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Re: . by BlackfireX: 12:25pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Don't take my advise: Your problems were already waiting for you before you were born, there is a greatness or talent in you ... Which must be killed or saved, see anyone who tries to help you will put himself/ herself in trouble.. Any pastor who prays for you is also in trouble, except you go to diabolical ones who will help to tight the evil rope, I will advice you to go to MFM headquarters , and pray PRAYERS to your Maker the God that answer by fire... |
Re: . by 1stbest(m): 12:41pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
BlackfireX:God can never suffer who he created , and pls dont quote me again, |
Re: . by alezuv: 12:44pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Take your bible right now if you do not have meet your neighbour who has. Read psalm 91 and 23 very slowly every morning once you get up. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psalm%2091&version=KJV https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psalm%2023&version=KJV 1 Like |
Re: . by 1stbest(m): 12:58pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Righteousness89: Truvel: Mineisgrace: Tony142: Pancakeey: Tony142:. Thanks, can't go to check up anymore because no means of income, i try borrowing to buy a bike and i get scammed in the process, please can anyone help me in any possible way ? 2 Likes |
Re: . by 1stbest(m): 7:26pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Hello ,, |
Re: . by femmyapson(m): 7:48pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
1stbest:it is... what kind of help do you want |
Re: . by 1stbest(m): 9:07pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
femmyapson:any type of help , i needed something i will be doing to see food eat , if i can get a bike or something like that sir |
Re: . by Nobody: 11:04pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Humanoid01:Its easy to say this when you've never been in a kind of situation that makes death more attractive than living. It takes deep courage to willingly take your own life. |
Re: . by Humanoid01(m): 7:24am On Nov 05, 2020 |
MhisTahrah:Lol you talk as if you know me. You have no idea what I've been through, or what I'm going through. |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:58pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
Humanoid01:Truth is you cannot use your own experience to judge others. Not everyone is as emotionally strong. Besides situation differs, until you have worn the shoes, you cannot know where it pinches. |
Re: . by Humanoid01(m): 5:28pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
MhisTahrah:I didn't use my experience to judge others, I only responded to your opinion about me not facing any difficult situation to the point of contemplating suicide. Besides, how do you know if I've gone through worse situations than those who have committed/contemplated suicide or not? Being emotionally strong is not an innate ability, it happens consciously either from personal experience or just learning from other people's stories. I'm not the strongest emotionally, but I'm hanging in there because I know there's always a reason for every struggle. That gives me hope. If there wasn't and the ultimate goal of my struggles is for me to end my own life, then why didn't I just die by accident or something? It doesn't make sense. 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 5:38pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
Humanoid01:You're projecting your feelings on others.You believe there's a reason for every struggle so others must automatically believe so too.Why should we struggle in the first place?And aren't we all going to die?No matter how much hope you've got or the multitude of reasons for life struggles, the surest thing is death. In fact, committing suicide is dying on one's own terms. |
Re: . by Humanoid01(m): 5:59pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
MhisTahrah: For every struggle you have, there's always a first person to have experienced it. What if everyone commits suicide for each struggle they go through? That defeats the whole point of existence in the first place. You seem like someone who's on the brink of giving up and you're looking for a justification for that. It doesn't work that way ma'am. People wey dey survive difficult situations nor get two heads. More important than coming out of difficult situations are the lessons you take with you. Instead of being an object of pity, you should rather opt for being an inspiration to others. Unfortunately, we're in a messed up world that we can't fix. We can only do our best according to our abilities. We can't change what is, we can only determine how we respond and yes, everyone must believe there's a reason for every struggle. I'll leave you with these words and a tip: Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react ~ Charles Swindoll. You can read the book "As A Man Thinketh" by James Allen. 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 6:30pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
Humanoid01:What's the point of existence in the first place?I like to think that while difficult situations may be similar, they are unique to the person(s) experiencing them. All your optimistic quotes are only applicable certain situations like in financial difficulties.Pray to never experience things that can break one's will to live.You're being narrow-minded here, let's consider rape and bullying, these are things that can destroy one from the inside. I am not sure I'm being coherent, this is a sensitive topic for me. |
Re: . by Humanoid01(m): 6:55pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
MhisTahrah:I sincerely sympathize with you for whatever you have experienced that made this a sensitive topic for you. I pray you have the strength to fight the battles that it has stirred up. I implore you not to treat those "optimistic quotes" faintly, it will achieve a lot. Believe me! It all starts in your mind. It's extremely sad to not have the will to live or even fight to, because your willpower is the core of your mind. I can't do anything for you to have that will but trust me, you need to. That's the first step of your journey to freedom. I am struggling, you are struggling, we are all struggling. It doesn't matter the uniqueness of the struggle, please stay positive and you'll never regret not giving up. Please I insist that you read the book I suggested, it's a powerful one. 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 8:18pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
Humanoid01:Amen to your prayer, thank you. How can I get the book? |
Re: . by Humanoid01(m): 10:20pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
MhisTahrah:If you're a fan of ebooks, you can simply download the PDF online or you can just get it from playstore. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by hardon1(m): 2:36am On Nov 06, 2020 |
1stbest: Pls do oooo. The population if this country is too much. Pls go and die |
Re: . by tsmith(f): 9:33am On Nov 07, 2020 |
1stbest: It's unfortunate that life has dealt you some curveballs and the environment and society isn't encouraging or conducive to easily eke a living. However it's also worth noting that in that same environment there may be others that have had it worse that you have and yet are faring better than you are. The difference would be the mindset. Look inward and reconsider some of your mindset. Things like people that are meant to help. No one owes you anything, atleast once you're past 18 years. That someone is related or known to you, and you believe they have the means to help doesn't mean they need to or have to. Yes man isn't an island and would often require upliftment from others. But again to my point above, help even if it may come may not always be from the avenues we think. Mental wellness is also from the mind. You may choose to look at the glass half empty or half full. The choice and outcomes is yours. My assertion from your write up is yes your situation is sad, sad enough that the thought of death to you may be an easy way out, however with your cry for help you aren't on that edge yet. And I pray you never get to it. What you need is help to be meaningfully engaged , and perhaps paraphrasing your appeal that way would have far more reaching positive effects. I.e. 1)I need a job. 2)This is my background. Thwse are the skills/passions etc I possess 3) these are the businesses/jobs etc I can do 4) These are my limitations(could be funds, training, relocation, ideas etc) preventing me from doing so. 4) these are ways you can help me overcome these hurdles and to achieve my goals/dreams etc All. Of the above would show you've gone through some thought process and are intentional and proactive about changing your situation. Do you want to give these a go? I and am sure many others would be able and happy to help if you have a good case. And should you need help with the thought process, drop me your number via email, I believe you already have mine. 1 Like |
Re: . by 1stbest(m): 3:26pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
tsmith: Thanks , i have reply your mail , |
Re: . by 1stbest(m): 7:48am On Nov 08, 2020 |
tsmith: Will it be possible to request for some fund to be able to start a business , ? even if it was in form of a loan , I will be paying back gradually |
Re: . by cooltola(m): 6:47pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Why are you suicidal? |
Re: . by NaijaCoverBlog(m): 7:49pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
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Re: . by 1stbest(m): 7:59pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
NaijaCoverBlog:if available, i am not joking pls , is their any way you can help? |
Re: . by DexterousOne(m): 8:02pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
1stbest: Please do not kill yourself.... Its important you stay alive You mind sharing with the house what the problem is? |
Re: . by 1stbest(m): 8:08pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Re: . by NaijaCoverBlog(m): 8:34pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
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Re: . by 1stbest(m): 8:41pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
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Re: . by 1stbest(m): 8:48pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
NaijaCoverBlog:in the process of looking for a help someone scam me off 10500 i borrow from old woman in the name loan registration , is thier away to recover the money pls, I still have some screenshots from the chat |
Re: . by NaijaCoverBlog(m): 9:43pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
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Re: . by 1stbest(m): 12:49am On Nov 10, 2020 |
NaijaCoverBlog:may you go through what i am going thru , and no body will take you serious, may people joke with your condition when ever you are in need of serious help. 1 Like |
Re: . by CAPSL0CKED: 4:44am On Nov 10, 2020 |
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