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Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by iceberylin(m): 7:51am On Jul 19, 2014 |
The Mom |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by NickiRoman: 7:52am On Jul 19, 2014 |
This thread was created in 2007 and it made front page on july 19 2014...Hmmmmn |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by enomakos(m): 7:53am On Jul 19, 2014 |
tonychristopher: Whose surname does the child bearabeg ask them oo |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by enomakos(m): 7:57am On Jul 19, 2014 |
priscaoge: In Igbo land,Once no bride price was paid, d lady's family owns d child!that make the child a bastard |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Nobody: 7:59am On Jul 19, 2014 |
nossycheek:. Infact dis is a gud option, ill also tell him dat he was in a plane crash sef so no idea were he s buried. 1 Like |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by priscaoge(f): 8:02am On Jul 19, 2014 |
enomakos: that make the child a bastardNo u are wrong, any child born out of wedlock is a bastard! Whether d child is with d mother or d father,once no bride price is paid before d child was born,that child automatically a bastard....You dig? 3 Likes |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by priscaoge(f): 8:03am On Jul 19, 2014 |
NickiRoman: This thread was created in 2007 and it made front page on july 19 2014...HmmmmnThe MODs just came back from vacation 1 Like |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Asiwaju9ja(m): 8:05am On Jul 19, 2014 |
TheLeader: Lawyers be like- Edet v Essien. Ehen! Dem born that year? I remember say the woman come die. The pikin go done big o!. Guys and girls make una no dey agree to abortions again. #ClassicGossip |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Awoofawo(m): 8:08am On Jul 19, 2014 |
NickiRoman: This thread was created in 2007 and it made front page on july 19 2014...Hmmmmn Seven years dead-thread walking on frontpage!!! Surulere o! 1 Like
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Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Asiwaju9ja(m): 8:10am On Jul 19, 2014 |
priscaoge: Bastard is an English word. In the Nigerian constitution there is nothing like an illegitimate child(bastard) God knows how many of such (bastards) you have earned ur education,daily bread and even husband/boyfriend(if any) from? Some of your presidents might have been. |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by priscaoge(f): 8:12am On Jul 19, 2014 |
Asiwaju9ja:U don't have to insult me to make ur silly point! Get a life n be matured a bit. #Okpoko 1 Like |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Asiwaju9ja(m): 8:14am On Jul 19, 2014 |
priscaoge: I no blame you na abortion make you dey talk anyhow abi? Hypocrite. |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by NickiRoman: 8:18am On Jul 19, 2014 |
priscaoge:.Seven Years Vacation |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Nobody: 8:19am On Jul 19, 2014 |
The culture of the said mother always prevails in igbo land. |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Awoofawo(m): 8:21am On Jul 19, 2014 |
Asiwaju9ja: Please what is the meaning of "Omo Ale"and would you feel cool about being called so? |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by enomakos(m): 8:22am On Jul 19, 2014 |
[quote author=priscaoge] No u are wrong, any child born out of wedlock is a bastard! Whether d child is with d mother or d father,once no bride price is paid before d child was born,that child automatically a bastard....You dig? [/quote] ok i hear u,my lady |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Asiwaju9ja(m): 8:28am On Jul 19, 2014 |
Awoofawo: Remember, no one choose to be "omo ale" and also remember "Omo ales" are more in yoruba land than any tribal area in naija(my opinion) So because they are "omo ales" we should deny them of their constitutional rights through no fault of theirs. I am just open minded on the issue. Becos he/she is an omo ale does not mean you and I are better than them period. |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Generalkorex(m): 8:37am On Jul 19, 2014 |
In yorubaland. |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by tonychristopher: 8:38am On Jul 19, 2014 |
Vig86: The culture of the said mother always prevails in igbo land. Why do we argue front and back .the owner if the child is the owner of the surname he bears owns the child automatically Those saying in Igbo land should know that I am a pure anambra man born in into and married a delta Igbo lady so I am versed here Igbos are patrineral people they inherit from fathers and a child in mums place will someday go to his father If the child doesn't his umu Anna will remind him where he comes from and who he is That's the beauty of Igbo land and there is no bastard in Igbo culture what we have is Nwa no na MBA 1 Like |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Nobody: 8:43am On Jul 19, 2014 |
nossycheek: In Igbo culture, a child born out of wedlock belongs to the girl's family and whoever marries her later, may have the child if he desires, otherwise, he/she remains with his/her mother's family. Let me ask Google. Ba3 down. Brb... |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Bbklopsy: 8:46am On Jul 19, 2014 |
nossycheek:Dnt even imagine such n pray he s nt a male cos d child ll jst seize ur peace |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Lucasbalo(m): 9:06am On Jul 19, 2014 |
In US , the child belongs to the mother. Bastard is an anormally, no child is a bastard. How do you stigmatize an innocent child by calling him or her bastard ?. You do not visit the inequities of a parent on an innocent child. It's only African culture that a child is referred to as a bastard. What an antiquated way of thinking. 3 Likes |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Awoofawo(m): 9:13am On Jul 19, 2014 |
Asiwaju9ja: Thanks for giving a sensible response to my quiz! I agreed with you all in all; however, being call Omo ale is not something anyone wish for! Thou it is not specifically mention in Nigeria constitution but the society and culture in which we exist do! As for constitutional right everyone is entitle it, to extend granted by the law; being a bastard or not! Me for one would not want anyone to address as bastard, regardless whether am born a bastard or not... |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Abiagirl777(f): 9:18am On Jul 19, 2014 |
enomakos: abeg ask them oo the child bears de name of the grand father .ie,the mother's family name |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by ayobase(m): 9:22am On Jul 19, 2014 |
who own the child no go dey o uf the father na ine better wealthy and famous guy. the child sef go bear the father's name even if the papa no show concern sef......na joke I dey, but there is iota of truth. what about people from Benue state. whats the status of ownership and possession there? 2face as a casw study.. guys, pls u cant afford to be nobody o. 2face na our mates o and those children dey bear idibia despite the odds. as for igbo, the guy might be b unlucky if the girl's family is seeking and desperatly in need of male child. |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by crusader01(m): 9:24am On Jul 19, 2014 |
nossycheek:If you do that,and the child a later meet his father you will never be forgiven. You may succeed in burying the truth for awhile but one day it will resurface. |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Bbklopsy: 9:25am On Jul 19, 2014 |
rozzay: . Infact dis is a gud option, ill also tell him dat he was in a plane crash sef so no idea were he s buried.u can only undastnd best wen he s grown up |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by nonjebose(m): 9:31am On Jul 19, 2014 |
Jamean: First of all let's get it clear that ownership differs from possession. Any child born is owned by both parents irrespective of the circumstances at the time of birth. Thereafter, either of them can have possession of the child as they resolve.Urhobo man no dey dull na. 1 Like |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by offshoreking: 9:34am On Jul 19, 2014 |
nossycheek: In Igbo culture, a child born out of wedlock belongs to the girl's family and whoever marries her later, may have the child if he desires, otherwise, he/she remains with his/her mother's family. Are you sure you from Igbo Land? In my own path of Igbo any child borne out of wedlock belong to the man, male child or female child, woman doesn't own child in my place. |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Bobo121(m): 9:36am On Jul 19, 2014 |
Jamean: First of all let's get it clear that ownership differs from possession. Any child born is owned by both parents irrespective of the circumstances at the time of birth. Thereafter, either of them can have possession of the child as they resolve.GBAM! Mavo,u fine 4 wafi chick oh 1 Like |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Bbklopsy: 9:45am On Jul 19, 2014 |
Paternityt test answers it all - Basic genetics. Only n except d man is a Broke |
Re: Who Owns The Child Born Out Of Wedlock (unmarried Relationship) by Idowuogbo(f): 10:02am On Jul 19, 2014 |
nossycheek:Surely that child will hate ur guts if he/she ends up with the TRUTH. Try born my type and deprive me off better Nwa daddy moments, i'll write you off straight. Nonsense! |
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