I wanted to know from you all if I should marry the girl who confessed to cheating on me with a married guy. I forgave her and took her back. This time I noticed she had started again although I live in the U.S. and she in ghana but she denied it flat. Last week her job took her out of Accra to another town. She told me she was coming back on Friday although she was back with the same man that Thursday night when I called her. Immediately I called, she complained been sick so I offered to send my friend living in that town to go see her but she defiantly refused him coming; I said ok then let me speak with one of her colleagues since I do talk to them sometimes but she refused that too and finally hanged up the phone and turned it off. Now she has confessed again to been with that same man BUT DID NOT HAVE SEX with him. Also, she claimed thursday was the first time in months that she went there again - believe that? She wants me to give her yet another chance again and I refused but she keeps calling my job everyday. I need some discretionary advice from the House so please feel free to tell me what you all think. Thank you !

What else again do you need to hear? The writing is bold written on the wall for you to see.She is a cheat so dump her.

nahhhhhhhhh marry her and have 25 kids


_{of course throway rubbish! she don winch you?}

dustbin calls

4get her, dem plenty everywhere,

forget her, them plenty everywhere,

abi o, they're like toys. better yet cothes, you can change them & pick which kind you like.

she doesnt deserve u. so get on wit ur life.

l dont think she is good for u.

catch her once shame on u
cach her twice, shameless her!

let her be.she is unrepentant and i guess she might be in love wth that man if not she wnt risk her relationship wth u by going back to him.

Ma guy I feel for you ooo! Unfortunately, you would be the person given her money, making her look good to the world! She might even be from a poor backround! SHE IS A BITCH! Don't judge her based on your heart but brain 'because your heart will always tell you to give her another chance! This bitches self tire me! The marriage thingy self tire me! If not because e get as e be!

However, I'm sure she must have done some good things for you in the past! _{Are you cheating her as well?}

@poster
very interesting story, please keep taking her back.

haywhy, as if you knew, I send this girl money every month and take care of her every need and make her look good to her peers. She is only crying now because she is from a poor background and I have been her gold mine and somebody is poking whiles I pay the bills. She is never done anything for me in the past cos I met her when I went to ghana for my dad's funeral last Nov.  Am not cheating on her because I love her although I didn't know her much. She poses cool with sweet and smooth words and a mistress of lies. SHE IS EITHER A BITCH or A WITCH or BOTH!

sometimes the thing i read in dis site can be annoying! how can u know dat ur girl is cheating on u with a married man and yet u 4gave her and she did it againand now she is disturbing u to come back.tell her 2 bug off and then tell d pple in ur office dat if ever she calls dat u are no longer i company.
look young man u better shine ur eyes o! dnt let dis our niger babes enter u come if u three hit compo!

i think u should sit her down and really find out why she is doing dat maybe there there is something lacking in ur relationship then give her one last chance

opinion90:

haywhy, as if you knew, I send this girl money every month and take care of her every need and make her look good to her peers. She is only crying now because she is from a poor background and I have been her gold mine and somebody is poking whiles I pay the bills. She is never done anything for me in the past because I met her when I went to ghana for my dad's funeral last Nov. Am not cheating on her because I love her although I didn't know her much. She poses cool with sweet and smooth words and a mistress of lies. SHE IS EITHER A BITCH or A WITCH or BOTH!

Don't be surprised that I know! Its not like I know the chick ooooo but ma guy keep giving her money but with the mind that you are only assisting her & not cos of the relationship!

Anabell, you know I reside here in You.S. just like you and the only thing I count on is her sincerity so like haywhy said I have promised to help her and her family since her father cares less but I've told her am marrying somebody else so she should count me out. I gave her a 2nd chance last time and forewarned her to be faithful but I guess she has forgotten the world  is small if you have the eagle's eyeview! I can't give her another chance because even now she CLAIMS SPENDING THE NIGHT THERE BUT HAD NO SEX,  Do you believe in going to a man's house when you know it will cost you much just for nothing? My question to her was if I didn't catch her wouldn't she have had sex with him even if she didn't this time. I do everything to make this girl happy but I think GOD wants me out and am OUT!

You cant turn a LovePeddler into a housewife

yes you can niggaaaa!
go watch pretty woman .

@opinion 90, well said

Your gurl is a big tym cheat.Am happy you are out.

yeah thats the right attitude,,, she sucks glad u left her, u deserve better, she will learn

Simple as ABC, trash the girl, which kind yeye talk be that

I really don't know why men seem to appreciate women that cheat. Its really annoying because the faithful ones are hardly blessed with good men or good relationships.
@op...I don't think she deserves you.