There's been a lot of e-flirting going on especially as Valentine is in the air.I feel its a fun thing and no big deal. There is this other view that is just as bad as flirting when you are not on the internet. Guys what's your take?

IMO flirting is flirting regardless of how or where it is done!

Harmless fun. Nothing more

aint nuttin wrong with flirtin, , i do it all the time

Nothing wrong with e-flirtin. I do it all the time;as far as i'm concerned it's harmless fun. It can't possibly be seen as leading someone on/giving the person false hope because we're all anonymous. I never take flirting that's done on the internet seriously,and i don't expect anyone to take what i do seriously.

Another funny but true thread

Phate07:



I dont flirt. I swear!

I'd use precisely same line, save for the[i] 'swearing'[/i] part, owing to my Christian belief.

No point [i]''swearing'' [/i]it emphatically, really. You were/are already indicted(?) by default.

Phate07:



I was really tryna be sarcastic with that first comment.

Man is a social animal, and part of that need is achieved by flirting. We all do flirt, once in a while.

Egwu kam n'egwu Nwanne.

BTW and of a truth I do flirt. NOT!!!

Question please:

Does flirting by BB, SMS, Voice messages/calls count as e-flirting?

^^ Dats a good one.I guess we have to define e-flirting.[b]e-[/b]as in anything that is online.Flirting online,
You might never even meet the person but on BB,SMS,Calls you know the person involved.What do you think?

Hi Reed! Good question. I think any type of flirting when you physically know the person is normal flirting(so it could include BB,YIM etc)but when the flirting is anonymous then it's e-flirting(I think).

Lord_Reed:

Question please:

Does flirting by BB, SMS, Voice messages/calls count as e-flirting?

all of the above should be included or maybe not,
SMS own is called sexting

e nairaland-flirting. i do it all the time for the fun of it with no strings attached. the thing is you most times dont know the person in the real world so why bug you head.

^^^ No wonder you left me for DAY11 just days before phallentime  . . .Well, all na e- flirting sha!

flirting physically is fun. And e-flirting even allows you the opportunity to be anonymous. There's no harm in it. Whether its on FB, NL, BB, YIM. . .guys have just gotta flirt. It's just that some Ladies (and guys inclusive) have feeble minds and think guys who flirt with them actually mean to hit on them.

E- flirting? na don't do dat ish, done it b4 tho but when u find out some ugly truths u would neva try it again!

^ugly truths like what?

As long as it doesn't get outta hand

Pweety4me:

E- flirting? na don't do dat ish, done it b4 tho but when u find out some ugly truths u would neva try it again!

Met some people online who turned out to be ugly musheshes,have we? The beauty of e-flirting is that it doesn't really matter what the person looks like because chances are,you'll never find out,and even if you do,it wouldn't matter much since you were never serious about it in the first place. You're not really hitting on anyone/being hit on-you're just messing around.

Its all fun, I had e-sex using BB video,voice and picture apps. Its all fun fun fun!!! Mail me for more dibigslim@yahoo.com

mykali:

^ugly truths like what?

That's for me to know.

Basically, what u ave imagined people to be is not what they are. . ._{imagine i will be flirting with a guy old enuff to be my dad?yuck!}

Atreides2:

Met some people online who turned out to be ugly musheshes,have we? The beauty of e-flirting is that it doesn't really matter what the person looks like because chances are,you'll never find out,and even if you do,it wouldn't matter much since you were never serious about it in the first place. You're not really hitting on anyone/being hit on-you're just messing around.

No but, imagine uv'e know this person on the forum for a very long while & u guys are really cool, u think that they are like how they ave painted 2 yu all this while, till u find out!it's repulsive & i believe dat's a form of betrayal & fraud!

Basically, what u ave imagined people to be is not what they are. . ._{imagine i will be flirting with a guy old enuff to be my dad?yuck!} [/color]

Ouch!!! Seriously?lol!
but like Atreides said its not supposed to be serious?

Pweety4me:

That's for me to know.

Basically, what u ave imagined people to be is not what they are. . ._{imagine i will be flirting with a guy old enuff to be my dad?yuck!}

your imagination is getting the better of you there. When i flirt, i don't imagine what she's like. The tone of her replies (voice or text) will let me know how matured she is. If she's a Mama. . .i'll know the line that doesn't need to be crossed.
. . .and that's one of the reasons why i prefer text chats to voice chats.

mykali:

your imagination is getting the better of you there. When i flirt, i don't imagine what she's like. The tone of her replies (voice or text) will let me know how matured she is. If she's a Mama. . .i'll know the line that doesn't need to be crossed.
. . .and that's one of the reasons why i prefer text chats to voice chats.

your a man it's different, men will do & un[i]do[/i] anything.

I didn't imagine anything o, serious it be like some1 wey u dey used to not just any randomn c'mon i'm not so sad!