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Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by cococandy(f): 2:45pm On Jun 03, 2020
Mraphel:
Rape now threading in Nigeria but child prostitution, slavery, trafficking and females being tortured in baby factories are far worst
you can make those trend too.
Like she said, don’t deflect

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Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by Nobody: 2:45pm On Jun 03, 2020
KingAzubuike:
Every girl now coming out to play the victims card. Guys go hear am, these girls go settle scores with many niggas

Wise Niggers better be on red alert. Deactivate and abstain till further notice. But anybody guilty of rape should be castrated and made to face the full wrath of the law.
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by toprealman: 2:45pm On Jun 03, 2020
Hoephase:


Even if Bleep for public that does not give you the right to excuse rape.

Another rapist sighted. God will afflict you rapists with incurable diseases until you confess and give up your evil ways.
Guess as a farm tool you call yourself, you must defend your own.
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by nextstep(m): 2:46pm On Jun 03, 2020
yankison:
This Harlot that was busy having sex on National TV and been viewed continentally
. Who is making this one trend now

I won't argue about your use of the word harlot (though I disagree that she should name-shamed).

However, nobody, prostitutes and harlots included, deserves to be raped. That's just not on.
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by MozB: 2:48pm On Jun 03, 2020
Every news on front page is about one rape or the other. Its beginning to be tiring abeg. All of a sudden everybody realise they've been raped sometime ago. Na wa o
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by nextstep(m): 2:49pm On Jun 03, 2020
KingAzubuike:
Every girl now coming out to play the victims card. Guys go hear am, these girls go settle scores with many niggas

Scores cannot be settled if you did no wrong. I can comfortably say that not one woman can accuse me of rape. Yes, unfortunately there are false accusers (which detract from the serious truthful ones), but that it a separate issue.

Till today, I shake my head when I think of the girls who were in my bed (sometimes naked), but we didn't go all the way because she was feeling somehow. I always console myself with: "it's better to wish you had done it, than to wish you hadn't done it."

No puna is worth my peace of mind.
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by 1Sharon(f): 2:50pm On Jun 03, 2020
Exc2000:

typical sentimental loud mouth entitled punk would type such

yes you were raped and i feel bad for you (or dont) but victimising men saying many of men's sister got raped just to score cheap point is manipulative and a sign of pure wickedness

i'll say it again and again stop victimising men stop this evil manipulation or your kids would suffer such disgraceful defamation through manipulation of some women



Isn't she right? The girls that are raped aren't they someone's sister ?
Trust me, if a woman in your family gets assaulted, she'll be unlikely to tell you based on ur behaviour, even ur parents likely won't know either cos they're likely to be shamed and accused of doing something/not doing something to attract the rapist

Rapist is seen as something that happens to "those girls"
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by Arrogantbro(m): 2:51pm On Jun 03, 2020
LesbianBoy:
Dbanj just got accused of rape too! And himself follow dey post "No means no" shocked shocked
Who will settle the matter now? grin
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by Exc2000: 2:51pm On Jun 03, 2020
and your claim is backed by what study? victimisation and emotional blackmail of nigeiran men?

nextstep:




This post is typical of many men in this country... rather than take the time to listen to a complex issue, the knee jerk reaction is proffered.

Women in Nigeria are often raped by the ones closest to them: family friends, cousins, uncles, brothers. All these women are somebody's sister. Nobody talks about it because of stigma, but it does happen a lot more than you can imagine. When it trends, women are empowered to tell their stories (which most people don't want to believe), and are stigmatized for it.

I'm not a fan of victimization, but in a culture where men are often regarded as "can do no wrong" when it comes to sex, yet women are shamed if they so much as hint at anything sexual, you have to call a spade a spade.
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jun 03, 2020
Go to hell. You fuked on live tv now you talking about rape. Who will take you seriously.
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by bukatyne(f): 2:53pm On Jun 03, 2020
post=90266751:
ALL OF US @ [/b] [b] SAY NO TO RAPE over and over again!!

And as we are SAYING NO TO RAPE, WE ALSO SAY NO TO FALSE ACCUSATIONS OF RAPE.
They are both as DANGEROUS as one another
!



#WeDidOurPart

Another COZA episode loading till many months to come..............


Say FORMER, Now repeat after us 'FORMER'...... say the right word and win!!!




SECONDED! shocked

Going by the 5th point, a drunk person can't rape either.

If a drunk person cannot give consent, then a drunk person cannot rape either.
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by Exc2000: 2:54pm On Jun 03, 2020
1Sharon:


Isn't she right? The girls that are raped aren't they someone's sister ?
Trust me, if a woman in your family gets assaulted, she'll be unlikely to tell you based on ur behaviour, even ur parents likely won't know either cos they're likely to be shamed and accused of doing something/not doing something to attract the rapist

Rapist is seen as something that happens to "those girls"


sexual abuse goes both ways... but that aside

i make sure i make my sisters and female relative know for some fact that a man doesnt eat a lion doesnt mean a lion wont pounce on you and deviour you, avoid compromising space and dont decieve your self on self restraint of the other party
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by nextstep(m): 2:55pm On Jun 03, 2020
Exc2000:
and your claim is backed by what study? victimisation and emotional blackmail of nigeiran men

It's backed by my 40+ year empirical study of Nigerian men and their attitudes towards sex, male chauvinism, and in some cases misogyny. You see it in daily life, even here.
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by bukatyne(f): 2:56pm On Jun 03, 2020
toprealman:
Khafi please keep quite. Your story no make sense.
You were straffing on national TV.
Abeg park well.....

How does straffing on national TV negate the fact THAT she COULD have been a victim of rape

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Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by Exc2000: 2:57pm On Jun 03, 2020
nextstep:


It's backed by my 40+ year empirical study of Nigerian men and their attitudes towards sex, male chauvinism, and in some cases misogyny. You see it in daily life, even here.

did you publish your study in any journal for independent study or its still just in the realm of personal experience and speculation
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by VicM6: 2:58pm On Jun 03, 2020
the ones wey open thr hoe willingly self dey follow talk say na rape dem rape dem... nawa o, God no go shame us men.
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by Hoephase: 2:58pm On Jun 03, 2020
toprealman:

Guess as a farm tool you call yourself, you must defend your own.

From rapist/rapist apologists like you lots sure.
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by 360clips: 3:00pm On Jun 03, 2020
Yewandequeen:
ure evil
ND ur stupid.
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by Lamanii22(f): 3:05pm On Jun 03, 2020
360clips:
Who in their right senses would rape this ugly thing? undecided


Did you just call khafi ugly

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Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by 360clips: 3:08pm On Jun 03, 2020
Lamanii22:



Did you just call khafi ugly
No. I just called ur mother ugly. You can't read abi? Mumu
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by 1Sharon(f): 3:09pm On Jun 03, 2020
Exc2000:



sexual abuse goes both ways... but that aside

i make sure i make my sisters and female relative know for some fact that a man doesnt eat a lion doesnt mean a lion wont pounce on you and deviour you, avoid compromising space and dont decieve your self on self restraint of the other party


Bla bla bla

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Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by Deicide: 3:20pm On Jun 03, 2020
ModestGal:
Yes, people always blaming the victims

It time for all that nonsense to stop, we live in a very toxic environment where raped victims cannot even tell anyone but digest the pains/frustrations etc alone. That's the worst part for rape victims, because the society would turn their anger towards them instead of the evil perpetrator. That's what the majority of NL are also doing in this thread.
So after 10 years and they choose to say it, society would not turn anger towards them?
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by nextstep(m): 3:25pm On Jun 03, 2020
Exc2000:
did you publish your study in any journal for independent study or its still just in the realm of personal experience and speculation

It's not published, but has been peer reviewed and corroborated with the personal experience of other men and women I know.

If you're planning to use the fact that the study is not published to diminish the fact that rapes happen, then I'll concede: you've won the argument.
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by DAVE5(m): 3:28pm On Jun 03, 2020
grammarnazi2:

...victim...

...trending...worse.

...rape.
...accuses...

...confessions...

...former President.

Rape should stop!
...anybody...


...quiet...

...raped...

... lives.

When Timi Dakolo's wife said she was raped, many girls came out and spoke up.
Only...is...

...stories that touch.


You're a real classic man

Nice, your bit was quite entertaining
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by omohlexy: 3:34pm On Jun 03, 2020
What is wrong with all these girls? even oloshos are coming out to say they have been raped. Is this not that porn artist from BBN?
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by LINTUNE(m): 3:39pm On Jun 03, 2020
buygala:


Shut up sad


So anyone who looks at things objectively rather than blindly flowing with the #metoo trend is a rape apologist

Feel free to join the queue and give us your own rape tale sad
no mind the idiot..
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by vickydevoka(m): 3:41pm On Jun 03, 2020
Ashawo market go begin sell, for people way no lyk masturbation
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by nairalee(m): 3:43pm On Jun 03, 2020
grammarnazi2:

...victim...

...trending...worse.

...rape.
...accuses...

...confessions...

...former President.

Rape should stop!
...anybody...


...quiet...

...raped...

... lives.

When Timi Dakolo's wife said she was raped, many girls came out and spoke up.
Only...is...

...stories that touch.


Great job. See how they stressed you.
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by Toks2008(m): 3:43pm On Jun 03, 2020
I pity those that were really raped and i mean Raped in the real sense of raping. But for the ladies who are confused as to what rape really means, i will advice them to go do appropriate findings of what it means to be raped before coming out to play the victim card.

Simply put; Rape is a forceful act of sexual intercouse or as a result of threat with a weapon or physical attack.

I can claim that i was raped too but HELL NO, cos i consented(Not succumbed). You don't consent to sex and latter come out to claim rape.

For the clueless ones who will be quick to read stupid meanings to my post please argue with your key board and don't bother quoting me.
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by Nobody: 3:48pm On Jun 03, 2020
Exc2000:


stop being ridiculous.. nothing like crime of passion in Nigerian law, highest you can get is life imprisonment if manslaughter gets proven

.,
grin Boy, go ask a lawyer. My neighbour who's a Barrister is defending someone in court over this, you're just ignorant of the law.
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by olawale1516(m): 4:01pm On Jun 03, 2020
Na khafi fit rape, we always see as you rape Gidoni then... That ringing tone...
Re: Khafi Kareem: I Was Raped. Why I Didn't Report My Rapist by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jun 03, 2020
eyinjuege:


Don't worry, you may make mockery of others now, but remember today's date- 3rd of June 2020, when you start having daughters.

Shut thou mouth there, ooooin, you are not doing well. If people didn't complain will they complain about rape. Don't wait for when others will complain about theirs and you still complain about your five years rape. Say it as it happens

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