If you constantly deny your partner of sex and they eventually start cheating, would u be mad that he or she is seeking pleasure elsewhere? would you take part of the blame?

I would. It could be many reasons why I deny not just to be mean but maybe I do not feel like it. It interesting to see what the men say.

on the issue of denying sex, i just believe different ppl have different sex drives,  when u find someone on the same lvl as u, that denial wont be a factor,  if your partner is denying u sex a lot for nothing more than headaches,  then there could be more to it.


i guess this question applies to women only. cos they use sex as a manipulative tool. and i HATE it!!!!

Are you saying that men don't use sex the same way?

oh no we dont,  u know u guys have more control over it than we do. trying to prove a point to a woman by denying her sex HA HA HA HA HA HA epic fail for the guy 


on the other hand. its more like.

girl: do this and that or no sex for you
guy: give me sex or i wont do this and that for you


please tell me i'm wrong

lmaooo, i agree @epic fail, my boyfriend tried that mess once, didn't work out they way he planned it to be, lol

Uhmm.  I guess you been living in a bubble for a while.  There are many women who have complained that their men have denied them sex nor would perform sexual acts with them.  If that not denying sex I don't know what it is then.

It really does depends but in the glare scenario. . . Yes, I would be mad.

He might as well break up with me first before going out to explore other options that way, health wise and rumor wise, everyone will be safe.

Precisely.

Mrs, Eve:

Uhmm.  I guess you been living in a bubble for a while.  There are many women who have complained that their men have denied them sex nor would perform sexual acts with them.  If that not denying sex I don't know what it is then.  

5% out of a possible 4 billion

well maybe we are focusing on different contexts here. lets assume no one is cheating(yet). and he just wants to proove a point to her??, do u honestly see it happening?

The point being NOT WHO DOES IT THE MOST, but both have done it.

I believe in correlation. 5% of chics and 95% for guys??

thats almost 1:20. which can be assumed to be zero

If it make you feel better, sure.

i like winning

If you think you are winning, sure. I just know when to waste energy and when not to. This is not worth wasting my precious energy.

Mad ke! no o! me i will just delete her sharp sharp from my life.

calddon:

Mad ke! no o! me i will just delete her sharp sharp from my life.

Thats better then cheating on her

before nko! i would be mad. .i will so kick his ass especially if i have been giving him before and circumstances just make me deny him of it.

playmate:

before nko! i would be mad. .i will so kick his backside especially if i have been giving him before and circumstances just make me deny him of it.

the poster said: wat if u av constantly been denying him the,

If her reasons are genuine,why should I be mad but of course I will, if she uses it as a bait to making me do things against my wish.And if that is the case having it done outside cant solve it but worsening the situation.With much maturity I would act out the scene of what makes a man 'The man'

thiscounts:

If her reasons are genuine,why should I be mad but of course I will, if she uses it as a bait to making me do things against my wish.And if that is the case having it done outside cant solve it but worsening the situation.With much maturity I would act out the scene of what makes a man 'The man'  

and wats t.he scene.

@poster
unless the wifey had reasons to believe that her husband was cheating (risk of STD/HIV contraction) then denying him se.x is pointless.
what would that bloody solve?! as you probably know it, some men view se.x as food (check ashewo/sugar baby etc for info) therefore denying your man se.x is like sending him to these people unknowingly.

what would be a GOOD/PLAUSIBLE reason to deny your husband se.x?! one night or two, understandable, any longer than that would be irresponsible!

Ofcourse i would! he should know i av reasons for denying him of s.ex! everyday isnt christmas!!

^^^may i ask one reason that you would think to deny your man the coochie CONSTANTLY?!

who says its goin 2 be constant? besides, once in a while i mite be tired or stressed out, he az to respect dis!!

First and foremost for a married couple , the issue of denial should'nt come in. No matter the reason you have to abstain from love making, it must be with your partner's consent. Otherwise it can be seen as a revenge and if the partner decides to go out at that point , then you should not be angry and whatever troubles he or she brings back home, you are a part of it. So dont deny your partner . Lovemaking is FUN! And partners dont go out no one else can satisfy you as much as your wife. When you arrive with your wife, you arrive at home, but with the sex machine outside, you arrive at the bus stop.  

Omolola1:

who says its goin 2 be constant? besides, once in a while i mite be tired or stressed out, he az to respect dis!!

of course men are not animals that wants to sh.ag regardless of you being in the mood or not but, if you read the OP's initial post, she wrote CONSTANTLY denying your spouse not just once in a while.

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Omolola1:

who says its goin 2 be constant? besides, once in a while i mite be tired or stressed out, he az to respect dis!!

i think by constantly, the poster means maybe u get sum once or twice a month and thats it (for no apparent reason), for me thats denying constantly!! god help us we are not married, i'm so gone!! but if we are, I'm fcked!!

loool

He is probably a really really reallly nice guy who just cant get it on in bed.