Therez more to this tale... Chacha pls be strong

Hmmm

IamD18:

I don't know this Victoria, but I can tell that she has no husband of her own, or possibly a single mother, divorcee or not in any relationship.

She sounds so bitter like she's been jilted by men.

I think women by default, are low key happy when they see their fellow ladies single or divorced

send ur queries to saint obi, Zack orji, Fred amata and Charles okafor they might know what poisoned Victoria’s mind.

Must it be abuse?? Why is she trying to put words in Chacha mouth? Some women just like to think the worst of husbands. Always demonizing men as abusers.

When an adult says "I wasn't abused", and you think she is lying, then just pretend you believe her cos she is the one wearing the shoes.

Hmm.

What I'm sitll yet to get is why anyone would end up with an abuser... I mean... They must have seen these red flags during courtship but still to chose to go into marriage with such men. Is it because of fear of the common cliche "times no longer on your side" the society has learnt to fill our ears with? Or is it the love of money? Like the precious of FFK and co?

This seems to be the thrend and (abuse in relationships and marriage) it has to stop now before I become the next President and lay a law that will attract castration as punishment for any wife-beater.

Get well soon, dear.

In the next 50 years, marriage will become obsolete

Is it by force to be abused?
Person say them no abuse her, you say them abuse her. Which kind wahala be this

IamD18:
It's none of her business, but she had to poke-nose.

I don't know this Victoria....

She was a nollywood actress in the late 90s and early 2000.
She later repented and joined a theology institute where she has graduated and now a minister of "God".


I also think she's probably divorced or in a bad rship...whichever way, I am quite sure she is talking from her bitter experience.

Especially emotional abuse.. that thing is even deadlier than physical abuse

#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

All this clowns should go and sit down..
Na so Tiwa savage cry come meet us..
Today she is twerking on Wizkid Loins..
Confused lots..
Always playing victim..

Our people need to change their attitudes toward single mothers.

We are all part of the problem. Some Landlords won't rent out their houses for single mothers or single ladies. Some men don't want to marry single mothers, whereas, some single mothers mileage is far better than so called single ladies. That's why most of them are dying there.

OhBiafra:
Yoruba commot for road

Receive sense. Vitoria is from Enugu.

Chacha’s brother is on IG claiming his sister didn’t make the video of her own freewill. Telling the husband to behave well and let sleeping dogs lie...

There are probably issues, but with the level of contradictions from the family- they should enter their house and settle it (away from the prying eyes of social media). It is just gist for us, after that we move, while they deal with the effect of their actions.

Na dx kinda people dey scatter person mind

See as another person dey take panadol for another person headache

Definitely, hubby has something he's blackmailing her with. Yeye dey smell. We teach women to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller to be placating folks that don't deserve all that. She was literally shrivelling up under the marriage but make we leave am for God.

NobleAngell:
She said she wasn't abused, will you force it on her?
We all know she's lying tho. In her first video she said and I quote, "I'm done with the marriage, I'm leaving with my life."
She must have had a rethink or was probably convinced/threatened to deny it.

U dey UK dey yan any how. Amebo

These people again.

They're never at fault, neither will they ever take responsibility for anything.

If man or woman can pridict what wil happen after marriage, we cannot be hearing my husband blow me at my head my wife bite me at my cheek. imagine what a fake good caracter causes after marriage.

Is she the one, to tell her how she is feeling?

Is it by force?! She said she wasn't abused, even if she was she had filed for a divorce and checked into a mental home.. so as a smart woman she has decided not to use the domestic abuse story to tarnish the image of her former husband and father of her kids

Why is Inyama so intent on believing that this woman suffered domestic violence?

omooba969:
These people again.

They're never at fault, neither will they ever take responsibility for anything.

....That's it oo.
Always claiming the victim.

I do not support any for of violence... But in this world me are always on the edge

Everyone is talking of physical abuse, but no one is talking of VERBAL ABUSE wish sometimes has more devastating effect than physical abuse.

Just because the scars of verbal abuse are not physical and cannot be adequately weighed by authorities doesn't mean its not there.

A lot of men undergo torments of verbal abuse from their spouse, but men being who they are tend to swallow it. The effects are devastating.

My ladies, no matter how holy, decent or well trained a man is, every man posses inner tengancy to hit a woman, it a function of his far he is pushed. A lot of men restrain this doesn't mean the tendency isn't there.

Its very painful to hear a woman you go out for, risk your life for, struggle under rain and sun for; all in a bid to provide a better future and make her happy, rains abuses on you and degrades you. You may not fully comprehend this unless you have balls

I do not support violence, but women should try all means to make the home a comfort zone for men, only then you will see the best part of men.

What's happening to this girl ?
She looks like the most decent lady in Nollywood

booscy:
Who's she again?

She i an actress if you can still remember the movie Domitilla.

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IamD18:
It's none of her buisness, but she had to pokenose.

I don't know this Victoria, but I can tell that she has no husband of her own, or possibly a single mother, divorcee or not in any relationship.

She sounds so bitter like she's been jilted by men.

I think divorcees and single mother are by default, low key happy when they see their fellow ladies single or divorced like them.

and you are a woman

Misery sure loves company.

Nobody threatened her,the father is a former commissioner in enugu state and well connected so nobody will do shit to her.

NobleAngell:
She said she wasn't abused, will you force it on her?
We all know she's lying tho. In her first video she said and I quote, "I'm done with the marriage, I'm leaving with my life."
She must have had a rethink or was probably convinced/threatened to deny it.

LaReinaa:
Especially emotional abuse.. that thing is even deadlier than physical abuse

That’s my problem with you women..now emotional abuse is more deadly than physical pummelling?? But when you abuse a man with your spicy tongues you expect him to take it and swallow it down with a jug of water? When he decides to abuse you back emotionally instead of physically it becomes deadlier because na man do am? Lol you guys are jokers.

Victoria Inyama has said it all and that's the truth. Senseless ones will be abusing her, saying she has said rubbish. Chacha should just make herself strong for her kids, try and fix things up with her husband, however, if things have gone beyond reconciliation, they may go their separate ways peacefully. May God help them.