If you really want to be a magnet forget about chasing women, who love help brother what you need is to make money and see how women will flock around you. You don't need love make the sacrifice to forgo love and chase a net worth. I said net worth because money is an idea backed on confidence chase the things that make you money not money itself.
For ladies the story is quite different since making money filters the caliber of man that approaches you either way make it.. no one ever died from having too much money.