Sixfeetbelle:
....However, I learnt early enough that men generally have little to no self control when it come to sex.......

Mizwisdom:



I was getting all emotional about it only to discover it's another fake one.

Braintrain:
You wan boyfriend na

sassysure:

This comment is very funny
Emotional ke for nairaland stories.
I will boldly say that 90% stories u read here are fake.
People only comment bc they resemble real life situations when written well

eyinjuege:


Men are physically stronger than women, and a weapon isn't needed to subdue a victim. The man in question is probably bigger than her.
Many dead victims of domestic violence didnt die from a weapon but from the fists of their assaulters.
Some professional boxers have died on the ring during boxing matches, some have been completely knocked out flat. Blows have removed people's teeth due to the force/power behind such blows
The fist was the weapon used.
You heard that he gagged her before proceeding.
Just pray never to find yourself in such a scenario

Mizwisdom:



Wow I never knew this, thanks for the info. You can imagine how I kept responding to her/his post, thinking it was true

sassysure:

I don't blame you at all
Was reading your comments and loling seriously until u got the jist.
I was like you before.

See the format.
They will open thread that will instigate fight between men and women. A case where the man is at fault and the women will feast on the menfolk.
Next, u will see a story where the woman is the she devil and the men here will have their pound of flesh
It has made lots of posters nairaland enemies for ever

So they are always on the outlook for topics that will degenerate the other gender. This is how family section operates since I started coming here
U can see that it's already male and female war .

Mizwisdom:








I'm wondering the same thing. I think it's a fake story because if she has time to respond like this, why can't she just go and report the case? why isn't she even trying to seek medical help, he might have HIV and STDs? she's so calm, answering posts instead of seeking help

soulbroken761:
I don't know if you read in my post that the first thing he did was gag me with a cloth while I was sleeping, holding my hands to the back with just one of his own. He is big. Once I was gagged he tied the hands to the back. Indont know if I mentioned this in my post but I don't want to check that that post again. Of course I resisted what was about to happen but only so much, with no hands to use while struggling to breathe at the same time. I was mouthing "please" with cloth firmly secured in my mouth. He not only slapped me but held a pillow on my face to make me stop. I'm very slim. I'm tall at about 5'11 or 6feet but he is much taller and weighs far more. I'm the one that knows what the experience was and I insist that I couldn't fight him off. You cant blame me for not fighting him off. You can only blame for not running away in the afternoon, or for being there in the first place.

Mizwisdom:



You rapist. She probably agreed because you threatened to kill her

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Men are pigs.

AnonymousRebec:


Not all men are pigs, I had the same situation as her. The difference is that my guy did not rape me but her guy did. It is this particular man that is a pig not all men. There are good men that are not pigs.

soulbroken761:
Good morning and thanks for the comments. I have some stained tissue paper that I kept in a nylon for evidence. It seems me living in his house for about 4 days now, not being the first or second time, I have no case. I will only be reminded that I share the blame. I do want him to suffer though so I will tell someone that knows me first and see how it goes

shawnfamous:
Is it boredom that is making all of u cook up stories... Virgin with low sex drive

luminouz:


See as u used the opportunity to advertise yourself.


Sharp mama

soulbroken761:
I don't live in my parents house. I live close to the school where I'm doing my masters and working. My parents know who I'm dating. I don't think I was wrong to trust my "lover" not to rapè me under any circumstances. I only trusted the wrong person. I'm 24 and educated. I'm not a baby. I know how to not get pregnant. I didn't ask for advice. I will not be blamed more than necessary.

DateMynd44:
oga that guy u quoted is saying the truth.
Deal with it bro.
BTW this is a Cooked up story.

heniford2:
that how my dad raped my mum and the give birth to me without him paying her bridal price, i am a bastard, i raped a girl and i was not planning to marry I am a Rapist

crackkhaus:

Yeah, and he also used oil for lubrication.. You forgot to include that detail in this update.

See, stop watching HARDCORE porn!

It's starting to influence your imagination...

Gudiza:

Let me put it this way. RAPE is a delicate subject and shouldn't be treated with levity BUT there are circumstances that complicate your position.

First, he is your boyfriend.
Two, you're a live-in lover and romantically involved (all the kissing)
Three, he was probably providing and supporting your living expenses.
Four, he never deceived you into thinking he was a EUNUCH, or would NEVER ask for sex
Five, you voluntarily went into lockdown with a man ur not married too. (rape cases have gone up worldwide)

So to me, this is just a lesson for you, sex was only a natural progression in all of these. Each time you get him to a heightened state of arousal and then stop!! It takes a lot of control to do just that. For how long will YOU continue toying with someones sexual tension in that manner before it finds expression? and for what? At some point it no longer becomes a question of controlling himself but he needs to be convinced WHY HE SHOULD KEEP ALL PENT up ENERGY (which you're actively responsible for) and not relief himself. So T4, because you're an introvert or virgin or low sex drive plus the fact that he gagged you might score you sympathy points BUT you are responsible by cause and effect. Be guided!

Hisduchess:


You can't give this your kinda advise to your sister so STFU and show empathy.reread that your number 8 and ask yourself if you actually have sense.upon all his brokeness nah rape dey him mind.Tueh!

sassysure:


I haf died
Who annoy you?

Sixfeetbelle:


Bia, move one side if you're here to just read and pass. 'Too much I don't care' has left so many people broken. Good support can always go a long way in helping them.