zealot:

Hi,
Kindly suggest what lubicants I can use or what sex style is better.
My wife is a virgin (in her late 20s) and every time we try, she cries out with pain,
weeks after our wedding, we still have not done it, cos i feel sorry for her when she cries.
is there another solution other than lubricants and styles?
pls reply.

Bro, K Y jelly iz Great for her Nyansh!

Mr, Cork:


Bro, K Y jelly iz Great for her Nyansh!

adeibi:

don't be so insensitive that's his wifey we're talking about here not some hooker or girlfriend

Mrs.Chima:

OP

I am sorry to hear that your wife is having difficulty with intercourse. I have several questions that may help diagnosis the issue that she may be experiencing.

1. Does she have history of sexual assaults molestation? I know you said she is a virgin however, a woman can be sexually assaulted without being penetrated vaginally.
2. Did she witness something in the past that could have thwarted her perception of sexual intercourse?
3. Have she been diagnosed with medical condition in reference to her sexual discomfort?

These are some of the questions you should ask your wife is you do not know the answer. It does not make since for her to experience pain if you are not able to penetrate her. You can try some techniques such as occasional gentle penetration meaning you will sporadically insert your manliness in her womanliness and each step go further until she ask you to stop. It will take several weeks to break her hymen/loosen her up if she doesn't have medical conditions.

You will have to be extremely patience when dealing with the discomfort of your wife sexuality. She will need to see a professional medical personnel to determine if there are other factors involved such as Sexual Transmission Disease or Pelvic Inflammatory Disease. I am not saying that she has those conditions but doctors will examine her to rule it out.

The cause of sexual difficulties can be physical, psychological, or both. She may be experiencing the inability to accept intercourse at this time and you will have to use other sexual methods to achieve the pleasure. If you are planning a family, there are other ways a woman can conceive if natural method is not permissible.

Good luck!

zealot:

@ adeibi, I appreciate your response and defence.

One4you:

My brother you are lucky to have such woman as wife but the problem now is dat you need help to disvirgin her, just apply vaseline or any cream dat smooth on you man hold and romance her very well, them use hand to tost her human hold the apply you kpormor gently gently little by litle before you no, it will open but it will take time. Just try the method it will work for you but don't hot her.

My brother you are lucky to have such woman as wife but the problem now is dat you need help to disvirgin her, just apply vaseline or any cream dat smooth on you man hold and romance her very well, them use hand to tost her human hold the apply you [b]kpormor [/b]gently gently little by litle before you no, it will open but it will take time. Just try the method it will work for you but don't hot her.

MOBO999:

You and your horrible advice, this is all you America red neck, hill Billy or ex slave trade think about, you think we all Africa are animals, what is now bringing that she might have been sexually assaulted into this case, just go you mrs chima.