Gracie X: Author

[/b]How having a polyamorous marriage keeps things new and lively.[b]

I vividly remember the first time I felt it. My husband and I were in the backyard laying in the sun and sipping drinks while he described the previous evening. As he talked, his face looked brighter, his eyes clearer.

In a flash of déjà vu, I remembered that same vibrant and enraptured look from 25 years earlier when we first met.

It was a sudden reemergence of his vitality that I hadn’t fully seen in our domestic nest for many years. But now, in his detailed (and scintillating) descriptions, the fire in his eyes was burning yet again.

“Baby,” I told him genuinely, “I’m so happy for you!”

He just had sex — with another woman — and yes, I was stoked for him.

There’s actually a word for the joyful feeling that a polyamorous person has when his or her lover or spouse walks through the door after spending the afternoon making love to his or her new girlfriend or boyfriend: compersion.

“Compersion” is such a novel concept that you won’t even find the word in the dictionary (unless you look in the Urban Dictionary).

Feeling all warm and gooey because your spouse had a great time banging someone else isn’t something we’re socialized to feel.

We can be thrilled for our partner if they get a raise or promotion or receive some kind of unexpected windfall, but why can’t we be happy for our partners who find joy in bed with someone else?

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https://afrohits.com.ng/my-husband-dates-other-women-and-im-truly-happy-for-him/

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