Yayonigga44:
I am the type of guy that run away from people just to avoid striking a conversation. I hate small talks. All that is in my head is work. I usually use money to cover up when getting involved with ladies but that only turned me to a maga. Just met a lady recently, but anytime I call her I hardly have what to say( I won't be telling her about codes na). I have a feeling she will stop picking my calls. Can anyone here relate?

ReluctantAdult:
I don't like the trivial romantic conversations that women so much love. I just can't do it. I don't wanna listen to her emotional stories too. It's a lot of work, I swear.

One time I tried putting up with that and it drained me out. Let's just have sex, watch a movie together, argue about sports, politics etc. I'll be fine with that.

But the moment you wanna talk about your emotional stuff and expect me to listen to you, I'm out. If you've got a problem you wanna let me know, go straight to the point and we get a solution and move on. No emotional sh1t.

yanabasee1:
OP you are weird....



If you can't keep up with conversation.....then you won't be able to keep a home as women love conversation and gossip and good listener too...

banjicom:


It is not your fault bro, most of our Nigeria ladies are not to write home about when it comes to keeping a conversation going.

Ghostrye:
Spend more physical time with her, watch a movie on your phone or computer, invite her over for a walk or something and just try to get her comfortable in your presence. Over time you'll get somethings to talk about over the phone that you yourself will be able to spend hours talking to her (that is if she herself has good communication skills otherwise o ti Jones niyen)
I'm also like that too, but people hardly know because I prefer person to person conversations

Seersam:
Are you an introvert?

Yayonigga44:
I am the type of guy that run away from people just to avoid striking a conversation. I hate small talks. All that is in my head is work. I usually use money to cover up when getting involved with ladies but that only turned me to a maga. Just met a lady recently, but anytime I call her I hardly have what to say( I won't be telling her about codes na). I have a feeling she will stop picking my calls. Can anyone here relate?

McBrooklyn:
If it ain't making money, it ain't making sense.. Yeah I'm somehow like that too, I'd rather stay indoors all day than engaging in some kind petty talks as well.. You're not lonely if you don't feel alone


OP don't stress it, just keep on working on yourself.. There's someone for everyone or so they say, we go all dey alright las las!!

MelaninSkinGirl:


You don't want to get into her brain not just her privates. Some of you guys are so dull and you wonder why she tries to avoid any alone time with you

Zdoh:
My kind of person. I used to missed alot of calls purposely because i always feel disturbed or disguished with penty talks.

Yayonigga44:

Chronic one

Yayonigga44:

I swear it's even easier for me on Whatsapp because I am a chat person but that talk on phone hmmm

Yayonigga44:

I am always looking for opportunities to cut calls

NYCnextStop:
You are just the opposite of me. I hate chat like mad... shit is boring but can spend hours on the phone talking. Face to face conversations are cool also

Back to the topic... I’ll say you should work on your conversation skills especially with the ladies. Try and meet ladies in person, be genuinely interested in them, stop over thinking on what to say, focus on having a good time & trust me you will be fine

You can’t be using money all the time to get ladies as you will be attracting lots of gold diggers. InterPersonal relationships are very important to avoid stories that touch when you get married

P.S: Making money is extremely important but you also need a balance in other aspects of life

Goddys:


bro how do you make your money from coding? I want to acquire multidimensional skills

Introvert rocks..

Scaredd:


Same here, I'm a chronic introvert. But if I may ask you, did you suffer trauma at some point in your life? Like been maltreated or something like that?

As for talking to women, just be yourself, and try no to please anyone. If you're like me, I find it hard talking to strangers, but once I'm familiar with you, I can talk for Africa.

I've a girlfriend as well other female buddies, and we talk well.

Yayonigga44:

I wasn't maltreated but I grew up in a lonely environment where I hardly see people even during my uni days I went from home since my parents work at the University.

Yayonigga44:

One bottle of cold beer for you. That is what am just realizing. Money is never enough money go finish

banjicom:


It is not your fault bro, most of our Nigeria ladies are not to write home about when it comes to keeping a conversation going.

finalboss:
Sorry but if the conversation isn't about money, Not interested.

BigJoe19:
Guy na d raba be d main, me wey I get two children, wetin I one use woman do again.

Yayonigga44:
I am the type of guy that run away from people just to avoid striking a conversation. I hate small talks. All that is in my head is work. I usually use money to cover up when getting involved with ladies but that only turned me to a maga. Just met a lady recently, but anytime I call her I hardly have what to say( I won't be telling her about codes na). I have a feeling she will stop picking my calls. Can anyone here relate?

ReluctantAdult:
I don't like the trivial romantic conversations that women so much love. I just can't do it. I don't wanna listen to her emotional stories too. It's a lot of work, I swear.

One time I tried putting up with that and it drained me out. Let's just have sex, watch a movie together, argue about sports, politics etc. I'll be fine with that.

But the moment you wanna talk about your emotional stuff and expect me to listen to you, I'm out. If you've got a problem you wanna let me know, go straight to the point and we get a solution and move on. No emotional sh1t.

Yayonigga44:

That's the kind of person I am. All about the money

Mingling and relationship is important but money is importantanter especially with the way some 9ja ladies now sees relationship as another source of income.. You just keep on working on yourself bruh and don't fück up your cheddar as well cos after all said and done, it's gonna be all you got