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The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Lukgaf(m): 4:57am On Sep 04, 2020
"‘Not a word does he (or she) utter but there is a watcher by him ready (to record it).’ [50:18] "

Praise be to Allah.

The Muslim has to control his tongue and not speak unless he says something good.

Al-Bukhari and Muslim narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him speak good or else keep silent …”

Al-Nawawi (may Allah have mercy on him) said: “If he wants to speak, then if what he wants to say is good and he is confident that he will be rewarded for it, whether it is obligatory or praiseworthy, then let him speak, but if it does not seem to him that it is good and he will be rewarded for it, then let him refrain from speaking, whether he thinks it is haram (impermissible) or makrooh (disliked) or permissible. Based on this, it is recommended to refrain from saying permissible words and we are enjoined to avoid this, lest it lead us into something that is haram or makrooh, which is what happens in many cases or in most cases. Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):

‘Not a word does he (or she) utter but there is a watcher by him ready (to record it).’ [50:18]

Al-Imam al-Shafi’i understood the hadeeth (narration) to mean that if a person wants to say something, he should think about it: if it seems to him that it will not do any harm, then he should speak, but if he thinks that it will do some harm or he thinks that this is most likely, then he should refrain from speaking.”

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) commanded us to control our tongues in more than one hadeeth, such as that narrated by al-Tirmidhi from ‘Uqbah ibn ‘Amir (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: “I said, ‘O Messenger of Allah, what is salvation?’ He said, ‘Control your tongue, keep to your house and weep over your sin.’” Classed as saheeh (authentic) by al-Albani.

Al-Tirmidhi also narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to Mu’adh (may Allah be pleased with him), after teaching him some of the laws of Islam, “Shall I not tell you what is the foundation of all that?” I [Mu’adh] said: “Of course, O Prophet of Allah.” He took hold of his tongue and said, “Control this.” I said, “O Prophet of Allah, will we be held responsible for what we say with it?” He said, “May your mother be bereft of you, O Mu’adh! Will the people be thrown into Hell on their faces or on their noses for anything other than the harvest of their tongues?” Classed as saheeh by al-Albani.

The hadeeth enjoins refraining from indulging in specific things, because this is something that is of no benefit to a person, and indeed it may cause him a great deal of harm in his spiritual and worldly affairs.

It was narrated from Ibn Mas’ood (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “If my Companions are mentioned, then keep quiet; if the stars are mentioned, then keep quiet; and if the divine decree is mentioned, then keep quiet.” (Narrated by al-Tabarani and classed as saheeh / authentic).

This hadeeth indicates that it is not permissible for a person to speak badly of the Companions of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), and that he should keep quiet about the disputes that occurred among them, because speaking badly of them or criticizing them implies that one is rejecting what Allah said about them in the Quran, where He praised them by saying (interpretation of the meaning):

“And the foremost to embrace Islam of the Muhajiroon (emigrants) and the Ansar (helpers) and also those who followed them exactly (in faith). Allah is well-pleased with them as they are well-pleased with Him. He has prepared for them gardens under which rivers flow (Paradise), to dwell therein forever. That is the supreme success.” [9:100]

And Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah. And those who are with him are severe against disbelievers, and merciful among themselves. You see them bowing and falling down prostrate (in prayer), seeking bounty from Allah and (His) good pleasure. The mark of them (i.e. of their faith) is on their faces (foreheads) from the traces of prostration (during prayers).”

[48:29]

This is how Allah has described them in His Book, so no doubt they are of just character and are the best and greatest of mankind. So no one hates them but a hypocrite and no one loves them but a believer.

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allah have mercy on him) said:

“One of the basic principles of Ahl al-Sunnah wa’l-Jama’ah (followers of prophetic tradition) is that they think and say nothing to criticize the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), as Allah has described them in the verse in which He says (interpretation of the meaning):

‘And those who came after them say: Our Lord! Forgive us and our brethren who have preceded us in faith, and put not in our hearts any hatred against those who have believed. Our Lord! You are indeed full of kindness, Most Merciful.’

[69:10]

And they obey the command of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him): ‘Do not curse my Companions, for by the One in Whose hand is my soul, if any one of you were to spend the equivalent of Mount Uhud in gold, he would not reach the status of one of them, nor even come half way.’ (Agreed upon).” Majmoo’ al-Fataawa, 3/152.

Abu Zar’ah (may Allah have mercy on him) said:

“If you see a man criticizing any one of the sahabah (Companions), then know that he is a heretic, because the Quran is true, and the Messenger is true, and what he brought is true, and no one conveyed all of that to us but the sahabah. So whoever criticizes them means, in effect, to say that the Quran and Sunnah (prophetic teachings) are false, so it is more appropriate that he should be criticized and ruled to be a heretic who is misguided.”

Al-Sawa’iq al-Muhriqah ‘ala Ahl al-Rafd wa’l-Dalal wa’l-Zandaqah.

With regard to the second part of the hadeeth, which enjoins refraining from speaking about the stars, what is referred to by that – and Allah knows best – is seeking guidance by the stars concerning matters that are unseen, as the people of the jahiliyyah (pre-Islamic days of ignorance) used to do by means of astrology, such as using the movement of heavenly bodies to indicate when certain earthly events would occur, such as the blowing of the wind, rainfall, changes in prices, and other matters which they claimed to know from the movements of heavenly bodies. They used to say that whoever got married under a particular star, then such and such would happen to him, or whoever traveled under a particular star, such and such would happen to him, and whoever was born under a particular star would be lucky or unlucky, etc.

(See Kitab al-Tawheed by al-Shaykh Salih al-Fawzan. See also Fatawa al-‘Aqeedah by al-Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen, where he makes some very useful comments).

With regard to the third part of the hadeeth, which refers to refraining from speaking about the divine decree (al-qadar), Abu Ja’far al-Tahhawi (may Allah have mercy on him) said:

“The divine decree is a secret known which Allah has hidden from His creation. No angel who is close to Him and no Prophet whom He sent knows that. Pursuing such matters only leads to failure and deprivation of the mercy of Allah, and it leads to injustice, so beware of looking into the matter, thinking about it and wondering about it. Allah has kept knowledge of His decree from His slaves, and has forbidden them to pursue the matter, as He says in His Book (interpretation of the meaning):

‘He cannot be questioned as to what He does, while they will be questioned.’

[21:23]

So whoever questions what Allah does has rejected the ruling of the Book, and whoever rejects the ruling of the Book is a kafir (disbeliever).” Sharh al-‘Aqeedah al-Tahhawiyyah.

So the Muslim has to submit to Allah in all His affairs, and know that whatever happens to him could never have missed him, and what misses him could never have happened to him. There is a lot that may be said on this topic. May Allah bless the man who believes in the will and decree of Allah without indulging in philosophical discussion about the matter.

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/9410/types-of-speech-to-refrain-from

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Kherdija(f): 6:59am On Sep 04, 2020
Allahumma Ameen.May the All mighty Direct us to the Right path and make us Adhere to the straight path.

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by motayoayinde: 7:25am On Sep 04, 2020
Lukgaf:
"‘Not a word does he (or she) utter but there is a watcher by him ready (to record it).’ [50:18] "



https://islamqa.info/en/answers/9410/types-of-speech-to-refrain-from

KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK BRO.
MAY ALLAH GIVE YOU MORE STRENGTH, MORE WISDOM AND MORE REWARD
BAARAKALLAHU FEEK.

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Risingblue008(m): 9:54am On Sep 04, 2020
Story for d gods,worst religion ever livet

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Havertz(m): 9:58am On Sep 04, 2020
May Allah give us more strength

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by money121(m): 9:58am On Sep 04, 2020
Ok

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by EyezofGod120: 9:58am On Sep 04, 2020
Na dem dey holly pass na dem dey kill pass

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by jamata20: 9:59am On Sep 04, 2020
I'm not a Muslim o
Pls how can I change what I mistakenly put on my profile about the believing in prophet and Co

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Havertz(m): 10:00am On Sep 04, 2020
Risingblue008:
Story for d gods,worst religion ever livet
may Allah forgives u

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by jamata20: 10:00am On Sep 04, 2020
EyezofGod120:
Na dem dey holly pass na dem dey kill pass

Do u know how to remove the stuff about believing in Allah from one's profile?

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Enwhen(m): 10:02am On Sep 04, 2020
Yet some of you will still Cary bomb, and join ISIS, Boko haram, alqaedia


Confused people ... Even traditional religion , will NOT take up arms against anybody no matter the provocation ... Terrorists religion...the problem to the world.

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Abdulmalik052(m): 10:03am On Sep 04, 2020
EyezofGod120:
Na dem dey holly pass na dem dey kill pass
U sef know say na rubbish u post here.

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by EyezofGod120: 10:04am On Sep 04, 2020
Abdulmalik052:

U sef know say na rubbish u post here.
u seff know say if dem wan bomb na Allah Akbar dem dey chant

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Abdulmalik052(m): 10:04am On Sep 04, 2020
jamata20:
I'm not a Muslim o
Pls how can I change what I mistakenly put on my profile about the believing in prophet and Co
Were you compelled to comment in the first instance or you were just fiddling around NL?

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Dominiqueismad: 10:04am On Sep 04, 2020
Yes, what's the Muhammad rulings on having doggie with my boyfriend in hotel?

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Abalado(f): 10:05am On Sep 04, 2020
Abeg who read d whole thing finish make he or she explain to me abeg,,e too long o

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Excuses: 10:05am On Sep 04, 2020
I have to commend you for such a wonderful and awesome post..my second advice would be for you to take this upon yourself as a mission to ensure the message of Allah is transmitted in its purity without the dogmas of human understanding devoid of faults and imperfection..

Young scholarly Arabic graduates should be in charge of conducting prayers in the mosques preaching Allah's True message of peace and love.

Not most of the old imams who preach hate and fuel religious sentiments amongst human instead of love which SAW himself taught..

Peace be unto you....

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Nobody: 10:05am On Sep 04, 2020
What and see how our useless brothers in Christ will come and be making noise here, while our pastors are buying private Jets junketing around the world with our tithes,Praying for politicians shamelessly as if our CAN is a political party, don't have mouth or pen to criticize them. Na Muslim thread we go come dey make Noise.
Shame...

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Abdulmalik052(m): 10:05am On Sep 04, 2020
EyezofGod120:
u seff know say if dem wan bomb na Allah Akbar dem dey chant
Yeah. Same way those cultists apprehended y'day claimed they used to chant it....
Hypocrite

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Abdulmalik052(m): 10:08am On Sep 04, 2020
Birchi33:
What and see how our useless brothers in Christ will come and be making noise here, while our pastors are buying private Jets junketing around the world with our tithes,Praying for politicians shamelessly as if our CAN is a political party, don't have mouth or pen to criticize them. Na Muslim thread we go come dey make Noise.
Shame...
Tell them o
Looks like they're jobless or something or they're just being unfortunate...

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Excuses: 10:08am On Sep 04, 2020
Enwhen:


Yet some of you will still Cary bomb, and join ISIS, Boko haram, alqaedia


Confused people ... Even traditional religion , will NOT take up arms against anybody no matter the provocation ... Terrorists religion...the problem to the world.

Stop this please am begging you!
Don't use the behavior of few people to judge majority..

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by EyezofGod120: 10:08am On Sep 04, 2020
Abdulmalik052:

Yeah. Same way those cultists apprehended y'day claimed they used to chant it....
Hypocrite
,,you don't know what to say again

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by jamata20: 10:10am On Sep 04, 2020
Abdulmalik052:

Were you compelled to comment in the first instance or you were just fiddling around NL?

Didn't u see where I wrote Mistakenly

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Abdulmalik052(m): 10:10am On Sep 04, 2020
EyezofGod120:
,,you don't know what to say again
Lol. It's you who doesn't know what to say cos you know you're nothing but a troll and hypocrite who looks out for Muslim threads on Friday to dish out rubbish for cheap likes...

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Excuses: 10:12am On Sep 04, 2020
Dominiqueismad:
Yes, what's the Muhammad rulings on having doggie with my boyfriend in hotel?

Stop this if you know that ur a true child of God please stop this..

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Abdulmalik052(m): 10:12am On Sep 04, 2020
jamata20:


Didn't u see where I wrote Mistakenly
Oh.
Sorry sir, but you saw where I asked if you were fiddling around NL too....
Anyways, I think it'll efface when you comment on other threads or so...
Not sure tho....

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Dominiqueismad: 10:13am On Sep 04, 2020
Excuses:


Stop this if you know that ur a true child of God please stop this..
excuse me, what's your excuse for typing this?

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by Enwhen(m): 10:15am On Sep 04, 2020
Kherdija:
Allahumma Ameen.May the All mighty Direct us to the Right path and make us Adhere to the straight path.



What stupid right path ??, That killed my innocent uncle who is not a Christian or Muslim ?... A path that have led many idiots to suicide mission ? , A path that is causing pains to many , preventing the world from having peace...


I have tried to reason with Islam , but I found no reason, how do u propagate the teachings without killing people ?, Can u go to tell people about Islam and Allah in the way of the jahoval witness people ?, NO, you always want war, and you have always been a loser , because The almighty God(Allah) is angry with you ...Allah has always place you a second class and a loser because of your blindness, attrocities , sins ... On the last day , none of you will see the paradise and Allah will destroy all of u for denying the world peace... Just imagine a world without Islam, there would be no terrorists...people will live peacefully... Imagine calling the name Allah is great and killing the creature of the same Allah... You people need to talk to yourselves...

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by AkwaIbomMan(m): 10:15am On Sep 04, 2020
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Kherdija:
Allahumma Ameen.May the All mighty Direct us to the Right path and make us Adhere to the straight path.
[/s]

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by EyezofGod120: 10:17am On Sep 04, 2020
Abdulmalik052:

Lol. It's you who doesn't know what to say cos you know you're nothing but a troll and hypocrite who looks out for Muslim threads on Friday to dish out rubbish for cheap likes...
,,I'm saying the truth, or do I lie ??

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Re: The Types Of Speech Muslim Needs To Refrain From by AkwaIbomMan(m): 10:18am On Sep 04, 2020
[s]
Birchi33:
What and see how our useless brothers in Christ will come and be making noise here, while our pastors are buying private Jets junketing around the world with our tithes,Praying for politicians shamelessly as if our CAN is a political party, don't have mouth or pen to criticize them. Na Muslim thread we go come dey make Noise.
Shame...
[/s] Shut up

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