obenda:

HI, i tried to reply to sinle posts but I can't see how---sorry.


To Mrs EVE: I' am interested in any useful answers. Yes I do like BW, but I am not here trying to get dated. Here's my history: when I was younger (now I'm 40) there were not black people in Italy, at least in the area where I've grown up. My idea of a beautiful woman was composed both of my preference and by cultural influences. I liked white girls and if you asked me then what top model i preferred teh probable answer was Claudia schiffer and not Naomi Campbell. I realised that Naomi was a beautiful woman but she was not sexy to me, could you believe that?

I recall to have an argument with a friend where I said that Naomi was great but I was indifferent to her beauty. It was legitimate to say that but nowadays, I smile to my old myself. Now that I like black girls I realise HOW MUCH cultural influences are powerful. With more and more black people around in Italy I started to look at different faces and bodies and almost completely changed my preferences. Now I stared to like black noses, lips, eyes and bodies, while before I didn't like them, probably because I could not see their beauty.

In recent years I have been dancing salsa and there I got contact with Cuban and other Caribbean people. My eyes opened to other kind of beauties and the process is still going on. It is also embarrassing for me and for the black girls I meet occasionally on the bus, shopping, etc. It is not polite to stare people but you know, when you are to be accustomed to other facial features and bodies, you need time to look, to observe the details in order to understand what is attractive or not. It is like i am "learning" a new language, a redefinition of what is beautiful.

I am still in this "learning process", and I know what I like in BW, that is I can make my personal list of aspects:

1. I like eye cat eyes, that is not big eyes (like some WW have) but thin eyes

2. I do like all the normal black body differences (bigger and higher backside), skin aspects

3. I do also like BW hair. I do understand that white girls hair is more silky and easier to dress, but sincerely I Don't understand why many BW are so desperate about their curly hair and crave to change them. Ok I underatnd tahta when you are fed up with a style and you want to change it you need to spend hours at the hairdresser, but it STRIKES me that - at least here - NO bW is leaving their hair natural,

4. NO need to make up. When a Bw is beautiful she really doesn't need to use make up while WW, even the MOST beautiful ones, are different of they use make up

OK, now some black woman would please tell me what they like in White men face, body, etc








To Area boy: please not all what they say of Italian guys is true, they are just stereotypes.

to sista-ja : please answer my question

Inked_Nerd:


Foolish boy, did you not realize that he said there aren't a lot of African women there?!?! Please leave obenda alone. Upon all the s**t you talk about "your ladies" you want sit here and chase him away? Learn to appreciate your women so you could perhaps keep then. Dudes like you have no reason to be mad when some of you treat use like crap.

Yeye boy

Mrs, Eve:

Damn Inkie! (smiling like a proud momma watching her daughter doing the best stanky legg)

I believe Ivynawa has lectured you enough,

Inked_Nerd:


Foolish boy, did you not realize that he said there aren't a lot of African women there?!?! Please leave obenda alone. Upon all the s**t you talk about "your ladies" you want sit here and chase him away? Learn to appreciate your women so you could perhaps keep them. Dudes like you have no reason to be mad when some of you treat use like crap.

Yeye boy

And who said i dont appreciate black women
I appreciate you alot, ms.eve,darkskin,ivynawa,freecocoa infact i celebrate all nigerian women!!

190:

I believe Ivynawa has lectured you enough,
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Mrs, Eve:

The last time I checked Ivynawa is not my mother. I commented to INKIE and not you. So again why are you bitching?

Hmm, MS.EVE!!

Inked_Nerd:


::[/b]rolls eyes[b]::

Keep em rolling""
I know ure so happy having an italian in our midst!!

gabriel4u:

190 n Mr. Eve, u guys don send dat Italian man away now.

Mr.eve is in a pub
Ms.eve is right here with us,

we dont want any italian to come lure our gurls away from us
he should try italianland.com for black girl's  

Carolece:

It doesnt really matter what people may think here. What you should do is make social friendship with a black female there and ask those questions of her.

Gbam, thats the only meaningful thing you've said this full year   

190:

Mr.eve is in a pub
Ms.eve is right here with us,

we dont want any italian to come lure our gurls away from us
he should try italianland.com for black girl's  
Gbam, thats the only meaningful thing you've said this full year   

Mrs, Eve:

Excuse you, my husband is Igbo and ain't no Igbo man gon be WITHOUT WORK. It is morning time over here so therefore HE IS AT WORK.

Carolece:

It doesnt really matter what people may think here. What you should do is make social friendship with a black female there and ask those questions of her.

obenda:

There are not black women here to socialize with. period.

then move somewhere where black women are and socialize

you cant get what you seek here!!

obenda:

There are not black women here to socialize with. period.

obenda:

Like London? It is not far away,