wa 4 u o |
| Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Sommydisaster(m): 8:53pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Dynamic33:
I break up with him , I don’t need him in my and baby life, I have a boyfriend who loves me and my baby Why don't you learn ? You not done yet with what you're facing...... You're diving into another man, that's Bleep up Meanwhile check out my signature and thread for beautiful offers on electronics |
