Ujujoan:

No need oh . . some women are resigned to their fate.

However I'm humbly inviting you yo my wedding . . I've decided to marry myself!

Yes o. Let your right hand put a ring on your left hand.

It takes two to marry. The girl wants June the guy wants November, They finally decided on an point in the middle which is September and you women are still not satisfied? Na real wa for women o

The guy is not ready for marriage in June, If the girl wants to marry in June by force she can take your option and marry herself or rent a groom

Ujujoan:

However I'm humbly inviting you yo my wedding . . I've decided to marry myself!

You took to my advice!

way to go, obedient girl

dayokanu:

Yes o. Let your right hand put a ring on your left hand.

It takes two to marry. The girl wants June the guy wants November, They finally decided on an point in the middle which is September and you women are still not satisfied? Na real wa for women o

The guy is not ready for marriage in June, If the girl wants to marry in June by force she can take your option and marry herself or rent a groom

That they decided to wed in September doesn't change much. The man will still have his lavish wedding which the woman doesn't ant . . .  her sister will still be absent which she doesn't want either. They might as well wed in November and it won't matter to her.

But the the gospel according to men says . . .  do unto your wife to be only what you don't want others to do unto you!    

kokoye:

You took to my advice!

way to go, obedient girl

Yes oh . . you are such a good adviser, I couldn't resist!

Uju,

The bride wants June, The groom is not ready to be married in June

The groom wants November

So what should they do?

How are you sure they would have a lavish wedding in September?

dayokanu:

Uju,

The bride wants June, The groom is not ready to be married in June

The groom wants November

So what should they do?

How are you sure they would have a lavish wedding in September?

Whatever man . . . That one concern them!

Oya come meet me for room

Mccccccccccchew! Ashewo.

Why is your mind so dirty?

I said meet me in the room i didnt say lets "Collabo"

Is Ashewo the only thing ppl do in a room?

Yes it's only 'ashewo' thing that people like you do in the room!

In my own room, I pray, I read, I sleep etc.

In Uju's room its only Ashawo thing she does.

Talk about a perv. Anyways I likey

Uju, did Dayo just call you a pervert??

I know you WONT take that!

@poster, if both of you cannot harmoniously fix a date for your wedding, I wonder who will help you do it. I wonder what will happen when you are married; you will go on a daily basis to ask for advice for one problem or the other? Remember you are leaving your family & will be united as man & wife. Your husband will be the head. If you want the marriage in June & he says November, as he wants an elaborate wedding, why not accept. You only need to ask your sister to re-schedule her visit to November. In marriage both man & woman must have to learn to work together harmoniously. Your husband should also learn to cooperate with you on certain issues so that harmony can be maintained. That attitude of either of you refusing to shift ground when trying to resolve an issue, only means you need to still work on yourselves before getting married. Know you are going into a lifelong relationship, & be determined to make it succeed. And lastly avoid inviting a third-party to help resolve your problems. This will create problems for your marriage. Good luck.

@uju u seem to be the only one dat understands my stand on this issue but we did reach a compromise whereby

we reached a compromise on the date, nature of event n my sister's trip, cos i made him understand dat she's the only one ave got, so we're luking forward to a weding we'd both enjoy .

good for you guys.

enjoy.

uwani:

we reached a compromise on the date, nature of event n my sister's trip, cos i made him understand dat she's the only one ave got, so we're luking forward to a weding we'd both enjoy .

I'm glad to hear that . , marriage is supposed to be about sharing and love, not selfish ultimatums!

kokoye:

Uju, did Dayo just call you a pervert??

I know you WONT take that!

I know what his problem is . . I've decided to let him be for the sake of sanity!

^^^

you give up easily . . punk! 

light a fire under his balls or something . . .damn!!

Lol . .  Chei . .  I didn't know I'd live to see the day when kokoye will actually be advocating for a fight.

Things don spoil finish. 

Me sef like fight women especially indoor fight.

I talk am say I know wetin you problem be. Na only God fit help you!

God would not come down to do anything by himself.

Since you know it, why dont you help me?

Ujujoan:

Lol . .  Chei . .  I didn't know I'd live to see the day when kokoye will actually be advocating for a fight.

Things don spoil finish.  

lol

Uju baby, no worries.

I know you'll always be fair in your battles