I am a Nigerian.
I love my naija, although we are all waiting for the long promised restructuring.

But I am scared .yes really scared.
These days I am reluctant to speak or enter a conversation with Nigerian ladies.
To start a discussion with them scared me.
Not like am proud or egocentric. No no.
Just that am tired of the outcome.
It's predictable.

I shudder at the rate ladies spread their legs these days under the "slightest provocation".

Well not that am rich or handsome or powerful.
But conversations with the ladies these days quickly degenerate into sex .
well it's not good even though it's good.

Why would I meet you in a party, wedding , vigil, seminar, church, bus, plane, bank, mortuary, police station and the next thing is that you're giving me sweets in the middle?
Huhn.
How come sex became this cheap, with legs opening wide "everywhere you go?"

When durex condoms came out with a 12yrs research analytics , depicting Nigeria women as the most sexually active worldwide and our married women the most played, I thought they lied. (I was naiive).

Now I know it's true.