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Why You Need To Forgive. by Nobody: 8:19pm On Oct 09, 2020
When you talk about forgiveness most people think it's such an easy task which just needs to be pronounced.
What do you gain if you still hold grudges? Why does it hurt so much when the word forgiveness is mentioned.? How do you let go of all the hurtful memories.?

We all commit different types of offense both consciously and unconsciously. Sometimes for someone to truly forgive you, you must admit your mistakes and promise never to repeat it again.

One thing we humans need to always let go is Pride.

Pride has killed so many good people and a lot of relationship as well. If you don't learn to apologize when you are wrong trust me you are in to 'bag' a lot of hates from people.

Talking about forgiveness, to truly forgive someone who hurt or betrayed you so very hard but actually, it's a gradual process.

'For every action, there's an equal and opposite reaction' if you hurt a person wether intentionally or not the best action to take is ask for forgiveness.

You need to also learn forgive without being apologized to. Many people don't know the meaning of acknowledge ones wrong deeds. What about the where the offender passes away? Or when they relocates to another country and you're not in contacts? sometimes people offend us without even knowing.!

It might be difficult, but try to forgive people even before they apologize just for your own peace of mind. Carrying grudges is like carrying a house on your shoulder.

Grudges would only weigh you down and make you never to move forward in life. It's better to leave the past where there belong instead of tagging along HATRED, ENVY, JEALOUSY AND ANGER.

The Bible also ask us to forgive one another's offense. It is just and right to acknowledge once mistakes and make amends for them.

No relationship is without arguments or misunderstanding. Learn to forgive your partner when he / she does something wrong.

Sometimes you may experience heartbreaks or betrayals, let go and move on with your life.
Sticking too much to the past may leave you a bitter person. While falling in love also learn to be the forgiving type.

There may come times when you feel sticking to your own circle is the only option but when you forgive, you acquire a new type of uplifting from those burdens..

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