Women of nowadays in this era of big tech and social media, are a lot more liberal and exposed to so much more opportunities and options than our mothers and grandmothers would ever have dreamed of. A "new" guy is always a "dm" ,"tweet" ,"call" or "email" away, probably why almost every week you see a new thread "I slept with my neighbour's wife" ,"she cheated on me " or "she cheated on me again" .Firstly, you need to understand that women are a very complex species filled with lots of emotions and this oftentimes than not causes conflict and confusion.Don't forget we're are all humans on this earth that no one really understands and we all have only one chance at life. Thus, we get bored of certain routine (which sometimes may include loyalty to a person)and often seek out thrills and adventures(random dates, casual sex,random flings and the likes)which may hurt others and favor others.Social media and tech has made it so much easier to seek out these experiences ,providing an array of options (different colours and sizes) and as long as these weren't available in those days we cannot truly ascertain how our parents would've acted or behaved. I often see threads complaining about 'all' women cheating and being disloyal .Well the truth is not all women cheat, same with men as well. [b]Maybe the type of women you're attracted to might just have a high tendency to cheat or enjoy the attention of multiple companions(polyamory).[/b]To be honest, there are still many good girls in your neighbourhood, churches and mosques alike even working in supermarkets but you may consider them as mgbekes 'too local ' or not attractive enough and you'd rather prefer white toenails & Brazilian hair gang .News flash! whichever one you prefer, you're not the only one interested.Don't forget every woman has guys on her case and they may be better looking and higher earning than you.Imagine as a guy, if fine babes with fat bank accounts approach you regularly ,you sef go dey spread leg Waaaaaaaa on an hourly basis Loool .Guy man, everything boils down to discipline .You have to study and understand the person you're dating or trying to date to atleast know the chances of this event occurring. What are her norms and values? are they longterm or short term? are they superficial ?based on the the latest trends?.
Again ,like I said earlier women are complex and heavily emotional creatures and therefore will most likely act without fully weighing the consequences of their actions(men too sometimes) ,so my guy don't ever put your 100% trust and belief in them.I'd say a good 40-45% max is okay (it's hard but if you want to live longer my brother try and do it whether married or in just a regular relationship).
Also be reasonable and logical in your dealings,don't be dismissive and quick to shout infidelity, when in reality you may be making a big deal about nothing, unless you have concrete evidence void of reasonable doubt. Finally, guyman she is really not yours till you've put a ring on it and realistically speaking she owes you no explanation especially with so many options bickering for a chance and steady simping to prove their worth(it's painful but it's the honest truth) In regards to dating, my guy would always say "she's only yours when you're together, once she leaves your eyesight OYO".
In Summary, brother man, consider some of these concepts & approach with caution.Nevertheless, you may choose to shout 'hoe'and 'olosho' till the world ends but it won't change this modern reality and tbh you can either adjust to it or forget about having anything to do with dating or relationships.
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Lamba42:
Women of nowadays in this era of big tech and social media, are a lot more liberal and exposed to so much more opportunities and options than our mothers and grandmothers would ever have dreamed of. A "new" guy is always a "dm" ,"tweet" ,"call" or "email" away, probably why almost every week you see a new thread "I slept withmy neighbour's wife" ,"she cheated on me " or "she cheated on me again" .Firstly, you need to understand that women are a very complex species filled with lots of emotions and this oftentimes than not causes conflict and confusion.Don't forget we're are all humans on this earth that no one really understands and we all have only one chance at life. Thus, we get bored of certain routine (which sometimes may include loyalty to a person)and often seek out thrills and adventures(random dates, casual sex,random flings and the likes)which may hurt others and favor others.Social media and tech has made it so much easier to seek out these experiences ,providing an array of options ( different colours and sizes) and as long as these weren't available in those days we cannot truly ascertain how our parents would've acted or behaved. I often see threads complaining about 'all' women cheating and being disloyal .Well the truth is not all women cheat, same with men as well. Maybe the particular type of women you're attracted to might just have a high tendency to cheat or enjoy the attention multiple companions(Polyamory). To be honest, there are still many good girls in your neighbourhood, churches and mosques alike even working in supermarkets but you may consider them as mgbekes 'too local ' or not attractive enough and you'd rather prefer white toenails & Brazilian hair gang .News flash! whichever one you prefer, you're not the only one interested.Don't forget every woman has guys on her case and they may be better looking and higher earning than you.Imagine as a guy, if fine babes with fat bank accounts approach you regularly loool you sef go dey spread leg Waaaaaaaa on hourly basis.Guy man, everything boils down to discipline .You have to study and understand the person you're dating or trying to date to atleast know the chances of this event occurring. What are her norms and values? are they longterm or short term? are they superficial ?based on the the latest trends?.
Again ,like I said earlier women are complex and heavily emotional creatures and therefore will most likely act without fully weighing the consequences of their actions(men too sometimes) ,so my guy don't ever put your 100% trust and belief in them.I'd say a good 40-45% max is okay (it's hard but if you want to live longer my brother try and do it whether married or in just a regular relationship).
Also be reasonable and logical in your dealings,don't be dismissive and quick to shout infidelity, when in reality you may be making a big deal about nothing, unless youhave concrete evidence void of reasonable doubt.Finally,guyman she is not yours till you've put a ring on it and realistically speaking she owes you no explanation especially with so many options bickering for a chance and steady simping to prove their worth.In regards to dating, my guy would always say "she's only yours when you're together, once she leaves your eyesight OYO".
In Summary, brother man,adopt some of these concepts & approach with caution.Nevertheless, you may shout 'hoe'and 'olosho' till the world ends it won't change this modern reality and tbh you can either adjust to it or forget about having anything to do with dating or relationships.
THE END

lol she's yours only when you're together. True boss. It's just your chance. She's never yours.


Good writeup.

ubunja:
are you sure that's what hypergamy means?

mistake it's been corrected . I admire your writings btw.Big fan

Lamba42:
mistake it's been corrected . I admire your writings btw.Big fan

Nice one. Have a good day bossman.

True talk man,its mainly due to their conflicting emotions and exposure to technology and social decadence.

As much as i appreciate women, one can say they are the most pretentious species ever created and they dont compromise with their love.

My neighbours sexy wife once told me she likes to keep to her husband,but i could see thru her subtle seductions(wearing see thru nighties in the morning, wasting time to come down from the car when they are back,leaving her skirt drwan up pretending to picking her babies stuffs exposing the full length of her laps, always telling the husband to drive out the car while she trekks to the gate so that i can watch her swaying hips in motions etc.)


Men that fight because of women whether your gf or not are worse than simps.

I have learnt not to take shit from any lady, if i sense anything i let go of her.
Cant kill myself wondering if my gf or my wife is cheating on me or not,one shouldnt kill himself because of a lady or anything.

To the married men out there,take good care of your wives and children,always learn to give them a second chance and dont really get carried away by what other guys say, some can tell you they do this and that to their wives but in truth are licking their wives butts.

GET WISDOM IN ALL THY DEALINGS!!!

Lamba42:
Women of nowadays in this era of big tech and social media, are a lot more liberal and exposed to so much more opportunities and options than our mothers and grandmothers would ever have dreamed of. A "new" guy is always a "dm" ,"tweet" ,"call" or "email" away, probably why almost every week you see a new thread "I slept with my neighbour's wife" ,"she cheated on me " or "she cheated on me again" .Firstly, you need to understand that women are a very complex species filled with lots of emotions and this oftentimes than not causes conflict and confusion.Don't forget we're are all humans on this earth that no one really understands and we all have only one chance at life. Thus, we get bored of certain routine (which sometimes may include loyalty to a person)and often seek out thrills and adventures(random dates, casual sex,random flings and the likes)which may hurt others and favor others.Social media and tech has made it so much easier to seek out these experiences ,providing an array of options (different colours and sizes) and as long as these weren't available in those days we cannot truly ascertain how our parents would've acted or behaved. I often see threads complaining about 'all' women cheating and being disloyal .Well the truth is not all women cheat, same with men as well. [b]Maybe the type of women you're attracted to might just have a high tendency to cheat or enjoy the attention of multiple companions(polyamory).[/b]To be honest, there are still many good girls in your neighbourhood, churches and mosques alike even working in supermarkets but you may consider them as mgbekes 'too local ' or not attractive enough and you'd rather prefer white toenails & Brazilian hair gang .News flash! whichever one you prefer, you're not the only one interested.Don't forget every woman has guys on her case and they may be better looking and higher earning than you.Imagine as a guy, if fine babes with fat bank accounts approach you regularly ,you sef go dey spread leg Waaaaaaaa on an hourly basis Loool .Guy man, everything boils down to discipline .You have to study and understand the person you're dating or trying to date to atleast know the chances of this event occurring. What are her norms and values? are they longterm or short term? are they superficial ?based on the the latest trends?.
Again ,like I said earlier women are complex and heavily emotional creatures and therefore will most likely act without fully weighing the consequences of their actions(men too sometimes) ,so my guy don't ever put your 100% trust and belief in them.I'd say a good 40-45% max is okay (it's hard but if you want to live longer my brother try and do it whether married or in just a regular relationship).
Also be reasonable and logical in your dealings,don't be dismissive and quick to shout infidelity, when in reality you may be making a big deal about nothing, unless you have concrete evidence void of reasonable doubt. Finally, guyman she is really not yours till you've put a ring on it and realistically speaking she owes you no explanation especially with so many options bickering for a chance and steady simping to prove their worth(it's painful but it's the honest truth) In regards to dating, my guy would always say "she's only yours when you're together, once she leaves your eyesight OYO".
In Summary, brother man, consider some of these concepts & approach with caution.Nevertheless, you may choose to shout 'hoe'and 'olosho' till the world ends but it won't change this modern reality and tbh you can either adjust to it or forget about having anything to do with dating or relationships.
THE END
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Okay