Hello Nairalanders, happy Sunday all and hope you are doing good. Pls I need your candid opinion on this critical issue. I am currently in a relationship with two girls. They are aged 18 and 24 respectively. Actually, I was dating the latter before I met the former and through friendship and close time spent together, we developed feelings for each other and we started dating. I love the both girls cos they are good, beautiful and loyal. But sincerely, am uncomfortable dating two girls at a time. I don't know how to handle this situation, cos I know it won't be funny if they both find out am cheating on either. Good people of Nairaland, kindly advise a nice guy.

Your an African man.its impossible to cheat. Be plain with girls they don't mind. Unless it seems like you are lying then u have problems.

U are not double dating.from ur write up.u are cheating on one..and u know her.

Lets wait for those who are successful in dis area to come...

I hope u are not sleeping with them
God will visit u with vengeance

donbachi:
U are not double dating.from ur write up.u are cheating on one..and u know her.

Exactly!!!

donbachi:
U are not double dating.from ur write up.u are cheating on one..and u know her.

Am thinking of letting one go or if possible let both of them out of my life. I love both but I think its unhealthy to date two persons at a time. I know girl don't care about this but at least we still have good people in the face of the Earth

Bola146:


Exactly!!!

Not exactly. This is a critical issue

HRHQueenPhil:
I hope u are not sleeping with them
God will visit u with vengeance

Sleeping? I don't understand u

niceguy555:


Am thinking of letting one go or if possible let both of them out of my life. I love both but I think its unhealthy to date two persons at a time. I know girl don't care about this but at least we still have good people in the face of the Earth

do the needful.

donbachi:
do the needful.

Which one is needful here. Letting one go or letting both go?

niceguy555:

Which one is needful here. Letting one go or letting both go?

choose one.

donbachi:
choose one.

Guy u are not helping matter. God is seeing u sha

niceguy555:


Guy u are not helping matter. God is seeing u sha

na the thank u,wey u go tell me be dis..

date both .they are still dating someone else, ur not the only one in they life..... girls are known for double dating so stop feeling guilty,if you enjoy both companies just play smart, maybe there are with you for the benefit but eh that young babe (18) can leave you anytime she hasn't seen life yet , when she go start dey make females friends when no the game ..... just be smart that my opinion

sirzee1660:
date both .they are still dating someone else, ur not the only one in they life..... girls are known for double dating so stop feeling guilty,if you enjoy both companies just play smart, maybe there are with you for the benefit but eh that young babe (18) can leave you anytime she hasn't seen life yet , when she go start dey make females friends when no the game ..... just be smart that my opinion

Ok thanks bro. They both love me but I think it's because of my benevolent nature that is why they wanna stick wit me for a long time (This I assume). I have sympathy and do assist financially. But like u said, I will keep both and play along. But I predict either will later find out am cheating cos whenever they visit me on different basis, they tends not to go home that same day. There was a time one visited me and decided to stay for 3 days, while she was still around the other called me and told me she will visit that Same day, I just told her am not around and she has my spare key. I mean she would have found out o