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Unhappy In Bed? Should You Talk To Your Partner? by eromance: 4:17pm On Mar 03, 2011
So, is it a good idea to let your partner know that you are unhappy in bed?

Of course it is. A dull or boring sex life can have a negative impact on a relationship.

It is also important to note that an open line of communication is an important component of a happy and healthy relationship,

both in the physical and emotional sense.

If you cannot talk to your partner about sex, how do you honestly expect your relationship to continue on?
Re: Unhappy In Bed? Should You Talk To Your Partner? by Mcleo007(m): 4:24pm On Mar 03, 2011
Hell yes! No 2 answers to that.
Re: Unhappy In Bed? Should You Talk To Your Partner? by Onchedu(m): 4:44pm On Mar 03, 2011
If the relationship was found and built on sex in the first place (like most relationships are these days), talking bout dissatisfactions of any kind in any department won't be so easy.

There are stages of intimacy, starting from the middle or end leaves a void beneath that won't easily be filled when there's a celling above.

Relationships should be progressive, one step at a time. If u feel u are going to fast (and it's not cos some other dude/guy has caught Ur attention) it's ok to slow down till head and heart are at equilibrium.
Re: Unhappy In Bed? Should You Talk To Your Partner? by livedit(f): 5:44pm On Mar 03, 2011
DEFINITELY! But in a loving and caring way. I say be compassionate about it. If something is not working, then politely let them know. Talk to them, guide them to the right spot to satisfy you. How would they know if you never say anything. They getting theirs and Livedit not down for that "faking it". Because you are the one losing out in the end. You have to take control of your orgasm and speak out to your partner and let them know what's working and what's not working in this case. Sexual compatibility is very important when in a relationship so that's something you definitely need to tackle immediately.
Re: Unhappy In Bed? Should You Talk To Your Partner? by MrCork17: 5:50pm On Mar 03, 2011
livedit:

DEFINITELY!  But in a loving and caring way.  I say be compassionate about it.  If something is not working, then politely let them know. Talk to them, guide them to the right spot to satisfy you.  How would they know if you never say anything.  They getting theirs and Livedit not down for that "faking it".  Because you are the one losing out in the end.  You have to take control of your heavenly feeling and speak out to your partner and let them know what's working and what's not working in this case.  Sexual compatibility is very important when in a relationship so that's something you definitely need to tackle immediately.

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