I am 32. I am planning to move overseas- America, Canada, Europe or Australia in that order. But I'm seriously considering settling down before I turn 35 or at most 35. My problem right now is having to decide if getting married before i travel will be a better idea considering how uncertain things might be for a new immigrant.

I can be skeptical towards ladies, very selective and reserved. So I want to hear your suggestions please..

Travel out and marry, else you'll end up sending your hard earned money from abroad to Nigeria for a supposed wife who'll be cheating around.




Travel out first bruv.

You'll see classy women that you'll marry there.

Arrrrrrrh

I will advise you marry first. Make sure you trust her and make sure you both would be sincere to each other before traveling, after sometimes you can proceed her visa.

If am were you!!

First thing first

For someone that's sceptical towards ladies, very selective and reserved.

Focus on your abroad, Mr

IamD18:
Travel out and marry, else you'll end up sending your hard earned money from abroad to Nigeria for a supposed wife who'll be cheating around.




Travel out first bruv.

You'll see classy women that'll marry there.

Meaning this is what you will do or that you are doing (i.e cheating on your man) that traveled?

you have not gotten visa nor do you have a girlfriend you want to marry yet. We know ya type.

my uncle traveled to US at 32, almost married the year he traveled in Nigeria.... a year after he married an American at 33 now he has his green card.... no time

Harmored:
my uncle traveled to US at 32, almost married the year he traveled in Nigeria.... a year after he married an American at 33 now he has his green card.... no time

Wow

parkervero:

Meaning this is what you will do or that you are doing (i.e cheating on your man) that traveled?

Who is this again, can't a lady express her opinion in peace again? Why all these hate for women here.

She gave the OP a candid advice and you are turning it against her, pull your skirt down Niggga.

IamD18:
Travel out and marry, else you'll end up sending your hard earned money from abroad to Nigeria for a supposed wife who'll be cheating around.




Travel out first bruv.

You'll see classy women that'll marry there.

Story

I rec

Kekereekun123:
you have not gotten visa nor do you have a girlfriend you want to marry yet. We know ya type.

Oga, better not tie ur future down with these nigerian women, a word is enough.

If you don’t want to use that money meant for traveling out for marriage expenses, better travel out now. Once you tie that knot, it will be harder to travel out.

my uncle traveled to US at 32, almost married the year he traveled in Nigeria.... a year after he married an American at 33 now he has his green card.... no time

That's a tough question. Is there someone you're in love with in Nigeria?

You are a single guy, this is one of the best positions one can be in when planning to migrate ... why would it even cross your mind to tie yourself down at this point?

Marry now and you will have to hustle twice as hard to take care of yourself, whilst also maintaining a woman back home and struggling to bring her over to where you are - of which ..if your plans fail or you're not able to secure your stay on time, she might get antsy and move on without you.

This is an unnecessary burden when you can easily find someone to settle down with abroad... there are lots of decent black British, black American, black Canadian girls of Nigerian heritage you can fall in love and build a future with - who will also be happy to help you secure your stay through marriage.

sweetmelanin:
You are a single guy, this is one of the best positions one can be in when planning to migrate ... why would it even cross your mind tie yourself down at this point?

Marry now and you will have to hustle twice as hard to take care of yourself, whilst also maintaining a woman back home and struggling to bring her over to where you are - of which ..if your plans fail or you're not able to secure your stay on time, she might get antsy and move on without you.

This is an unnecessary burden when you can easily find someone to settle down with abroad... there are lots of decent black British, black American, black Canadian girls of Nigerian heritage you can fall in love and build a future with - who will also be happy to help you secure your stay through marriage.

Oh...!! thank u so much. For this to come from a woman, I'm sure going to take this advice wholeheartedly.

Cousin9999:
That's a tough question. Is there someone you're in love with in Nigeria?

No.

THEM NO DEY TELL PERSON

Confirm!

IamD18:
Travel out and marry, else you'll end up sending your hard earned money from abroad to Nigeria for a supposed wife who'll be cheating around.




Travel out first bruv.

You'll see classy women that you'll marry there.

Never!

Don't you ever get married. Never!

Marriage ain't worth it.

The cons far outweigh the pros. Trust me.

Just marry her if you are satisfied with her behavior and you trust her

Why is everyone fleeing??
Doctors, Teachers,engineers, others and you
Who will fix this shit of a country chaii !!

WHEN YOU TRAVEL

Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright...
Tell her to take in na

I mean get her pregnant and do some introduction before you discharge atleast with that she will reduce are whoring

Just remain a bachelor........

Marry overseas...
Nigeria is full of olosho and destiny Killers chanting sai barber...

Help your unborn children...

Do All you can to run away from a country ruled by Buhari and supported by Yoruba Muslims...