Hi guys and family. Hope we all are safe.i have a great issue at home now.iv spoken to my wife but seems not working.In this lockdown her sis a civilservant a mum of two comes to our house everyday drop the kids and zoom to work.
That has been the pattern before but with this coroman in town im scared for my family. She uses the bus every day.The hubby is in lagos thou in east but going bk weekend.
The househelp staying with us learning work i have to stop her till further notice cos i dont know how many people she touched in saloon. So on a token till this over.

My issue now my wife said i dont want her sisters coming to the house bla bla.
Since four days now i wake up pack all i need and drive to to a park in my area till 6pm go home.
My wife is hypertensive i have told her covid no respecter of anybody.she no gree.
SO IF I TELL SIS STOP COMING AFTER COVID SHE BECOMES MY ENEMY. I DONT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THIS.BUT SHE IS LITERATE ENUFF TO KNOW WAT HAPPENING.

Leave your wife and her sister alone or do you want to ruin your marriage ?

If you can't be bold and brave enough to decide what happens and who comes to your house, then be ready to endanger your life and that of your kids because of your wife's selfishness.


Or still, start praising and hyping her sister in her presence with some erotic suspicious looks.

akpunda86:
Hi guys and family. Hope we all are safe.i have a great issue at home now.iv spoken to my wife but seems not working.In this lockdown her sis a civilservant a mum of two comes to our house everyday drop the kids and zoom to work.
That has been the pattern before but with this coroman in town im scared for my family. She uses the bus every day.The hubby is in lagos thou in east but going bk weekend.
The househelp staying with us learning work i have to stop her till further notice cos i dont know how many people she touched in saloon. So on a token till this over.

My issue now my wife said i dont want her sisters coming to the house bla bla.
Since four days now i wake up pack all i need and drive to to a park in my area till 6pm go home.
My wife is hypertensive i have told her covid no respecter of anybody.she no gree.
SO IF I TELL SIS STOP COMING AFTER COVID SHE BECOMES MY ENEMY. I DONT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THIS.BUT SHE IS LITERATE ENUFF TO KNOW WAT HAPPENING.

Be fair, be firm and be fearless. Fair means take decisions which includes her best interests.... Firm stand by your decisions, fearless... Don't panic over the seeming fall out of your decisions.



What you don't want... you don't want. She should learn to respect your decision..or you don't have a wife but a tormentor

akpunda86:
Hi guys and family.
SO IF I TELL SIS STOP COMING AFTER COVID SHE BECOMES MY ENEMY. I DONT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THIS.BUT SHE IS LITERATE ENUFF TO KNOW WAT HAPPENING.

This is not a time for niceties...

You need to put your foot down otherwise the safety of your family would be compromised.

If you're financially capable of handling the additional burden then tell her to leave the kids permanently at your place and only come pick them up at the weekend or look for an alternative place to drop them off when going to work!

Since you have spoken to her about COVID-19 , and it is doesn't respect any class of which she still remained adamant, then your best option is for you to start educating her sister; she should always put on her mask, sanitise her hands.... to the one that does saloon work, let her resume her job. She should also be on her mask, and also sanitise her hands every time she's attended to a customer.

If the above didn't work, then start toasting her sister, but no sex or touching ooo...

Give her much attention, and also the house help.

Women are too quick to getting jealous when attention has been drawn from them.

Just tell her to tell the sister to leave the kids with you this period and face her work that way she will reduce the risk of infecting even her own kids

Say to your wife "your sister is sexy as Bleep"

Nobody will tell your wife before she does the needful.

The safety of Your immediate family (wife and kids) comes first my brother... Protect them no matter who feels offended. You'll appologize after the pandemic biko!

Gofwane:
Say to your wife "your sister is sexy as Bleep"

Nobody will tell your wife before she does the needful.

my nigga

The sister came but didnt come inside but passed her an item thru the gate.i dont know wat my wife told her.Noting like marrying an intelligent wife beauty without intelligence is rubbish.im trying protecting all i have in this world my family and my wife making me look stupid.like an enemy to the family.Even my aged parents i dont see them anymore.i dont wanna be responsible for ny calamity.

No do pass urself nii...just free Dem...make sure your family and the visitors initiates intensive proper hygiene...with that Nothing go happen to una.

The fear of CoronaVirus is actually the beginning of wisdom