when the man pays everything and the girl not?

Is that normal?

I see a lot of girl who are having something with different kind of men and they always take and expect gifts from them. There are not ashamed to take it. In my eyes these girls are like whores. The boys are paying them for dates and for having sex.

I think no intelligent and proud woman can make all these things!

A girl who accepts gifts from different men,can be seen as a LovePeddler,but a girl who accepts gifts from her boyfriend, is not a LovePeddler.Shikena!!

That depends on how long they are together!
When everything is fresh and new she is also a LovePeddler when she just takes all the time and never gives something back!

Can you elaborate more on what you mean by ''give something back''
i don't get that part,girl.

Yeah that is difficult to understand for you right?

A girl can also give gifts to a boy when she is in love with him!

You never hear about that?!

You don't have to be mean about it.
So what your saying is a girl who receives a gift from a new guy,is a LovePeddler,and a boy who receives a gift from a new guy,is not a LovePeddler??


Anyways,this is how i see it,like i said before,a gift is a gift,so far there's a mutual understanding, between the two people involved.
Secondly,it is not wrong for a boy to receive gifts from a girl,neither is it wrong for a girl to receive gift from a boy,even if the relationship is still fresh.giving out gifts is a way of showing you care,and also a way of showing appreciation,that is how it works in a normal relationship. What do you reckon?

Most of those girls who ask for favours are cheap materialistic whores.  
I don't blame them though.

OP.
WHat of men who accept gifts from different girls are we LovePeddler?.
Would be happy if i am . , , I like gifts anyway.

I have never seen that a girl gives present to her boyfriend.


Only some white friends of me are doing so.

They take and they give. They dont use the other side.

i have never said that when a boy behave like this he is not a LovePeddler. its the same but most its girl woh behave like that.

You still have to experience much then.
I only get presents for my girls and i give too. . . . . . .The other girls would buy me gifts and also fund my pocket money and take me touring different cities and countries,

So you are having al lot of girls,

There is nothing wrong with a GIRL giving her MAN a gift. The problem is that SOME guys feel funny receiving gifts from their girl because they feel that she trying to be a man. I did say some so relax.

I find it weird for a girl or boy to accept gift from OTHER girl or boy that is NOT THEIR BOYFRIEND, FRIEND, OR SPOUSE.

Then again that just me.

Its so common on gals to keep collecting even demand if not forth coming yet find it very hard and most times impossible for them to part with just ordinary handkerchief. Not to talk of this val period guys are in soup





Reason i have none of them in my life ^{(lady or ladies)}

oniema:

Its so common on gals to keep collecting even demand if not forth coming yet find it very hard and most times impossible for them to part with just ordinary handkerchief. Not to talk of this val period guys are in soup





Reason i have none of them in my life ^{(lady or ladies)}

true talk

The poster sounds like a dude sef.

Giving should be a voluntary act. . . not because you are expecting sommin in return or you are expected to give, it should be a freewill thing

so if annyone wants to give fine and if he/she doesn't, all well and good too. . . nobody should be forced/expected to give things out just to return favor.

Its not restrictd to boyfriend/girlfriend relationshps alone. Its okay to give gifts even at 'odd' times, automatically you get to receive always too.
Its selfish if you are always at the receiving end

googles:

The poster sounds like a dude sef.

Giving should be a voluntary act. . . not because you are expecting sommin in return or you are expected to give, it should be a freewill thing

so if annyone wants to give fine and if he/she doesn't, all well and good too. . . nobody should be forced/expected to give things out just to return favor.

honestly she sounds like one and the topic doesnt av basics sef

The truth will alwayz hurt!

Ok,4 instance,usin d most common,hw many tyms hv u girls bought recharge cards 2 ur man?

plenty times but more dan me sha

I have neva received any gift from girls before (except some special and selected few!), but they like for me to give them. girls r just hungry and selfish!

Leilana:

Only some white friends of me are doing so.

Are you saying that Black Women(Most especially Nigerian Women) are not cheerful givers?

White women doesn't have a problem buying love.

More like they understand that Giving is a two way thing

I love when my guy sends me gifts - its fun and he has such great taste too - it shows me who he is and what he likes

when i give him gifts it shows him who i am and what i like and gives him an idea of the type of taste i have and what he can expect from me in future and vice versa

chic2pimp:

More like they understand that Giving is a two way thing

You should give from the heart. If it not in you to give then you won't give. There is nothing wrong with gifts but PEOPLE put too much importance on gifts and it is sickening.

@ Christmas he sent everybody in my family a gift - my parents, my siblings - unique stuff too - very beautiful - they loved it

@ poster, I really hate it when ppl read meaning into everything.

gifts go from one person to the other, so fcking what? how does that makes one of the other less?

Life is too short to live like this. Go and get laid n u'll know what i'm talking about

What? How many definitions of the word 'LovePeddler' exists? It's even more pathetic that YOU as a GIRL will spew such garbage ! Receiving PAYMENT from men in exchange of sex is called prostitution and uh, over here, it's legal and is considered to be a job ! Now, receiving gifts from various men doesn't make me a LovePeddler ! I don't have to give back and I don't want to feel like I have to give back. Accepting gifts while sleeping with someone isn't 'whoring' in my opinion !

When you need it, do it, but in my eyes you are like a LovePeddler.

"White women doesn't have a problem buying love."


Its buying love when you give a present to your boyfriend?

So all the nigerian men, who buy so many presents for their nigeria queen until she has get enough and open hes legs wide for them, are so bad that they have to buy the love of a woman?

Thats so,