CHoccolaTE:
Men these days are the ones who are liabilities in marriage, very lazy and entitled golddiggers.

You want a woman that will be breadwinner and share the bills but you cannot share cooking and cleaning house and taking care of children equally. No, you still expect women to be in charge of the household even while she is stressing herself to provide money.

Marrying men of these days has no benefit whatsoever, it's just losses after losses, fvcking liabilities.

Sorry, I can see this ain't your fault. Change your mindset or you'll keep on fooling yourself

It all depend the way you want your families to look likes. If she is broke and you like her and her character is good to you while not update her so that she can be useful to you while you enjoy your family in peace.

When it come to relationship I think you choose who you like and who is inline with your spirit.

Yet another article that gets it all wrong. Marriage for love was invented in the 19th-20th century. People married much younger when love was secondary to marriage.
There are men who are not interested in marriage. But if you ask the other group, you will find completely different answers.

Many ladies see marriage as a podium of settling down by resigning themselves as full housewives. Married men sometimes encourage that so that they can be promiscuous

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virginprincess:
Zini you better respect yourself, don't let me insult you this night.

And what is your Insult going to do to him. The truth is that your reasoning ability is very poor.

It's simple. Marriage work for women.

I wish you this IJN. Amen

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

Sorry to say this as a woman, but please my brother, don't marry a woman without a job or handwork. If all she can offer is sex, cook and clean dump her!

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

You should be ashamed of yourself....

You open your mouth talk this thing... Very shameless

see talk! see mentality!

Anyway i no blame you! na the country you grow up to be in i go blame

virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

How will someone fold their hands and brain instead of trying to make little positive impacts in his/her space.

One thing that makes a partner attractive is for him/her to have purpose in life.

Not everytime, Honey welcome, I cooked blah blah blah.

virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

Uh?!

A bad economy is still the principal cause.

And that's what your political masters have caused.

The looting and corruption takes everyone's lives little by little without some realising it.

Then instead of the youth to come together and tackle the root source of the problem; some of the guys would venture into Yahoo. While the girls would turn themselves to prostitutes trying to befriend the same politicians that have shortchanged their destinies... all just for crumbs.

If the blackman wants to get out of this mess he's in, they all have to evolve at roughly the same time. Some have evolved a bit and have better perception; many haven't really evolved but are just spontaneously mad with the broken system. They also make up d majority not being able to marry as quickly as they would have liked.

Marriage is a trap.

Partially true.

Aside from entitlement mentality a lot of women display in this part of the world there's the possibility that she will be a completely different person by the time you marry her.

Men have also realised they can have a house, job, friends and children without getting married at all.

virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

incorrigible

virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

you must avoided because you are a plaque

Dominique come and see chomtin

If you get married and bring innocent kids to useless country called nigeria you have commit crime against humanity

Your kid in nigeria is Slave for elite and shooting practical for police

Forget justice Nigeria is that hell in the bible

Skepticus:


What are the valuable benefits of marriage to men these days outside raising kids and the deception called companionship?

Why give a generalistic view? . There are men who value marriage aside kids

Shame nor dey catch you

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

No single lie detected in the post. OP is 100% on point. Only the indoctrinated religious faithfools will argue in the contrary.

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

Ok go and find a rich man to marry, as if rich men would reason you like you are anything but a pig

I'm okay with women contributing equally to the family as long as the man doesn't insist on submission but sees himself and his wife as equals.


Before I got married, my husband never supported me financially. I used my tailoring business to care for myself and family.

Farki:
Partially true.

Aside from entitlement mentality a lot of women display in this part of the world there's the possibility that she will be a completely different person by the time you marry her.

[b]Men have also realised [/b]they can have a house, job, friends and children without getting married at all.

Most men not all of them

edoairways:

Why give a generalistic view? . There are men who value marriage aside kids

That was 50 years ago. Wake up from your sleep.

virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

Shoooo shooooo

Kranediggy:
Choi! Aspiring housewife spotted. Nne no go develop yourself and your mentality; be there looking for a man that will spend what your daddy can't spend on you. This is 21st Century o! Women are now becoming powerful and you're here wallowing in outdated lifestlye. Your type will press your man with iron...

Off the mic

The biggest reason comes from men angle, ...many guys find it difficult to hold their feet on ground, they cant feed themselves let alone family.

During the teenage years 14......25, guys must learn to prepare for future but majority will be leaving in figment, pursuing different girls, as their "primary assignments" without planning for future.

A guy that is supposed to learn work or trade, in other to establish himself will be loitering from one street to another like vagabond, looking for pussssy he wants to conquer, with a twinkle of eyes, a guy of 25 clocked 35, yet no income to start his own family.


Bible says a man and not a woman, who cannot feed his (nuclear) family, worse than infidel.

Wife is just to support, guys should learn how to do any legitimate work to finance his immediate family.

Don't be shame/shy to hustle for your own family!

dominique:
There's hardly a family I know where the wife doesn't cover a considerable amount of family expenses, so I don't know where all this crying and groaning is coming from. So in addition to taking care of kids and unending house chores, there's now pressure on the Nigerian wives to provide for the family. What exactly is the usefulness of the Nigerian husband in the 21st century? If only (working class) women know the type of favour they're doing this men in getting married to them, they won't be so desperate for marriage.

How useful do you want us to be?

Elaborate, pls